Category: Love & Relationships

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Dr. OBARI Adeye CARTMAN, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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Dr._Obari_Cartman.jpg.2Relationships are a necessary means in our lives, good bad or indifferent, we are constantly striving to make them better. All in all, the bottom line is, a good relationship need:

  • respect
  • honesty
  • trust
  • love
  • companionship
  • mutual emotional support
  • intimate expression
  • economic security

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via Blog Talk Radio for special guest, Dr. OBARI Adeye CARTMAN, author of “Lady’s Man“, an African-centered book on consciousness and western psychology knowledge to help men become a true lady’s man.

The “conversation link” in this post makes it possible to access the show.

Don’t be square, meet me on the air!

 

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Love Dr Pamela Smith on the next “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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_MG_8055Relationships can be a trip as well as challenging. They can also be pain saking and filled with a whirlwind of emotions. But with romance comes love and with love, reality. The reality of the two imperfect individuals striving in a relationship.

Life is not perfect and neither are people, so how do we cope in love and relationships?

Tune in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via blog talk radio as I talk about Romance, Love and its Reality in Relationships with my special guest, love Dr. Pamela Smith.

A certified Loveologist and Master Love Coach from Loveology University, Dr. Smith (pictured above), assist individuals and relationship seekers in keeping love and achieving successful loving relationships.

If you’re in love you won’t want to miss this show!

The “conversation links” in this post make it possible to access the show. 

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Promoting Positive Black Images on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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5317677ccbdd3054228c87ef835dd0a5I’m going to keep it real by stating; there are many negative images of dysfunctional relationships in the breakdown of the black family unit. Especially images of healthy relationships of love and marriage amongst black men and women in today’s society. There are more single black woman as heads of households then ever before, as society depicts lack of commitment as a reality for black men.

With the growing number of shows like Empire, Scandal and the negative influences of reality television; positive black images has lost its luster since the days of “A Different World”, “Family Matters” and “The Cosby show”. Let’s face it, gone are the days of The Brady Bunch images on television.

Fed up with the pervasive negative images of black marriage in the media, Ronnie and Lamar Tyler started one of the largest independent African American marriage and parenting sites on the web to combat the negativity of black love and marriage in the media, by focusing on positive messages about marriage.

Ronnie%20Tyler%201Join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for my special guest Mrs. Ronnie Tyler (pictured left), founder of “Black and Married with Kids: A Positive Image of Black Marriage“. As we discuss she and her husbands campaign for promoting love and positive images in a black family unit.

Follow the “Conversations link” in this post to access the show.

See you on the air but in the meantime sound off here!

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Would you still Date -or- Marry Him, if he made “Less Money than you?” on “Conversations Of A Sistah

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Indepenent-woman-shaidysworldIn today’s society  women are high achievers, successful and financially secure. They’re buying homes and investing in property and basically holding their own. Women are no longer waiting on the dream of meeting a prince and living in his home with 2.5 children and the white picket fence. Today’s women are independently stable and self-sufficient.

The successful woman have choices because they no longer need to worry about some man supporting or taking care of them? However, if you’re a woman who is in the top 10% of earners and you INSIST that your man out earn you, then you’ve now eliminated 90% of the dating population. And that’s before you’ve considered kindness, compatibility, attraction, values, height, weight, age, humor, children, etc. Doesn’t that sound like a self-defeating edict? Sure does.

Tune-in tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via Blog Talk Radio as I weigh in on the subject “Should Women date -or- Marry a man who makes LESS money than she does?”

I will be taking calls in the studio at 1-917-889-7872, just press “1” to speak with the operator.

Click the “Conversations link” in this post to access the show! ~ See you on the air!

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Fact vs. Fantasy In Love….Which is the Reality?

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Love-your-choice2-1024x556We all want to experience real love, but how would you define it? How do you know when what you are experiencing is real love?

Defining love is like defining a particular color to a person who has never been able to see color – you have to feel it to know what it is. The reason it is so hard to define real love is because you cannot experience it with your mind, and definitions are of the mind. Real love is of the heart, and is the result of your intention to be genuine, because love is NOT A FEELING; it’s a decision. And you make that decision based upon experience. 

But what about true/real love in relationships? Love is an action that if you don’t use it you lose it. Love is like any communication, if you never send it out, you won’t get a return. Love is something you give to others not something you feel because something happens to you. Love is something that grows from your actions and decisions and if you don’t have it, or is not experiencing it; then there is something you don’t know about love!!

In fantasy verses the facts about love, we may paint a pretty picture in our minds about this fantasy, which  isn’t necessarily built on the admirable qualities we desire in a partner. Instead, it may be based on gaps we hope to one day fill, mistakes we aim to correct, and familiarities we’ve grown accustomed to. However, one’s traits, faults and weaknesses should become a reality in growing our relationships. 

Love is probably the single most universally desired human quality that exist on this planet. Love is not something you can buy or barter, it is not taught in school, it doesn’t matter how rich you are, your IQ, race, creed, religion, social economic status or who you know. Love IS exactly as it does…So as some of you approach this Valentine’s Day, practice making a decision to love and then follow that decision up with actions that communicate love.

But remember…. love is not a feeling; love is a decision!

What will you decide?