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“Single…Sexy…and Solo”, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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July 3, 2013 by The ReadyWriter


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Why is having a man so important for some women? And why is having a woman so important for some men? How is it that, some individuals allow society to dictate their status to equaling one’s importance to another half? When people are made whole? God did not make men and women half beings to complete another half. However, some people find that being single is the biggest curse since the creation of a girdle.

Having a mate is wonderful and love created divine so awesome but there are some steps that we as individuals should take in order to grow into being with another person. The biggest step being, getting to know and love thyself first!

In order to be comfortable in your “SINGLE” status you must first have the confidence and security within yourself that no other man and/or woman can taint.

Some men and women hate being solo and I find this to be a sad state of competition.

Join me tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” at 8:00 PM as I discuss the joys of being Single, Sexy and Solo.

In the meantime, sound off on this topic and access the show here!

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110 thoughts on ““Single…Sexy…and Solo”, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

  1. QTip says:

    Trace..Trace!

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  2. Adriane says:

    love the topic and will be checking it out ms. bell.

    all my late night ceo’ers holla.

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  3. Jamilla says:

    i’m thinking bout staying single for the rest of my life. why bother when these knee-grows out here don’t wanna commit.

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  4. Acquitta says:

    I know i’m the one for me so i don’t mind being single. ๐Ÿ˜†

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  5. Browngirl says:

    I ain’t feeling the negativity about being single if attitudes are like some of these comments I’m reading, yeah staying single will work because the negativity won’t attract nothing more. Sheesh.
    #TeamIwannameetherightone.com

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  6. Sane says:

    love being single

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  7. Adam says:

    Shiiiid SIN ain’t in single for nuthin. ๐Ÿ˜†

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  8. Floridagirl says:

    No strings attached yet ๐Ÿ™‚ but i’m hopeful.

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  9. Yvonne says:

    Awesome topic Tracy cause in today’s society, we are so hung up on finding the โ€œrightโ€ person to compliment us that we miss enjoying our lives w/o the baggage of focusing on something or someone else.

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  10. Angelhair says:

    42% of black women are single. 42%…is that not scary or what? in the meantime men love that shit cause they can have their full pick of a bunch of desperate woman who want to get hitched!!!

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  11. Miss Ang says:

    I ain’t gon lie….hate being single but everyone thinks that I am a independent successful woman who is happy being on her own… but I’m not. I put up a huge barrier and act all strong and tough but really I would love to have someone to curl up with at night.

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  12. Kayla says:

    i see some of you associate being single with loneliness and relationships with happiness. We’ve forgotten what being single is all about. It’s much more than a time to obsess and search for the right guy โ€” it’s about making yourself happy and embracing you.

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  13. Starr says:

    I LOVES ME SOME ME….and being single for me means, my independence will come with ease.

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  14. Lisa says:

    Singlehood used to be a short life stage between finishing school and getting married. Now sadly that stage is getting longer and longer and longer, and sometimes permanent.

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  15. Tamala says:

    Good morning all.
    Looking forward to the show tonight. I can comment further when the show is over.

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    • Mahogany says:

      Morning Tamala

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      • Bobby says:

        Morning Ladies

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      • Zenna says:

        Hey all

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      • Gia says:

        morning

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      • Mrs. Hawthorne says:

        Morning ladies and gents. y’all ready for the 4th.?

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      • Nicole says:

        Morning.

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      • Felicia says:

        Morning Tamala, Mahogany, Bobby, Mrs, Zenna, Gia, Mrs and anybody after me. Good morning everybody. ๐Ÿ™‚

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      • AlScream says:

        Sup ladies.

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      • RandomChick says:

        Good morning ceo peoples.

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      • CorporateBitch says:

        Morning fam

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      • Henrietta says:

        good morning everyone. did anyone watch being mary jane last night?

