It might be a New Year but people are dealing with the same issues and one is commitment or the lack thereof.
Why do men and women marry only to have another someone on the side? Do their relationship excitements expire and they look for a zest outside of their marriages in addition to their perspective spouses? Why do men and women marry then cheat?
And I know this is not in all situations but in some cases it’s a grim reality. If you cheat during your courtship you’re likely to cheat in your marriage. Women are just as susceptible to this type of behavior as men. It’s as if, some people have a sickness and an inability to commit.
So is it true, that men want their bride plus someone else on the side? And that some women prefer their groom and another man in the room? What is this sickness and inability to be fully committed in a relationship or marriage?
“When people won’t admit, how they can’t commit”… I’m exploring this topic and discussing this issue tonight as “Conversations Of A Sistah” return on “Conversations Live” at 8:00 P.M. I will also be taking your phone calls and entertaining your opinions at 1 (347) 426-3645 use option “1′ to speak with the host!
You can access the show at any of the Conversations links in this post or right here!
Meet you on the air!
Finally!!!!!!!
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I’m glad you didn’t make this a one sided issue Ms. Bell because it’s an issue with men and women
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IMO more women cheat than men, yes I said it. #dontjudgeme
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IMO more women cheat than men, yes I said it. #dontjudgeme
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I agree Ms. Ang………Some women cheat on their husbands as a form of revenge.
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IMO more women cheat than men, yes I said it. #dontjudgeme
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Wives will cheat when they feel betrayed and wronged for a variety of reasons.
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IMO more women cheat than men, yes I said it. #dontjudgeme
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Women tend to cheat on husbands who are abusive, whether it is verbal or physical. If women are unhappy with abusive marriages, it is not unnatural for them to be on the lookout for ways out
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IMO more women cheat than men, yes I said it. #dontjudgeme
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well damn who keeping score? it’s wrong no matter how you tally it.
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Bout time you posted the shows topic Tracy 😆
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Bout time you posted the shows topic Tracy 😆
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No it’s about time she announced tonight’s show PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hello Ladies and Happy New Year!
I want to start the conversation about the show a little later in the day instead of earlier.
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OH SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey Tra!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆
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Hey Tracy :waving:
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Ladies and Ms. TraBell what a NICE surprise 🙂
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Trace wassup Boo………….Wassup ladies
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Hey Now……Welcome back Tra 😆 Can’t wait to hear your show.
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Hey Tracy aka Blog Queen, Ceo Ladies and Gents
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Welcome Back Tracy we missed you!!! 🙂
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What’s good Ms. Tracy Bell 😆 You wanted to have us panting for this didn’t you?
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Hello Tracy can’t wait to hear tonight’s show for the whole story behind this topic. 🙂
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Hello Tracy hello Ceo ladies. Feining for tonight’s show. First one of the year! Yay!!!!!!!
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Good afternoon everyone!
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Trace wassup with you NOT posting your email address for the show?
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Trace wassup with you NOT posting your email address for the show?
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conversations@opontonline.net <———- Go for it!!! 😆
Hey erbody
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Hello!!!!!! I see The ReadyWriter aka Blog Queen aka Tracy Bell 😆
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Hey Tracy we ready for tonights Conversation 😆
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Whatz up good people Tra I see you. You ready?
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Whatz good Fam……….I’ll be tuned in Tra
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Tra Holla @ ya boy! before tonight’s show. sent you an email.
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Trace I know you gon take the moral high road on this topic but uma tune in anyways.
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Blog Queen can’t wait to hear you tonight Girl!!!!!!! I missed me some COS on the real
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Hey y’all Hey Trace tuning in to hear this bullshit!
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Tracy L. Bell Welcome back 😆 you were missed!!!!!!
@Billyboy, the only way you can deem tonight’s conversation bullshit w/o hearing it first is you don’t wanna hear the truth!
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@Billyboy, the only way you can deem tonight’s conversation bullshit w/o hearing it first is you don’t wanna hear the truth!
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THIS IS TRUE. TRACY’S USES HER PLATFORM AND DISCUSSIONS TO ALARM THE MORAL CONSCIOUS IN INDIVIDUALS… I BELIEVE IT’S HER INATE ABILITY AT BEING GOD CONSCIOUS AND GROUNDED IN THE TRUTH HERSELF. I MISSED THE SHOW, HER VOICE AND HER TOPICS. ME PERSONALLY CAN’T WAIT TO HEAR TONIGHT’S SHOW.
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Welcome BACK Ms. Bell. 🙂 missed you and your dialogue
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Tracy good to see you and can’t wait to hear you tonight.
