There are so many men and women who have delved into “For Better or for worse” only to have their marriage vows take a plummet along with the union of their marriage. Then after a certain amount of time, both parties are ready to jump into the dating pool again. But how long should “one” wait before deciding to date?
Divorce can be stressful as it is which can be a major source of anxiety for recently separated singles. It’s a slippery slope, so how soon should newly divorcees start dating? And what type of drama can ensue as a result?
Join me tonight at 8:00 PM on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” as I delve into the topic “The Drama’s Of Dating after divorce”.
As usual, you can call in and add your two cents to the conversation at (347) 426-3645. Dial “1” to speak with the host.
In the meantime, sound off here!
all the divorce people in the house HOLLA!!!
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dating is hard period let alone after divorce.
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My advice…#1…Get in touch with yourself first.
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I have been divorced for over ten years now, and I only started dating again very recently, so this is a show topic for me 😆
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Mm I say, spend some time getting to know yourself and what you want before rushing into finding your “better half”. You are going to have a much better chance of finding a quality partner if you have a solid foundation all by yourself first. But most of all have fun, dating, love and romance should be fun not pressure
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So many people are really traumatized by the demise of the previous relationship. Unless you are sure that you are ready, it is simply not a good idea to date immediately after a divorce.
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Often times, we have our own pathologies that just may attract us again to the same type of person we just divorced. Making sure you are aware of what caused you to marry your ex in the first place is valuable information when seeking the next relationship.
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Trace tell us how the best anybody can do about dating is to keep your expectations low and try to have fun 🙂
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We as women need to be chooser, not the ‘pick me, pick me’ needy type of attitude. It shows an insecure woman, desperate to be chosen. That’s how people end up in relationships that are un-fulfilling and sometimes abusive.
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Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.
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Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.
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Really cause you sound more like a PILL. 😆
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Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.
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Really cause you sound more like a PILL. 😆
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You don’t KNOW ME therefore your opinion doesn’t matter.
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Ladies and by all means don’t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
That’s a big fat hell no!!!
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Ladies and by all means don’t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
That’s a big fat hell no!!!
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Call me sorts of old fashioned, but never in a million years would I say to a woman “are you buying?” Are you for real?
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Ladies and by all means don’t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
That’s a big fat hell no!!!
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I know that’s right! No woman should be that damn desperate.
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Most importantly:::::: Wait until you’re single before dating. Going through a divorce=still Married.
It’s already complicated and emotionally messy time and not a good time to date.
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Sex should def. be withheld until an appropriate amount of time. and one should def be divorced and emotionally free when it does
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marriage isn’t for everyone which is why they end up divorce in the 1st place 😆
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alot of people need to know HOW to start dating after divorce esp. if they’ve been out of the dating game for a minute. i hope trace will talk about that on tonight’s show.
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Don’t that girl (Uptop) look lost 😆 bewildered and confused!
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Divorce is a terrible thing for anyone to go through! To date right away on top of it can be stressful.
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Hell after i divorced I just needed the company if nothing else 😆
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It’s all about getting back in the game.
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Never been married but I’ll comment more after tonight’s show.
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when a woman gets a divorce because her husband cheated on her trust me, you will have a bitter, suspicious chick on ya hands to deal with. so how do you break down that wall of not trusting nobody.
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I believe that if you have been separated for a long time, when the divorce is final, it should not be a problem to start dating fairly soon.
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IDK some people don’t wanna date after being married for so long.
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Well dayum!!! Just because U become divorced, doesn’t mean U dead. SMH
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Well dayum!!! Just because U become divorced, doesn’t mean U dead. SMH
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You would hope not but every situation is different.
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Tuning in to hear Tra’s perspective as usual.
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I’m not dating or divorced, just an innocent, inexperienced college student 😦
😆 But I’ll be front n center 2night as I am weekly!!!
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Tuning in 😆 Happy Hump Day Ceo’ers!
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Hey Daisy
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Afternoon ladies…just in case I missed yall downstairs.
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Hey Daisy, Kayla and Corp 🙂 Ha yall doin.
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Hello Ceo ladies
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Hey ladies
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Didn’t I speak earlier? anyway wassup peoples.
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Hello all. are you all tuning in at 8:00?
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@Yvonne…Tuning in.
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Yvonne, are you taking attendance? 😆
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Yes Yvonne tuning in 🙂 I love me some Tracy Bell
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Shiiidd alotta times, I’m like, damn the topic I get off on hearing her voice 🙂
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Can’t wait Tra, sounds like this will be a grown up conversation 🙂
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haven’t married yet but tuning in for the adult conversation 😆 may be back to comment then,
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I wonder if Militant callin in 2nite
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Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.