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      • Ionna says:

        Good Morning All
        So Glad the holiday falls midweek!! No comment on topic

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      • Wanda says:

        Can i get a recap on “the game”. fell asleep last night.

        morning peeps

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      • CoCo says:

        Wanda,
        Everybody keeps talking about Kelly Pitts so they might as well bring her back Tasha Mack is a old skeezer. Pookie left her. Rick Foxx accepted her
        Blue and NewNew still arenโ€™t speaking.

        That really was it. Not good. Not bad. They could have shown this weeks ago

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      • CoCo says:

        My bad..good morning erbody

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      • Shawnia says:

        Morning Errโ€™body.

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      • Cameo says:

        Sup people.

        Wanda, NOTHING special happened in the game POOKY left TASHA, RICK and TASHA are together, I MEAN who didnโ€™t see that coming

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      • 2Thick4U says:

        Wanda- Started right where it left off. Pookie yanking up Jason. Jason told Pookie that Tasha sleeping with Rick. They leave, but not after Jason finds some coins on the floor and takes them. Pookie ask Tasha, she stuttering. He say call him, she calls and Rick like where you at? So Pookie get upset and leaves, Rick hears the whole conversation on speakerphone.
        Chardonnay and Jason are fussing. He tells her if you hang with pigs long enough you get comfortable in the dirt. He says Chardonnay condoned the cheating so she okay with it, they fussing. Then she ask if he still loves Kelly, he turns the argument back to her.
        Malik sees Keira in the club and they both mad at Blue. Then he sees Blue, Blue says Kira didnโ€™t tell him she was a V. Malik is not mad, saying she should have said something.
        Tasha manages to finally see Pookie. He said he figures her, but they are through being friends and everything. He said donโ€™t call me Pookie, call me Marion. Later on, Malik comes over to get Pookie ring. Tasha got Rick moving in. Damaged goods.

        Morning all

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      • Yasha says:

        Good Morning everybody

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      • Harlem says:

        I think JASON is STILL in love with kelly

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      • Tammy says:

        Good mernin

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      • Gabriella says:

        Pookie dissed the entire fugg outta Tasha Mack. I was so dayum glad.
        Cry bish. << what I was saying to the TV

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      • ManUp says:

        Being Mary Jane was dare I sayโ€ฆ. Pretty darn good!!!

        Morning Fam

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      • Ebonyeyes says:

        Man,
        What confuses me is how Gabby can kiss and grind with all them foine men and get back home to yuck azz D. Wade and get aroused??

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      • Lisa says:

        Morning folks!
        The Game and Being Mary Jane were pretty good last night

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      • Jamilla says:

        What confuses me is how Gabby can kiss and grind with all them foine men and get back home to uck azz D. Wade and get aroused??
        _______________________

        ๐Ÿ˜†

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      • Natasha says:

        Morning Ceo’ers
        Loved Mary Jane last night!! Some of the scenes were extra!!! Olโ€™ tatted boy was fiiiiiiine!!!! Loved when Gabby thought she was going to deliver some info to the wife and the wife read Gabby like a book!!!! Lol
        The Game was pretty goodโ€” Pookie from Richmond basically told Tasha to kick rocks and keep it moving!!!

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      • Ashanti says:

        Did y’all like how Trace mentioned Gabby Union and her show Mary Jane. I was like get it Tra. Make ya point Boo Boo

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    • Omar says:

      Sup people.

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  16. Mahogany says:

    ain’t nothing great about being single/solo.
    i hate it esp. when you going somewhere alone. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ so please Ms. Tracy tell me something that’ll change my attitude about it.

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    • Zenna says:

      Mahogany you make it sound like Trace is a wizard. embrace your single life gurl! ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • RandomChick says:

      ainโ€™t nothing great about being single/solo.
      ———
      If that’s what you are find something great about it. your attitude must be if i never find somebody it won’t determine my happiness.

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  17. Mrs. Hawthorne says:

    No there’s nothing wrong with being single but i wouldnโ€™t exchange the richness of my married life for nothing in the world.

