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‘Is it ever OK being content as the side chick?’ Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


You know that woman who does absolutely nothing for the project, but still receives a good grade for all of the hard work the other person puts in? Yeah well That’s a side chick. Reaping the benefits of a relationship without actually putting in the work for it. And that’s why side chicks are becoming such a big deal. This generation of women would much rather take the easy route out, instead of settling down and sticking it out in a functional, serious relationship.

Some may argue that being a side chick isn’t a very attractive option, and that women take the back seat to the main woman in a man’s life. But in this case, it’s all about perspective. While some may see it as coming second, some women see it as coming first without ever having to run the race. Some women feel as if they’ve already paid the price of being in the “main woman” seat for many years, therefore content with having the new “side chick” status.

Nine times out of 10, the side chick knows of the man’s current relationship status. And more often than not, she is the shoulder to cry on, the therapist he confides in when he is having relationship issues. One of the most appealing aspects of being a side chick is not having to worry about the arguments. Since the man often comes to the side chick to complain about the issues he’s having in his main relationship, the side chick generally experiences the “good side.”

Tune into “Conversations Of A Sistah” at 6:30 p.m. EST with host Tracy L. Bell on Blog Talk Radio for her commentary “Is it ever OK being content as the side chick?” 

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Can you recognize ‘the voice’ of the enemy? Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Yes that’s right the enemy has a voice.

Case in point. The serpent. Sometimes he gets a little help from his human friends. Case in point. Goliath. Sometimes he talks in the form of spirits. Case in point. Legions. Sometimes he speaks through diviners and soothsayers. Bottom line. He knows how to talk and will do so through other people.

And, as for we humans, we know how to listen. Sometimes we know the enemy is speaking and we listen anyway. But all too often, we do not even recognize his voice at all and when you don’t recognize the voice of the enemy, he will rule or ruin your life.

Can you recognize ‘the voice’ of the enemy in your life?

Tune into “Conversations Of A Sistah” “LIVE” on blog talk radio at 6:30 p.m. EST with host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary on this perplexed subject, Can you recognize ‘the voice’ of the enemy? 

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Is Arguing a Natural Part of any Relationship? Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Have you accepted arguing as being part of a relationship? Because some people DON’T.

I always hate to prescribe definitive answers to emotional or subjective subjects. However, I’ve been in relationships where we’ve never argued at all and I’ve been in relationships where we’ve argued all the time and neither relationship was relatively better than the other. Sometimes the relationships where you never ague might have benefited from just putting facts on the table, even if they make you uncomfortable.

So the question is, can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship? What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural? What’s the difference between an argument and a debate?

Tune into “Conversations Of A Sistah” at 6:30 p.m. EST with Host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary on “Is arguing a natural part of every relationship?”

We will be taking calls in the studio on this subject at 1-917-889-7872.

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“When your EGO Surpasses Logic” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Do you know someone with a HUGE EGO? So huge that they’re willing to scarafice everything for it and throw caution to demise all for the sake of protecting their EGO. And Logic is a servant, not a master therefore, it’s important to distinguish between ego-driven feelings of envy, fear, greed, and the powerful positive urges of the heart, and those of love and compassion. Because Love has its own logic. Ego is considered a big impediment not only for a seeker desirous of God-realisation but it also dampens one’s life. One’s entire life!!

If our ego is high then we are unable to identify with the God Principle within us. In lay terms EGO leads to Pride, superiority, conceit and ‘I’ ness. Additionally, a person with a HIGH EGO is more susceptible to attacks by negative energies. To reduce EGO we have to listen within and what is happening all around us. When we make efforts to reduce EGO as per the directives of a spiritual authority then our spiritual progress happens rapidly.

Tune in tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” at 6:30 p.m. EST with Host Tracy L. Bell as she addresses ‘When your EGO Surpasses Logic’.

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“For Some, Bleaching Is The New Beautiful” on ‘Conversations Of A Sistah”


In many different cultures and countries around the world, skin color plays a huge role in the concept of beauty. Lighter skin is often preferable to darker skin. The effects of the African American self-hate toward each other because of ones skin color is rather eye opening and sad, to say the least. This is a very hot and taboo topic among the African American community.

As a culture that came from years of oppression and hatred inflicted by slave owners, forced to think that because of their color, they were inferior, blacks have somehow reverted back to having this sort of mindset which is, in fact, hurting them as a whole. With no thanks to the media and its influence on what is seen as beautiful, Black America is tearing itself apart when it focuses on such a shallow aspect of a person that they cant control.

Join Host Tracy L. Bell at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for her commentary “For Some, Bleaching Is The New Beautiful“.

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