Why is having a man so important for some women? And why is having a woman so important for some men? How is it that, some individuals allow society to dictate their status to equaling one’s importance to another half? When people are made whole? God did not make men and women half beings to complete another half. However, some people find that being single is the biggest curse since the creation of a girdle.
Having a mate is wonderful and love created divine so awesome but there are some steps that we as individuals should take in order to grow into being with another person. The biggest step being, getting to know and love thyself first!
In order to be comfortable in your “SINGLE” status you must first have the confidence and security within yourself that no other man and/or woman can taint.
Some men and women hate being solo and I find this to be a sad state of competition.
Join me tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” at 8:00 PM as I discuss the joys of being Single, Sexy and Solo.
In the meantime, sound off on this topic and access the show here!
Conversations Of A Sistah 
Trace..Trace!
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love the topic and will be checking it out ms. bell.
all my late night ceo’ers holla.
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Wassup Adriane
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Hey Ad.
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Well, well look at cha’ll and it’s 1;00 in the damn morning
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Good morning late nighters
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i’m thinking bout staying single for the rest of my life. why bother when these knee-grows out here don’t wanna commit.
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I know i’m the one for me so i don’t mind being single. 😆
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I ain’t feeling the negativity about being single if attitudes are like some of these comments I’m reading, yeah staying single will work because the negativity won’t attract nothing more. Sheesh.
#TeamIwannameetherightone.com
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love being single
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Shiiiid SIN ain’t in single for nuthin. 😆
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No strings attached yet 🙂 but i’m hopeful.
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Awesome topic Tracy cause in today’s society, we are so hung up on finding the “right” person to compliment us that we miss enjoying our lives w/o the baggage of focusing on something or someone else.
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42% of black women are single. 42%…is that not scary or what? in the meantime men love that shit cause they can have their full pick of a bunch of desperate woman who want to get hitched!!!
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I ain’t gon lie….hate being single but everyone thinks that I am a independent successful woman who is happy being on her own… but I’m not. I put up a huge barrier and act all strong and tough but really I would love to have someone to curl up with at night.
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i see some of you associate being single with loneliness and relationships with happiness. We’ve forgotten what being single is all about. It’s much more than a time to obsess and search for the right guy — it’s about making yourself happy and embracing you.
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I LOVES ME SOME ME….and being single for me means, my independence will come with ease.
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Singlehood used to be a short life stage between finishing school and getting married. Now sadly that stage is getting longer and longer and longer, and sometimes permanent.
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Good morning all.
Looking forward to the show tonight. I can comment further when the show is over.
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Morning Tamala
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Morning Ladies
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Hey all
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morning
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Morning ladies and gents. y’all ready for the 4th.?
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Morning.
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Morning Tamala, Mahogany, Bobby, Mrs, Zenna, Gia, Mrs and anybody after me. Good morning everybody. 🙂
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Sup ladies.
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Good morning ceo peoples.
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Morning fam
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good morning everyone. did anyone watch being mary jane last night?
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Good Morning All
So Glad the holiday falls midweek!! No comment on topic
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Can i get a recap on “the game”. fell asleep last night.
morning peeps
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Wanda,
Everybody keeps talking about Kelly Pitts so they might as well bring her back Tasha Mack is a old skeezer. Pookie left her. Rick Foxx accepted her
Blue and NewNew still aren’t speaking.
That really was it. Not good. Not bad. They could have shown this weeks ago
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My bad..good morning erbody
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Morning Err’body.
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Sup people.
Wanda, NOTHING special happened in the game POOKY left TASHA, RICK and TASHA are together, I MEAN who didn’t see that coming
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Wanda- Started right where it left off. Pookie yanking up Jason. Jason told Pookie that Tasha sleeping with Rick. They leave, but not after Jason finds some coins on the floor and takes them. Pookie ask Tasha, she stuttering. He say call him, she calls and Rick like where you at? So Pookie get upset and leaves, Rick hears the whole conversation on speakerphone.
