Self Hatred Is Real Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


Tennis star Serena Williams is the topic of conversation these days, since getting engaged and pregnant by Reddit co-founder, Alexis Ohanian. And according to the greatest female tennis player and quite possibly the greatest female athlete of all time, out of all the men she’s dated, the white men especially her now fiancé, have treated her better than the Black men she’s dated. Many are saying, it’s self-hatred when you marry and pro-create outside of your race.

We’re all entitled to our opinions because you can’t control who you love or can you? But when you cohabitate and pro-create outside of your race, is it self hate? When you long to have mixed children because you want your children mixed breed, is that self-hate? Do you look in the mirror and hate the person staring back at you?

Join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via blog talk radio for my commentary on “Self Hatred“. 

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92 thoughts on “Self Hatred Is Real Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

    • Oh well evidently her fiance can handle it and she said he treat her better. Lawd knows Common had his chance 🙄

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    • Serena is a black queen giving all that booty to a white man 🤔
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      She may be a queen but she’s a queen to the dude who caught her. My thing is this, if those black men she dated didn’t hold her down or couldn’t hold her down she went for who could. And it’s a white man. Oh well

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      • She may be a queen but she’s a queen to the dude who caught her. My thing is this, if those black men she dated didn’t hold her down or couldn’t hold her down she went for who could. And it’s a white man. Oh well
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        COSIGN!!!!!!!!

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    • Serena is a black queen giving all that booty to a white man 🤔
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      Yup and the black kings that her couldn’t keep her so whose fault is it?

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      • Serena is a black queen giving all that booty to a white man
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        Yup and the black kings that her couldn’t keep her so whose fault is it?
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        That’s RIGHT!!!!!

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  1. I’m one to believe if you love self you will want to cohabitat within your own race but sometimes it doesn’t happen like that…we don’t know what went on in Serena’s relationships. Afterall she said she don’t see color when dating. 🙄

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  2. Uma keep it💯Serena ain’t cute. And it look like she’s bleaching her skin in recent pics. When black men fail a successful black woman what else is she supposed to do? Lay down and die? C’mon now.

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    • Uma keep it💯Serena ain’t cute
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      And I’m sure she’s heard that all her life. So what did she do? she gave into the one man who treated her differently. And he just so happen to be WHITE

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  3. Tracy should be taking calls on this one.
    Only insecure people hate themselves. You should be comfortable in the skin your in.

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  4. I woulda went back to my hood and grabbed a brotha b4 i hooked up with a Joe light bright.🙄um just saying.

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    • I woulda went back to my hood and grabbed a brotha b4 i hooked up with a Joe light bright.
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      a brotha from her hood would not be her equal financially. Then she would end up paying him if the relationship goes south.

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      • brotha from her hood would not be her equal financially. Then she would end up paying him if the relationship goes south.
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        It could be the same with her white fiance. I don’t see how it matters. Look at what’s happening with Halle Berry and MJB. And y’all wondering why Oprah won’t marry Stedman🙄

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      • It could be the same with her white fiance. I don’t see how it matters. Look at what’s happening with Halle Berry and MJB. And y’all wondering why Oprah won’t marry Stedman🙄
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        Exactly!!!!

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      • Black or white when people are looking for a “come up” or a “cash in” it’s all the same cause money is still green.

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  5. But when you cohabitate and pro-create outside of your race, is it self hate? When you long to have mixed children because you want your children mixed breed, is that self-hate?

    Yes to all of this

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  6. I think you fall for who you fall for. There are some people who look for certain qualities in an individual as a reason to hook up or procreate. You hear it all the time, light skin, blue eyes, good hair. It’s ignorant to think this way but a reality.

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    • I think you fall for who you fall for.
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      maybe but i wanna be sure and fall for a black woman no one else will get my time

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    • I think you fall for who you fall for.
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      Really cause a white WOMAN can’t do shit for me.

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  7. Self love is wanting to be with your own kind. Being proud of your race is loving who you are 🤗

    Tuning in.

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    • Daisy
      So true but our btothaz and sistaz are crossing over in record numbers. Only when you are conscious of the struggle will YOU do better.

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  8. The blogs went in on her as well as other racist with regards to her being engaged to a white man who don’t even look her type. She and Common were off and on plus he cheated on her. Which is so unfortanate because they look good 2gether but even he was light bright. I believe she does hate herself and thinks hooking up with a light man will give her cute babies and that’s what she wants. That’s her end game.