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Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.
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CoSign!!
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Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.
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Yea me 2 but damn! this is an ole folks topic. 😆
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Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.
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True!
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Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.
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Me either but I’m online waiting!!!!
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Ion think too many of your readers are divorced Tra. I’m not but I’m tuning in just because that’s what I do weekly 😆
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*crickets* this topic is not that interesting 2me. never married and not dating 😥
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suck it up mitches everything ain’t about sex and the single life or baby mama drama 😆 and i’m sure blog queen aka trace have a diverse audience of listeners.
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some people go thru so much hell during the divorce that they are turned off to dating after the divorce is final. but some people get right back up and marry 2 and 3 times. tuning in to hear what’s said regarding this issue.
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Feeling icy? 😡 about tonight’s topic.
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Are there many divorcee’s up in this tip? 😆 who requested this topic? 😡 rolls eyes
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Not married yet but I have some GF’s who were married and divorced guess I can tune in with them.
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Tuning in just because this is “Conversations With a Sistah” 😆 And I ain’t married nobody! YET!!
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A lotta guys I meet are divorced. Personally it’s a turn-off to me b/c I see it as baggage. esp. if he got some snot nose kids.
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I married this chick right out of HS and we were divorced in a yr or so. we both wasn’t ready. I can relate but it took me awhile b4 I decided to date again.
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The drama comes when you’re still married and only separated and tryna date. make sure it’s over before you walk thru another door people.
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Only 56 comments and it’s a show night? Ok this topic must be not exciting? Ion know just asking.
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Not married never married but tuning in.
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There are so many activities that can be done instead of stressing out about dating right after divorce. Guess we’ll be going there tonight. 🙂
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Marriage is supposed to be 4ever. I can’t relate to tonight’s topic but hell I’ll be tuned in anyways.
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great topic!!!
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I see this topic is not boding too well not tto many comments tonight?
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I’m noticing this as well Ashanti!
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I’m here!!!
waiting and online
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C’mon Trace it’s 7:59 PM
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waiting until after the show to comment
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Tracy had a good show.
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I see this topic is not boding too well not tto many comments tonight?
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I can relate to all Tracy’s topics. She have a good got damn show! ER WEEK!
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Y’all underestmated tonights show…That caller had me in tears you can tell she was telling the truth!!!! 😦
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Tonights caller blew me away y’all…. she was dating a dirty motherfucker!!!! 😦
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Dayum that sistah didn’t deserve that! Her story was mind blowing niggaz oughta stop playing
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“get his social security number before doing anything”
😆 wasn’t that Tracy’s mom?
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Yeah that was my future moms n law
she was funny too 😆
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“get his social security number before doing anything”
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Funny but good sound advice!!!
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My heart ached for that girl who called in tonight.
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OMG tonight’s show was drama filled…that caller I give her credit because she’s hurt but not bitter. that girl was basically messing around with a liar!!!! so fucking sad and deceitful 😦
Trace please get her back on I gotta hear the rest of it and how she’s coping. sending my email now.
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I was shocked when that caller shared her story. 😦 OMG it was sad!!!
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that girl blew my mind!!!!!
Tracy that TOPIC WAS SOMETHING ELSE!!!!!!!
PLEASE~PLEASE do a continuation show.
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Hold ya head up caller I believe her name was Crystal…and she greeted Tracy so lovely. I felt bad when she said “she think about how he hurt her when she lay down at night” Dayum! that’s horrible 😦
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That callers story blew my mind. That no good lying fuck she was dealing with!!!!! SmDh 😡
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Tracy your show was awesome as usual! that caller had my heart breaking for her. I hate when a women’s been hurt.
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Great show Tracy Great!!! The 2nd caller was deceived as well so sad and unfortunate!
But that caller who said “get his social security card” was hilarious!!!!!!!!!
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“get his social security card”
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CoSign!!!
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Tonight’s show was OFF THE HOOK!!!!!! all the callers blew my mind.
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“get that social security card ladies”
😆 Ain’t that the truth!!!
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It’s scary that a lot of people (men especially) are not who they say they are. 😦
Good show tonight. I feel so bad for that 1st callers whose been hurt. Really I do.
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Never gonna put you out
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna break your heart
Never gonna mess around
Never gonna tell you lies
Never gonna make you cry
All those things you said
Now would you mind telling me why?
I’m out here all alone
And I’m feeling let down
My heart’s broken up in two
I’m wondering what was true
Hearing all the shit you said
Now somebody else is in your bed
And now that I’ve got your attention
[1] – Listen to the sound of me breaking down, down, down
Can’t you hear me losing my mind?
