Category: What she said

New Book Release, What she said

Vivica Fox is throwing shade at 50 Cent in new book.

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In Vivica’s upcoming book “Everyday, I’m hustling” obtained by People, Vivica detailed her sordid sex life with 50 Cents as rated “PG-13”. Although Fox and the rapper dated 15 years ago, they’ve been anything but on friendly terms.

According to the Daily News, Fox writes in the book, “Most of the time, I would be the one initiating sex, because I really enjoyed making love with him.” She also described the sex as “cherished and special.” albeit PG-13. According to the outlet, Fox, 53, also says she only felt the need to divulge about her past with 50 because he allegedly spread false stories about her on multiple occasions. Petty but apparent since she feels the need to dish the detail in her book.

The former couple have been feuding for years. Fox implied that 50 was gay — although she later said it wasn’t true — during a 2015 episode of Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen. “Now she thinks I’m gay because I let her lick my ass,” he responded on Twitter at the time. “Wait, I didn’t want her to, she forced me, my hands were tied. 50 shades of grey.”

The rapper responded to a New York Daily News report that quoted Fox’s remarks about their relationship. “I’m waking up to this shit,” he captioned a screenshot of the article on Instagram Monday, March 19. “That was 14 years ago. Smh who does this? What the fuck!”

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Why Women should NEVER give a Man money?

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It’s never a good practice and a bad habit to start. The transfer of money in relationships often complicate things, especially when the intent women have for the men they love often backfire. Some women will sacrifice their financial security by trying to buy a man’s love. That never work because men are socialized to provide and protect. But if a woman is treating him like a child then he will not gain financial responsibility to empower himself. Men who may accept money from women secretly resent or disrespects the woman that can give him money. This type of man will prefer to spend his life with a woman who made him believe he can overcome his financial obstacles, no matter how long it takes. Provided she’s willing to wait.

So what’s the difference between giving your husband money vs. a boyfriend? one of my readers asks. There’s a major difference, couples who are not married should not co-mingle their finances without the benefits of a contract. Whereas a married couple is building a financial foundation together: for better or worse. When dating, give that man emotional support; which can be far more valued than that of a dollar. Amen!! Amen!!!

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Sexual Harassment &The Hypocrisy Thereof, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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I’m BACK!!!!

Almost nothing is quite as simple as it looks. Certainly not sexual harassment and accusations thereof—as insiders at the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences are well aware, with the expulsion of Harvey Wienstien following dozens of claims that he had sexually abused actresses and others over the years.

After banishing Wienstien at an emergency session, the Academy’s board of governors boldly declared an end to Hollywood’s silence about industry sex abuse. The expulsion, it said, was intended “to send a message that the era of willful ignorance and shameful complicity in sexually predatory behavior and workplace harassment in our industry is over.”? And it definitely is, with women coming out of the woodwork regarding sexual harassment in every wake of the industry and media, this topic is at the forefront. From the firing of NBC’s Matt Lauer to Congressman John Conyers, the shit is seriously hitting the fan!!

Join me tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” at 6:30 p.m. EST via Blog Talk Radio as we discuss “Sexual Harassment & The Hypocrisy Thereof.”

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Have You Ever Wanted To Take Your “Sex” Back? Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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When you’re in a relationship and all in love, you have no regrets because you’re in love. But what about when the relationship goes south? Does your feelings change? Do you think the person was worth your time, your love, your energy or your sex?

Join host Tracy L. Bell at 6:30 p.m. tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” as she sit down in the studio with Author, Writer and blogger Joi Miner (pictured here), for an in-depth discussion on her article “Can I Roll Back My Sex Odometer?” Have You Ever Wanted To Take Your “Sex” Back?

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Homosexuality, Lesbian, What she said

Lesbian Players Broke Her Spirit, Candice Wiggins Was Bullied Over Her Heterosexuality

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candace-wiggins-549x507A WNBA star broke ranks with the league to expose the pervasive culture of homosexuality in the women’s sport. It’s an open secret that 98 percent of WNBA players are lesbians or bisexuals — although the league vigorously denies the statistic.

Candice Wiggins, who was the 3rd pick in the 2008 WNBA draft, says the league is dominated by lesbians who apply their own set of rules.

In an interview with the San Diego Tribune, Wiggins described a “very, very harmful” lesbian culture running throughout the WNBA. Wiggins said she was bullied by the aggressive lesbian players in the league.

She said the constant harassment led her to retire early from the WNBA in 2015. Wiggins said the level of bullying and the “toxic” lesbian culture broke her spirit.

“It wasn’t like my dreams came true in the WNBA. It was quite the opposite,” Wiggins told the San Diego Tribune.

She said the lesbian players who dominate the league were intimidated by her heterosexuality and her refusal to be recruited into their gay lifestyle.

 “Me being heterosexual and straight, and being vocal in my identity as a straight woman was huge,” Wiggins said. “I would say 98 percent of the women in the WNBA are gay women. It was a conformist type of place. There was a whole different set of rules they [the other players] could apply.”

Wiggins was dismayed by a culture that encouraged athletic females to look and act like men.