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  18. Nicole says:

    โ€œThe most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, thatโ€™s just fabulous.โ€

    Carrie Bradshaw

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  19. Felicia says:

    Lawd knows I’m determined not to depend financially on a man. I’m not drawn to motherhood or marriage so those are the last things on my mind.

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  20. AlScream says:

    That’s a fyne ass sistah uptop.

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  21. RandomChick says:

    Please no sob stories about how y’all hate being single. marriage will happen when it happens. no pity parties here.

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  22. CorporateBitch says:

    I don’t care what y’all say don’t nobody wanna be single esp. as you get older. you want a man to come along and scoop you up eventually one way or another.

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  23. Henrietta says:

    I don’t neva have to get married i’m settling for companionship for conversation and fun. i love my freedom too much ๐Ÿ˜† to be answering to a man.

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  24. Wanda says:

    I have a man but will be tuning in anyway.

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  25. CoCo says:

    I can live with sexy but don’t know how long i can stay single. hell i get tired of hanging out with the girls.

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  26. Shawnia says:

    Love the girl in the pic…she got her wine ๐Ÿ˜† and i can relate. still ain’t like having a man ๐Ÿ˜†

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  27. Cameo says:

    being single is over-rated. being married is too. ๐Ÿ˜†

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  28. 2Thick4U says:

    Being single is being solo but I think I get it, being single and not with somebody with Tracy you never know but i’m sure i’m on point.

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  29. Yasha says:

    I want to remain single for as long as I can cause according to my aunt when you hook up with a man you share everything and the bathroom and toilet seat become an issue. ๐Ÿ˜† so I wanna wait till Gawd is ready. And if it don’t happen fine. I’ll still live.

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  30. Omar says:

    Being single is the shit but that depends on who you ask.

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  31. Gabriella says:

    All the single ladies…all the single ladies. ๐Ÿ˜† this post reminded me of that song

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  32. Ebonyeyes says:

    Tunin in. but can we get a post about being Mary Jane in between time.

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  33. Natasha says:

    Love my single-ness and will embrace it when and if my status changes but in the meantime deuces.

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  34. Jamilla says:

    I know I’m sexy ๐Ÿ˜†

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  35. Yes says:

    Tracy you a trip with these topics!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  36. Yvonne says:

    I’ll be tuned in ๐Ÿ˜†

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  37. Adam says:

    And The show starts in 15 minutes people.

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  38. Omar says:

    Tracy FUCKIN tore her show up tonight ๐Ÿ˜†

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  39. BillyBoy says:

    Oh shit y’all Trace said she the life of the party. We need to find that shit out and have a blog party with this heifer. ๐Ÿ˜† Trace was good tonight Loved the show!!!!

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    • BBallen says:

      Oh shit yโ€™all Trace said she the life of the party.
      ——
      CoSign we need to test that out. I’m wit U on that.

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    • 2Thick4U says:

      Oh shit yโ€™all Trace said she the life of the party.
      โ€”โ€”
      I was buggin when she said that, I was like not Ms. Conservative ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • Danny says:

      Oh shit yโ€™all Trace said she the life of the party.
      โ€”โ€”
      That’s what she said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • Mahogany says:

      Oh shit yโ€™all Trace said she the life of the party.
      โ€”โ€”
      Trust me we’ll neva find out.

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  40. Nicole says:

    Tracy your show was the SHIT!!!!!

    All the single ladies (7x)

    [Verse 1]
    Now put your hands up
    Up in the club(club)
    Just broke up(up)
    Doing my own little thing
    You decided to dip (dip)
    And now you wanna trip (trip)
    Cuz another brother noticed me
    I’m up on him (him), he up on me (me)
    Don’t pay him any attention
    Done cried my tears (tears), for three good years(years)
    Ya can’t be mad at me

    Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
    Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh

    If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
    Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

    [Verse 2]
    I got gloss on my lips (lips), a man on my hips(hips)
    Hold me tighter than my Dereon jeans
    Acting up (up), drink in my cup (cup)
    I can care less what you think
    I need no permission, did I mention
    Don’t pay him any attention
    Cuz you’ve had your turn (turn)
    And now you gone learn
    What it really feels like to miss me

    Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
    Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

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  41. Keisha says:

    Oh God i was LMAO ๐Ÿ˜† @ “Buy a Dog, Get a hobby, take Guitar lessons”

    Funny as hell but true @ ladies…we put too much emphasis and getting a man when it ain’t that serious!!