Everything that’s everything is nothing
And I can’t tell your truth from all your lies
This is the sound of me breaking down, down, down
Over and over again in my head
You’re a liar, a liar, a liar yes
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Half of the song we heard tonight.
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Nicole whatz the name of the song Trace started to play at the end of her show tonight?
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Nicole whatz the name of the song Trace started to play at the end of her show tonight?
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Liar! Liar! ..by LaTosha Scott from the Best Man soundtrack
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Thanks Nicoly Cole!
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the 1st caller stole my heart as a dude sounds like she didn’t deserve what she got from that nigga. He was a str8 up grimmy nigga too. nasty motherfuckers like that make it hard for the rest of us good brothas.
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good show tonight ms. bell 🙂 good show.
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Tonight’s caller had me so empathetic to her experience. This guy she was dating is not only a pathological liar but he persuaded her enuff to trust his ass…the deepest thing she said was, always trust your intuition…Your gutt feeling is always real ladies always real!!!! I would love to hear the rest of her story further.
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Damn I felt for both those sistahs who called ya show tonight Trace. The 2nd caller sounded like she’s been healed but that 1st caller is really hurt. The deceit of these niggaz are pulling is just foul.
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I ain’t never heard divorce drama like I heard it tonight! That dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies. smmfh wow just wow. niggaz got some sick game fa real.
but his karma will be a bitch she ain’t gotta worry!
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that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
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And tried to stick to his shit after she found out! That’s the part that got me.
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that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
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Yes and he needs to be lined up in front of a firin squad, blind folded and shot!!
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that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
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Yep lying FUCKER!!!!
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I wanted to cry 😦 hearing that first caller. The fact that she had a smooth and drama free divorce with no issues to go to dating a fucking dawg after having trust issues is sooo fucked up! I was hoping she gave out his name and address or something just to get his ass back! I wanted to call him, bust his windows out something anything!!! I hate grimmy, low life fuckers like that!
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😦 I hope I can sleep after hearing 2night’s show. I was so hurt listening to that girl who called in. OMG she hurt me some kind of bad. Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I can’t remember.
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Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I can’t remember.
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doesn’t matter he wasn’t who he said he was…fucking her and fucking somebody else. that shit is real scary. makes you wonder.
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Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I can’t remember.
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doesn’t matter he wasn’t who he said he was…fucking her and fucking somebody else. that shit is real scary. makes you wonder.
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That monfucker mighta been slick but he couldn’t handle the fact that she caught his ass!!! I hope she stay strong and walk away for good. and after 5 yrs it will be hard!
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Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I can’t remember.
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Dude str8 played himself with her. He was a total fuck up! Now she hurt n shit!
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dayum just dayum!!! is all i can say!
good show tho.
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I HATE slick, slimy, grimy knee-grows and the dude tonight’s caller was dating for 5 years was as low down and sneaky as they come. Smh I think I woulda shot his azz. But she’s hoping he get his?? she ain’t gotz to worry his azz gonna get it double.
I like how Trace told her “her honesty might be what’s killing his conscious, which is why his dirty ass can’t stop calling her” Smh..her story was something else but most of all, a damn shame!
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Tonight’s caller and her story was shocking! Simply shocking!
Then the second caller Toni Marie Ricci, who was deceived in her marriage for 17 years.
I was like damn!!! It’s scary out here….
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well I thought I had heard it all until I heard both callers tonight.
Tracy please continue tonight’s show just as you said. Deceit is a scary thing. especially when you think you know somebody and you don’t!
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I thought niggaz stop playing long time ago until I heard the caller’s story tonight. Smh that was some sad shit!
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Sistah got played by this fool who is 19 yrs her junior. he was mature for his age Aight. he was a str8 slickster! karma is a bitch and it will be coming for him.
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That nigga need to burn his playa card for it get his ass killed fa real.
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I was touched by tonights caller her story was sad
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Trace last night’s show was deep. That caller took the whole damn cake!!!
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last nights show was some show!! that girl with her story 😡 Wow!
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Callers story was not only heartbreaking but it was a damn shame!
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But you know what @Olivijah,
The caller talked more about being decieved than dating after divorce. I listened to the rewind tonite. I thought i would hear bizaare stories about dating but instead heard about how this girl was decieved. I cant wait till Tracy revisit this topic. There are so many questions i have for the caller.
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Daisy how we know the caller will call back.?
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Hey bobby
Tracy told her they would continue the topic in a couple of weeks. Listen to the show again. 🙂
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