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Sup Fam.
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Hello everyone. Hello Tracy tuning in at 8 welcome back and I’m glad the show is back!
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Welcome Back Conversations Of A Sistah 🙂 I’m ready too.
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Whats up Tra which ya sexy ass glad your back!!!!!!!!!
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Hey Ms. Blog Queen and host with the most Tra-Bell
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Tracy I’m really hyped about your return for tonights show. 🙂
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Lawd knows I missed C.O.S. and some good gossip. Welcome back Tra
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Hey Tracy 😆 I’m happy as a pig in shit that you’re back!
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Trace Welcome Back Bae!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And your back with a topic right up my alley
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Hi Tracy you’re back and with a vengeance with this topic and I love it!
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Welcome back Tra tuning in because I missed you 🙂 damn the topic!
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Happy New Year to you too Tracy. Glad to see the show back.
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Tracy I LOVE you welcome back Sistah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Praise God Tracy and welcome back!!!
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Hello Everyone!
Thank you for your well wishes, good to be back and looking forward to tonight’s show.
Hope you are too. 🙂
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Tracy you’re the best!
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Trace ah man welcome back boo! You are so special. something about you.
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Hey Tra Dayum I missed you! 😡
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Yes 3rd party marriages are a reality it’s just that one of both partners don’t know.
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Yes 3rd party marriages are a reality it’s just that one of both partners don’t know.
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YES which is why it’s called CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes 3rd party marriages are a reality it’s just that one of both partners don’t know.
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Bet not neva be my reality tho.
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Yes 3rd party marriages are a reality it’s just that one of both partners don’t know.
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The thought alone is nasty 😦
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Yes 3rd party marriages are a reality it’s just that one of both partners don’t know.
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I Cosign 2thick, that’s when you’re cheating
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Damn that pic leaves a lot to the imagination
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Ooh she startin the 1st show with another hot topic. 😆 gotta hear this.
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I know somebody who’s cheating so how do I get them to check out the show?. any suggestions?
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“When people won’t admit, how they can’t commit”
Because admitting it would be wrong! or concluding there’s a problem
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short term commitment is better for people who wanna have a lil sumethin sumethin on the side 😆 Not me though 0_0
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If you don’t want to commit it’s simple don’t get married or be clear with your intent at the onset of your relationships. Folks play too many games as it is.
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Life seems to be virtually up for grabs. Nothing is certain anymore not even a secure relationship or marriage. Can’t depend on anything.
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HIV IS ALIVE, REAL AND WELL SO SOME OF Y’ALL NIGGAZ OUGHT TO WANNA COMMITT TO ONE POONAH NAH
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Long term is my goal and something I live for….mainly because I’m not a cheater
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Yay the show is back and I’m so tuned in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆
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I’m more excited about the shows return than tonight’s topic. either way I’m tuned in.
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What are some reasons why people can’t commit in relationships? Guess Tra gon lay that out tonight.
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Glad Tracy’s taking the topic from both sexes cause both men and women cheat outside of their marriages. who here can admit to that?
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The only way niggaz gon stop cheating is if they dick blow up as soon as they stick it in
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“When people won’t admit, how they can’t commit”
I think it’s because they possibly never bonded with anyone since birth; or maybe they have trust issues after a bad relationship. It could be a defense mechanism they aren’t even aware of. It’s hard to pinpoint.
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People can’t commit cause like me, they are always looking for the next best thing. its a tiring life but i get alot of ass trust me. 😆
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People can’t commit cause like me, they are always looking for the next best thing. its a tiring life but i get alot of ass trust me. 😆
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SOMETHING TELLS ME YA NASTY ASS SERIOUS TOO. SMDH DID YOU GIVE MS. BELL THE LOW DOWN SKINNY ON THIS TOPIC TONIGHT?
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People can’t commit cause like me, they are always looking for the next best thing. its a tiring life but i get alot of ass trust me. 😆
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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LOL 😆
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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😆 wow
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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better be careful
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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LOL 😆 OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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People can’t commit cause like me, they are always looking for the next best thing. its a tiring life but i get alot of ass trust me.
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This is what I mean, the women here will see you as a bad person because the right thing to do in this society is to find that one special person and commit. I just said it down stairs.
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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LOL 😆
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People can’t commit cause like me, they are always looking for the next best thing. its a tiring life but i get alot of ass trust me. 😆
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You gon go and pull it out to take a piss one day and ya shit is just gonna fall the fuck off balls and all
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I thank God I’m not married……Yet but having been hurt in the past is a big reason for some people. Also, some people, especially guys I think, just want to play the field, they have no interest in settling into a committed relationship until they grow up a bit!