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  42. BBallen says:

    Tracy ya show was off the heezy boo. but i think more woman are desperate to have a man than men are to have a woman.

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  43. Aceman says:

    Tracy was aggressive in her message but it was on point. I liked it.

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  44. Olivijah says:

    We must 1st love ourselves before we can love someone else. That’s soooo true.
    Good show.

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  45. Katman says:

    To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules I’m giving $100.
    Go!!!

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    • Pinky says:

      Yeah Right Katman, do you even remember her 7 rules?

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    • Civil says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      ———-
      where’s Felicia??? i bet you she know. she be taking notes from the show n shit.

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    • Xmen says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-
      Oh shit let me email the show.

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    • Ashanti says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-
      GTFOHWTBS!!! Yeah ok.

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    • Lexy says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-
      let me email tracy now ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • CeoDawg says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-
      1. Love when you’re ready
      2. Get a hobby
      3. Love themselves

      That’s all i got with the 7 reasons/rules.

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    • Danny says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-

      Take charge of your own reality and give up all that envy! Was 1.

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    • Mahogany says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-

      1.) Take charge of your own reality and give up all that envy!
      2.) Focus on becoming the best person you can be
      3.) Indulge yourself

      After that she said something that threw me off so…can i get fiddy @Kat ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • Bird says:

      To the 1st person who can remember her 7 rules Iโ€™m giving $100.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”-
      I know I remember #4.) Play the field but don’t be no Hoe. ๐Ÿ˜† after that one everythang else drew a blank with me cause i was LMAO!!!!.

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  46. Civil says:

    “Ain’t nobody died from not having a man” that shit was funny like that.

    Trace I loved your show boo. You got it going on.

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  47. Ebonyeyes says:

    Ok Tracy. the show was so motivating loved it. I’m still not in the market for a man yet. School comes first.

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  48. Xmen says:

    “As my grandmama use to say, “you don’t want no face-tail gurl” ๐Ÿ˜†

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  49. Ashanti says:

    Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, “who finds a wife, gets a good thing”

    Thanks.

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    • Daisy says:

      Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, โ€œwho finds a wife, gets a good thingโ€
      ***********
      Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.

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    • Ashanti says:

      Tracy loved the show can you please provide that scripture you mentioned, โ€œwho finds a wife, gets a good thingโ€
      ***********
      Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
      ————

      “Thank you” Daisy

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  50. Daisy says:

    Ms. Bell I love how you keeps it all the way 100!!!! “Have fun but I’m not saying be a Hoe” ๐Ÿ™‚

    Great show!!!!! Great Show!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  51. Miss Ang says:

    The info Tracy shared was just WOW!!!!

    I have to hear it again.

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  52. Lexy says:

    I don’t hate being single…but i am dating…the show was good!!!

    Love yourselves ladies.

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  53. CeoDawg says:

    don’t drop your standards ladies….ain’t nothing wrong with you, keep waiting for the right one. don’t be desperate enough to settle.

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  54. QueenC says:

    Give up these un-realistic thoughts of being with a man ๐Ÿ˜†

    Read a book

    Light a candle

    Take a long bubble bath ๐Ÿ˜†

    Oh gawd I loved it!!!

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  55. QueenC says:

    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh

    If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

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  56. Danny says:

    Tracy you could be a relationship counselor seriously.

    I sincerely enjoyed your show tonight.

    And really, are you the life of the party???? ๐Ÿ˜†

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  57. Bird says:

    If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
    If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it

    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh
    Uh oh oh Uh oh oh oh oh oh Uh oh oh

    Loved Tra’s show!!!!

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