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  9. If we’re not taught to love ourselves we can easily be tricked into a false hood of what love should be especially when we hate the face in the mirror. For the record the few black men Serena did date don’t equate to a whole damn race. Halle Berry said the same damb thing!! And still got dogged by her white prince.

    And yes we can control who we love, date and marry. Her comment was and is bullshit !!! But we all live and learn and her ignorance will cost her.

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  10. Self hatred is real in all races. Some people hate the skin they’ve been born in. Look at that woman who is white but was posing as black and president of the towns NAACP😶chick was as white as rice 🤣

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  11. Any man or woman who want half breed babies hate themselves. I want lil soldiers i recognize who look like me running around my house. Not no half breeded mix nuts

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  12. Wow some of these comments are strong. Guess the conversation is all GOOD as long as i don’t stress about hooking up outside my race. All nationalities are marrying outside of their race so Serena’s choice really shouldn’t be an issue. Who she chooses as her life partner is her choice.

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  13. Tuning in. Self hatred is not just about marrying and procreating outside of your race.

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  14. Can’t love black unless the black man loves black and we know that that is not the case.
    Is she suppose to sit around and waste her youth waiting on some black man to decide that she is worthy? Love who you love and if a white man treats her better than a black man, the shame is on the black man, not her….do better black man! I don’t think she should stay single and childless waiting on a black man and regardless to what race she procreates with…the baby will be BLACK.

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    • Love who you love and if a white man treats her better than a black man, the shame is on the black man
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      HELLO!!!!

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  15. Tracy,
    Qualities that go beyond the level of melanin, like integrity, honesty, a strong sense of family and value of marriage, commitment, love, affection, little-to-no drama, and loyalty led me to my choice in a white man that I love and cherish.  For the first time in my life, I picked character above color, and I will not ever apologize for that.

    But here’s a warning–if you’re dipping your toe into interracial dating because you want pretty babies, think it will augment your social status, or that ALL black men are unworthy, you’d best re-think your position.  This is shallow thinking, and any relationship based on anything remotely related to these reasons will be doomed from the start.

    Self-hatred was not my reason. In fact it was just the opposite. My man worshipped me and that was important to me because I think highly of me 🙂

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  16. A recent Pew Research Study revealed that only a puny 43% of black men marry, and of that percentage, 22% of them marry non-black women.  Yet these men are still celebrated and welcomed into the fold, we black women will protect and defend them to the death, but when a black woman does that same, then it means we hate ourselves? Palease!!!!!! Who’s willing to wait on a black man to decide? Black women moving on.

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  17. I’m an advocate of black love & on a personal level, its all I believe in. I don’t bash or judge anyone else for their preferences. I think the only time you can be a self hater is if you are making derogatory remarks and/ remarks that equal to self hatred. There’s a difference.

    But hey, to each its own. That black love tho. It’s nothing like it.

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  18. When you date outside your race, you will deal with whatever nonsense that comes your way.

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      • That can happen regardless and I don’t care what race your dating outside of.
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        TRUE! Look at that MTA worker her BF killed her then lied about it.

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      • Relationships are not perfect they take work. You have to work at it. And when there’s love and respect YOU will, if it’s worth it.

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  19. My husband is White and I am Black and I constantly get asked what made me choose someone outside of my race. I always reply that God made the choice for me and He did such an amazing job, better than I ever could have done on my own. God is good!

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      • It take black men too long to get their shit 2gether
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        Yep that’s why you put a time limit on that sucka

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      • Yeah if he’s not serious about his shit. Keep in mind all BLACK men are not roaming aimlessly some of them do have their shit together.

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      • Keep in mind all BLACK men are not roaming aimlessly some of them do have their shit together.
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        EXACTLY!!!!

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  20. Trace I disagree with your friend who called Serena ugly. she and her sister has come a long way. I woulda wifed her and that’s fa sure. Common a punk to let a white man get her.

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  21. Good show tonight Tracy.
    The Serena spin really got the conversation going and a lot of us thinking. We should be open minded about who we date, if we’re ever going to live our happily ever after

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  22. Great topic. Now if we all can just meet a rich white man and have him put a ring on it.

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  23. Shout out this morning to all the sistaz loving a BLACK man, marrying a BLACK man and procreating with a BLACK man. 💓

    Good show Tracy and yes 2each it’s own.

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