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Because it is not natural too commit. We humans are supposed to have multiple partners. Its time people realize that.
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“When people won’t admit, how they can’t commit”
Because, deep down, they know they’re not eqipped to do it, whether it’s emotionally, mentally, financially, or whatever. Even those who think they’re ready and say they’re committed are often only fooling themselves, and go on to fail in the relationship because they weren’t really prepared for it at all. It’s takes a whole lot of maturity and being very grounded within yourself to be able to commit to someone else fully. Most people learn that the hard way. I was one of them!
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INDIVIDUALS COMMITT ONLY WHEN THEY ARE CERAIN THEY CAN. THAT EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR IS PURE AND PLAIN SELFISHNESS IMHO
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Here are a few reasons why Single people don’t commit
1) scared,
2)pressure from friends
3) not enough money to live off of or a good job
4) they can’t stop partying ,,,,
When you’re married there’s just no excuse.
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My problem is that I can’t commit long term to romantic relationships. This commitment phobia automatically colors me as a bad person because the right thing to do in this society is to find that one special person and commit to them for the rest of your life. (ideally) but it’s not for me, not right now anyway.
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In every relationship I’ve ever been in I’ve been the one to do the dumping. I’ve never had my heart broken. In one relationship a guy cheated on me and I found myself not caring.
I do form romantic bonds and attachments towards other people, but after a period of time the feelings of romance and passion evaporate.
I recently came out of a 3.5 year relationship with a guy I had a really strong bond with. We connected on a deep personal level and had a great friendship in addition to a great relationship. Yet when he started talking about marriage and more serious commitment I began to experience a high amount of anxiety and depression. It was as if I had been placed into a box with no horizon or freedom in sight.
I ended up breaking up with the guy, and now he won’t even talk/be friends with me. I gotta hear this show but send Tracy my email in the meantime.
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I don’t know if Trace mean “commit” you mean “marry”, there’s the simple fact that marriage is a very binding and possibly highly punitive contract that has little to do with love. Only love-blind, pressurized or cold-reasoning will people marry.
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Sometimes a man starts a relationship with a positive attitude. Things are going great, and life could not be better. However, all relationships face low points; men do not like to commit after they realize it is not what they wanted or expected. They might regret having a relationship with someone. It could also be that they have found someone else they like more. And so, the circle of commitment or NON commitment continues….
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From the post it sounds like Tracy is talking about married people still unable to commit. And Although the stereotype is that in marriages, men tend to be the ones to cheat first, that isn’t always true. Women are unfaithful in marriages for a large variety of reasons.
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Wow there are so many reasons why married people cheat. well why people cheat period. The relationship fizzles, boredom, revenge and the list goes on.
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it’s an even keel but a married woman will cheat quicker than a married man. make it so bad bitch will be real good n slick about it too. she see like a man having their cake n eating it too.
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A great deal of maturity can only equal a commitment to someone else for life.
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You have to 1st commit to a meaningful relationship in order to know how to be fully committed in a marriage. it’s baby steps for some people.
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Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in cheated on their spouse at some time or another during their relationship. What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. That’s scary.
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yup tuning in cause cheating is not always about sex. it could be emotionally which is the worst kind imo.
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The bottom line is “people cheat because they want to.”
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I’d rather just tune in cause I’m sure a lot of y’all commented outside of the box anyway.
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it’s important to know your partner’s history before entering into any long term relationship. Why did there previous relationships end? If cheating was the reason, consider the warning right there. can’t wait to hear the show thou.
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Don’t you hate having a person run around on you? I know I do because it happened. I caught my significant other with plenty of evidence. They showed all the signs of cheater, and I raised to recognize that if it smells like it, looks like it, it more than likely is… My friends would tell me that they saw her walking with random people all the time. Mind you she was not being very lady like.
So I got tired of it. My first mistake was confronting her with little to no evidence. She suddenly took the offense and made me feel guilty for even asking her what she had been doing. This led her to realize that I had suspected her of running around. She would rub it in my face constantly to bring forth more guilt.
My second mistake was thinking that we had something special. I didn’t even realize how special this relationship had become. I fell for a cheater. I was hurt but I got rid of her ass.
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See this is why I’m not married yet….I want a stress free relaxation of not worrying about what my significant other is doing? If I can’t trust him I don’t need him.
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To cheat is deceit. Tuning in to hear where our Blog Talk host will go on this topic.