Chardonnay and Jason are fussing. He tells her if you hang with pigs long enough you get comfortable in the dirt. He says Chardonnay condoned the cheating so she okay with it, they fussing. Then she ask if he still loves Kelly, he turns the argument back to her.
Malik sees Keira in the club and they both mad at Blue. Then he sees Blue, Blue says Kira didn’t tell him she was a V. Malik is not mad, saying she should have said something.
Tasha manages to finally see Pookie. He said he figures her, but they are through being friends and everything. He said don’t call me Pookie, call me Marion. Later on, Malik comes over to get Pookie ring. Tasha got Rick moving in. Damaged goods.
Morning all
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Good Morning everybody
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I think JASON is STILL in love with kelly
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Good mernin
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Pookie dissed the entire fugg outta Tasha Mack. I was so dayum glad.
Cry bish. << what I was saying to the TV
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Being Mary Jane was dare I say…. Pretty darn good!!!
Morning Fam
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Man,
What confuses me is how Gabby can kiss and grind with all them foine men and get back home to yuck azz D. Wade and get aroused??
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Morning folks!
The Game and Being Mary Jane were pretty good last night
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What confuses me is how Gabby can kiss and grind with all them foine men and get back home to uck azz D. Wade and get aroused??
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Morning Ceo’ers
Loved Mary Jane last night!! Some of the scenes were extra!!! Ol’ tatted boy was fiiiiiiine!!!! Loved when Gabby thought she was going to deliver some info to the wife and the wife read Gabby like a book!!!! Lol
The Game was pretty good— Pookie from Richmond basically told Tasha to kick rocks and keep it moving!!!
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Did y’all like how Trace mentioned Gabby Union and her show Mary Jane. I was like get it Tra. Make ya point Boo Boo
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Sup people.
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ain’t nothing great about being single/solo.
i hate it esp. when you going somewhere alone. 😥 so please Ms. Tracy tell me something that’ll change my attitude about it.
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Mahogany you make it sound like Trace is a wizard. embrace your single life gurl! 😆
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Mahogany,
Being single is not anything to be ashamed about Mahogany. Wow for feeling this way.
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ain’t nothing great about being single/solo.
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If that’s what you are find something great about it. your attitude must be if i never find somebody it won’t determine my happiness.
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No there’s nothing wrong with being single but i wouldn’t exchange the richness of my married life for nothing in the world.
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“The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.”
Carrie Bradshaw
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Lawd knows I’m determined not to depend financially on a man. I’m not drawn to motherhood or marriage so those are the last things on my mind.
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That’s a fyne ass sistah uptop.
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Please no sob stories about how y’all hate being single. marriage will happen when it happens. no pity parties here.
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I don’t care what y’all say don’t nobody wanna be single esp. as you get older. you want a man to come along and scoop you up eventually one way or another.
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I don’t neva have to get married i’m settling for companionship for conversation and fun. i love my freedom too much 😆 to be answering to a man.
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I have a man but will be tuning in anyway.
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I can live with sexy but don’t know how long i can stay single. hell i get tired of hanging out with the girls.
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Love the girl in the pic…she got her wine 😆 and i can relate. still ain’t like having a man 😆
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being single is over-rated. being married is too. 😆
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Being single is being solo but I think I get it, being single and not with somebody with Tracy you never know but i’m sure i’m on point.
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I want to remain single for as long as I can cause according to my aunt when you hook up with a man you share everything and the bathroom and toilet seat become an issue. 😆 so I wanna wait till Gawd is ready. And if it don’t happen fine. I’ll still live.
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Being single is the shit but that depends on who you ask.
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All the single ladies…all the single ladies. 😆 this post reminded me of that song
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Tunin in. but can we get a post about being Mary Jane in between time.
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Love my single-ness and will embrace it when and if my status changes but in the meantime deuces.
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I know I’m sexy 😆
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Tracy you a trip with these topics!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I’ll be tuned in 😆
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And The show starts in 15 minutes people.
