Category: Fan mail

Fan mail

Why the black man is a disappointment.

The ReadyWriter

I receive fan mail all the time, emails, IG and Facebook comments about show ideas or my listeners and readers wanting certain topics of conversation, but this particular letter we received this morning, the sender asked me to share and publish, so here it is..

Dear Ms. Bell,

I would just like to tell you why I chose to date outside of my race. The main reason is because the black men I’ve encountered have disappointed me. Yes that’s right, the black man is a disappointment. And I cannot depend on a black man. They promise and don’t come through, they talk but put no muscle or action behind their words. Half of them want you to run after them or take care of them. Some are lazy with no ambition. The man I’m with is my white prince. I can count on him, depend on him and he keeps his word, never before have I experienced what I’m experiencing now with my white king. He’s ambitious and see a future with me, never leaving me wondering and/or guessing where I stand in his life. He erases my doubt and secure all of my fears. So yes I’m a black woman in love with and will marry a white man, why? Because once again a black man never stepped up to the plate, he allowed someone else to take and appreciate his queen.

I Thank you for sharing but like Tika Sumpter, Serena Williams and countless others, trust that I understand.

Have a wonderful day and I look forward to your show!

Loyal follower/reader

Wow!!! – I’ve already addressed her, feel free to do the same.

Fan mail, Relationships, Sex

Is Fantasizing About Someone Else During Sex Considered Cheating?

The ReadyWriter

Of course it is!!

For some men, it’s hard to even imagine that you could possibly be thinking of someone else while he’s having sex with you…but it happens, more often than you think.

So when this happens why feel guilty about it? Because it’s considered cheating that’s why. When you are making love to your partner, you are suppose to be mentally, emotionally and physically vested; heart, mind, body and soul. The fantasy should only be for the person with whom the loving making occurs, with enhanced passion.

It’s okay for your mind to wander into the fantasy realm from time to time, but what does this say about your relationship? If you’re still pining after your ex and thinking of him/her while you’re having sex, then maybe there’s a problem. And it’s really a sign of trouble if there are some other disconnect happening beforehand, where the thought of you being with your partner physically; is emotionally or mentally agonizing, stressful and an act of pretend.

I hope I was able to answer this question based upon an email received over the weekend.

Birthday wishes, Fan mail, Tracy L. Bell, Tracy's Birthday, What she said

Thank you for the Birthday Wishes!

The ReadyWriter

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I can’t believe that so many of you remembered my birthday. It’s not something I like to broadcast but a day I try and hold dear because I feel it’s personal.

However I would just like to say: “Thank you” so very much (to those of you who remembered) for all of the many emails and well wishes sent to me “I say thank you”

“Thank you” to Felicia Weeks for being a loyal reader and my #1 fan and I’m quoting her!!!.

As always, I’m grateful to God for such a loyal following.

Peace & Blessings to you all.

CEO's Blog, Conversations Of A Sistah, Fan mail

Conversations Of A Sistah is cancelled just for tonight!

The ReadyWriter

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Tonight’s show segment of “Conversations Of A Sistah” on “Conversations Live” is cancelled tonight due to the fact that our host, Ms. Tracy L. Bell is under the weather.

We hope you will join us next week at our regularly scheduled day and time, Wednesdays at 8:00 PM as Tracy will kick off Black History month.

She will still continue to bring you the stories that you love to talk about.

Have a great day!

Celebrity news, Fan mail, Oprah Winfrey, Television/Radio

Jennifer Hudson on Oprah’s Next Chapter

The ReadyWriter

A reader emailed me to express her disgust at singer Jennifer Hudson for allowing her sister to appear on Oprah’s Next Chapter looking like she’s going to a backyard barbecue. The segment of Oprah’s Next Chapter was taped at Jennifer’s home, and will air on Sept. 9.

The reader criticized everything about Julia Hudson — from her quick weave and morbid obesity to her casual attire. I know everyone grieves differently but not all things are appropriate.

Blog Queen:

Please post a picture from the interview Jennifer Hudson filmed with Oprah Winfrey. You should see this picture Jennifer’s sister Julia look a haut @ mess!!! I’m not so much against her being heavy-set but she look like she just don’t care. I always wondered why J Hud didn’t introduce her sister to weight watchers but did it with her cousins. Does Julia just not care? Or is she just fat and lazy? Please post the picture I would like my fellow CEO readers to weigh in on this.