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I’m so excited about tonight 😆 Our girl is back in 2014
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It’s real simple people. For those of you married or in a committed relationship.
1) Do not trust that your relationship is special!
2) Never confront your spouse without hard evidence!
3) Do not be afraid of the consequences with whateva you find out!
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Mm really good topic.
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I can’t relate to this topic because I’m far from being in a committed relationship but I’m tuning in because I love me some Tracy Bell and Conversations Of A Sistah
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Men are known to cheat. In fact I know more men who have cheated than women. Right now the repubs are itching for Obama to cheat on Michelle.
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I got a ‘hard on’ just knowing I’m going to hear my girl’s voice at 8:00
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I got a ‘hard on’ just knowing I’m going to hear my girl’s voice at 8:00
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Man you need to go head with that.
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I got a ‘hard on’ just knowing I’m going to hear my girl’s voice at 8:00
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Man you need to go head with that.
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CoSign!
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1 hour before the conversations start! Ooh can’t wait!!!
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can’t wait for this right here.
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I would never put up with a knee grow cheating on me in a marriage or in a courtship. that shit would never fly with me. I expect to get exactly what I put out and if I RESPECT YOU ENOUGH NOT TO CHEAT YOU BETTER DO THE SAME DAMN THING WITH ME.
Now let me get ready to hear this show. 😆 LUVS me some TraBell
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I’m LMMFAO 😆 @ that caller he tried to question Trace and she snagged his ass!
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LOL 😆 Point she snatched that wig and was like “THIS IS MY SHOW NIGGA YOU DON’T QUESTION ME” 😆
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That shit was Hella va larious!!!!!!! Trace wasn’t playing!!
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I would neva I mean NEVA call in and challenge the queen like that 😆
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Yo Trace shut that Nigga DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆
That shit was gangsta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆
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I couldn’t understand why he was questioning her? 😆 Good show as usual.
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I swear I think that caller is her CRUSH 🙂
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that caller was a trip 😆 he had me rolling but Tracy dealt with him.
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hey hey hey peepahs! 😆 good show but that caller was obsessed!
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Caller was like I’m pushing 50 I may as well settle down 😆
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Tracy DEALT with that caller and it was hilarious 😆 and she had the LAST word!
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Tracy really stick to that schedule I see.
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Loved that Tracy played the theme song from Being Mary Jane.
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Yes show was awesome!!!!!!!!!! Tracy be having some hot topics!
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O_O I loved the show.
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somebody HOLD meh
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<———————–Really needs a stiff…………….
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love the song and loved the show tonight.
I’m so glad Tracy back.
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love this song. Trace was on point.
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Trace was on point.
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TRACE IS A SISTAH YOU CALL ‘A GOOD THING’ AND I KNOW THE ONLY REASON WHY SHE AIN’T MARRIED IS BECAUSE SOME KNEE-GROWS SHE DON’T FIND GOOD ENOUGH BUT SHE NEED TO MEET ME! 😆
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TRACE IS A SISTAH YOU CALL ‘A GOOD THING’ AND I KNOW THE ONLY REASON WHY SHE AIN’T MARRIED IS BECAUSE SOME KNEE-GROWS SHE DON’T FIND GOOD ENOUGH
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Cosign.
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Aint nothin like Conversations Of A Sistah 🙂 Loved the show tonight. Loved it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i’m sleepy! going to bed!
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but I loved the show.
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Tracy was happy as hell last night!!!!
It was like Cyrus DID her or something b4 the show.
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“If you’re married and cheating, you’re WRONG” Tracy L. Bell C.O.S.
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“You can never get even with a man” Priceless!!!
Tracy L. Bell, C.O.S.
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“CHEATING IS WRONG” C.O.S.
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“it’s 2014 and we’re doing the same by living each day with our RESPECT YOURSELF campaign!” TLB
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The Lord our God intended for marriage to be a Commitment.
My favorite quote from her last night! and Amen!
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“Commitment is a virtue that many have put to death” –> Tracy L. Bell, C.O.S.
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“Oral sex is cheating” —> Tracy L. Bell C.O.S.
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“In a world where everyone is exploring their own parameters of sexuality, please know the word cheating suggest that it’s wrong and unacceptable.”
Tracy L. Bell ~ C.O.S.
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I HAD to re listen to the show! The show was awesome! Tracy was correct! She laid the law.
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Hi Gab,
I always listen on the rewind because the shows buffers a lot during the time that it airs. so I wait until 9 every Wednesday to listen in without interruption. But that Tracy have a damn good show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆 her topics are sooooo realistic.
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