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Tracy FUCKIN tore her show up tonight 😆
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Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party. We need to find that shit out and have a blog party with this heifer. 😆 Trace was good tonight Loved the show!!!!
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Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party.
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CoSign we need to test that out. I’m wit U on that.
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Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party.
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I was buggin when she said that, I was like not Ms. Conservative 😆
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Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party.
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That’s what she said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😆
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Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party.
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Trust me we’ll neva find out.
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Tracy your show was the SHIT!!!!!
All the single ladies (7x)
[Verse 1]
Now put your hands up
Up in the club(club)
Just broke up(up)
Doing my own little thing
You decided to dip (dip)
And now you wanna trip (trip)
Cuz another brother noticed me
I’m up on him (him), he up on me (me)
Don’t pay him any attention
Done cried my tears (tears), for three good years(years)
Ya can’t be mad at me
Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
[Verse 2]
I got gloss on my lips (lips), a man on my hips(hips)
Hold me tighter than my Dereon jeans
Acting up (up), drink in my cup (cup)
I can care less what you think
I need no permission, did I mention
Don’t pay him any attention
Cuz you’ve had your turn (turn)
And now you gone learn
What it really feels like to miss me
Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
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Nicole,
Now the song in my head. I love “all the single ladies”
Show was awesome as usual!!!
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Nicole it took awhile for the song to come on but it did.
😆 loved it!!!!
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Oh God i was LMAO 😆 @ “Buy a Dog, Get a hobby, take Guitar lessons”
Funny as hell but true @ ladies…we put too much emphasis and getting a man when it ain’t that serious!!
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Tracy ya show was off the heezy boo. but i think more woman are desperate to have a man than men are to have a woman.
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Tracy was aggressive in her message but it was on point. I liked it.
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We must 1st love ourselves before we can love someone else. That’s soooo true.
Good show.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
Go!!!
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Yeah Right Katman, do you even remember her 7 rules?
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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where’s Felicia??? i bet you she know. she be taking notes from the show n shit.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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Oh shit let me email the show.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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GTFOHWTBS!!! Yeah ok.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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let me email tracy now 😆
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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1. Love when you’re ready
2. Get a hobby
3. Love themselves
That’s all i got with the 7 reasons/rules.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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Take charge of your own reality and give up all that envy! Was 1.
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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1.) Take charge of your own reality and give up all that envy!
2.) Focus on becoming the best person you can be
3.) Indulge yourself
After that she said something that threw me off so…can i get fiddy @Kat 😆
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To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
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I know I remember #4.) Play the field but don’t be no Hoe. 😆 after that one everythang else drew a blank with me cause i was LMAO!!!!.
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“Ain’t nobody died from not having a man” that shit was funny like that.
Trace I loved your show boo. You got it going on.
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Ok Tracy. the show was so motivating loved it. I’m still not in the market for a man yet. School comes first.
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“As my grandmama use to say, “you don’t want no face-tail gurl” 😆
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Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, “who finds a wife, gets a good thing”
Thanks.
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Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, “who finds a wife, gets a good thing”
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Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
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Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, “who finds a wife, gets a good thing”
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Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
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“Thank you” Daisy
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Ms. Bell I love how you keeps it all the way 100!!!! “Have fun but I’m not saying be a Hoe” 🙂
Great show!!!!! Great Show!!!!!!!!!!!!
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The info Tracy shared was just WOW!!!!
I have to hear it again.
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I don’t hate being single…but i am dating…the show was good!!!
Love yourselves ladies.
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don’t drop your standards ladies….ain’t nothing wrong with you, keep waiting for the right one. don’t be desperate enough to settle.
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Give up these un-realistic thoughts of being with a man 😆
Read a book
Light a candle
Take a long bubble bath 😆
Oh gawd I loved it!!!
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Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
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Tracy you could be a relationship counselor seriously.
I sincerely enjoyed your show tonight.
And really, are you the life of the party???? 😆
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If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
Loved Tra’s show!!!!
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