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The Dramas of dating after Divorce, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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September 18, 2013 by The ReadyWriter


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There are so many men and women who have delved into “For Better or for worse” only to have their marriage vows take a plummet along with the union of their marriage. Then after a certain amount of time, both parties are ready to jump into the dating pool again. But how long should “one” wait before deciding to date?

Divorce can be stressful as it isย which can be a major source of anxiety for recently separated singles. It’s a slippery slope, so how soon should newly divorcees start dating? And what type of drama can ensue as a result?

Join me tonight at 8:00 PM on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” as I delve into the topic “The Drama’s Of Dating after divorce”.

As usual, you can call in and add your two cents to the conversation at (347) 426-3645. Dial “1” to speak with the host.

In the meantime, sound off here!

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124 thoughts on “The Dramas of dating after Divorce, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

  1. Aceman says:

    all the divorce people in the house HOLLA!!!

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  2. Anthony says:

    dating is hard period let alone after divorce.

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  3. Zenna says:

    My advice…#1…Get in touch with yourself first.

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  4. SueWee says:

    I have been divorced for over ten years now, and I only started dating again very recently, so this is a show topic for me ๐Ÿ˜†

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  5. Civil says:

    Mm I say, spend some time getting to know yourself and what you want before rushing into finding your “better half”. You are going to have a much better chance of finding a quality partner if you have a solid foundation all by yourself first. But most of all have fun, dating, love and romance should be fun not pressure

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  6. AppleBottom says:

    So many people are really traumatized by the demise of the previous relationship. Unless you are sure that you are ready, it is simply not a good idea to date immediately after a divorce.

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  7. Acquitta says:

    Often times, we have our own pathologies that just may attract us again to the same type of person we just divorced. Making sure you are aware of what caused you to marry your ex in the first place is valuable information when seeking the next relationship.

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  8. Natasha says:

    Trace tell us how the best anybody can do about dating is to keep your expectations low and try to have fun ๐Ÿ™‚

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  9. Yvonne says:

    We as women need to be chooser, not the ‘pick me, pick me’ needy type of attitude. It shows an insecure woman, desperate to be chosen. That’s how people end up in relationships that are un-fulfilling and sometimes abusive.

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  10. Angelhair says:

    Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.

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    • Yes says:

      Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.
      ———
      Really cause you sound more like a PILL. ๐Ÿ˜†

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      • Angelhair says:

        Feeling good about myself has made dating lots of fun, and I think it makes me more fun to date, as well.
        โ€”โ€”โ€”
        Really cause you sound more like a PILL. ๐Ÿ˜†
        ————–
        You don’t KNOW ME therefore your opinion doesn’t matter.

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  11. Henrietta says:

    Ladies and by all means don’t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
    That’s a big fat hell no!!!

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    • Danny says:

      Ladies and by all means donโ€™t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
      Thatโ€™s a big fat hell no!!!
      ______________________
      Call me sorts of old fashioned, but never in a million years would I say to a woman “are you buying?” Are you for real?

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    • 2Thick4U says:

      Ladies and by all means donโ€™t be so desperate that you PICK UP THE CHECK!
      Thatโ€™s a big fat hell no!!!
      ______________________
      I know that’s right! No woman should be that damn desperate.

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  12. Keisha says:

    Most importantly:::::: Wait until you’re single before dating. Going through a divorce=still Married.
    It’s already complicated and emotionally messy time and not a good time to date.

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  13. Mrs. Hawthorne says:

    Sex should def. be withheld until an appropriate amount of time. and one should def be divorced and emotionally free when it does

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  14. Tamala says:

    marriage isn’t for everyone which is why they end up divorce in the 1st place ๐Ÿ˜†

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  15. Cameo says:

    alot of people need to know HOW to start dating after divorce esp. if they’ve been out of the dating game for a minute. i hope trace will talk about that on tonight’s show.

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  16. Bobby says:

    Don’t that girl (Uptop) look lost ๐Ÿ˜† bewildered and confused!

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  17. Wanda says:

    Divorce is a terrible thing for anyone to go through! To date right away on top of it can be stressful.

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  18. Adriane says:

    Hell after i divorced I just needed the company if nothing else ๐Ÿ˜†

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  19. CeoDawg says:

    It’s all about getting back in the game.

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  20. 2Thick4U says:

    Never been married but I’ll comment more after tonight’s show.

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  21. Sane says:

    when a woman gets a divorce because her husband cheated on her trust me, you will have a bitter, suspicious chick on ya hands to deal with. so how do you break down that wall of not trusting nobody.

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  22. Gia says:

    I believe that if you have been separated for a long time, when the divorce is final, it should not be a problem to start dating fairly soon.

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  23. Olivijah says:

    IDK some people don’t wanna date after being married for so long.

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  24. Omar says:

    Tuning in to hear Tra’s perspective as usual.

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  25. Felicia says:

    I’m not dating or divorced, just an innocent, inexperienced college student ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

    ๐Ÿ˜† But I’ll be front n center 2night as I am weekly!!!

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  26. Daisy says:

    Tuning in ๐Ÿ˜† Happy Hump Day Ceo’ers!

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  27. Kayla says:

    Can’t wait Tra, sounds like this will be a grown up conversation ๐Ÿ™‚

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  28. CorporateBitch says:

    haven’t married yet but tuning in for the adult conversation ๐Ÿ˜† may be back to comment then,

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  29. Yasha says:

    I wonder if Militant callin in 2nite

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  30. Yasha says:

    Topic doesn’t pertain to me but still listening in.

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  31. Starr says:

    Ion think too many of your readers are divorced Tra. I’m not but I’m tuning in just because that’s what I do weekly ๐Ÿ˜†

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  32. BillyBoy says:

    *crickets* this topic is not that interesting 2me. never married and not dating ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

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  33. UncleEd says:

    suck it up mitches everything ain’t about sex and the single life or baby mama drama ๐Ÿ˜† and i’m sure blog queen aka trace have a diverse audience of listeners.

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  34. Floridagirl says:

    some people go thru so much hell during the divorce that they are turned off to dating after the divorce is final. but some people get right back up and marry 2 and 3 times. tuning in to hear what’s said regarding this issue.

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  35. Henrietta says:

    Feeling icy? ๐Ÿ˜ก about tonight’s topic.

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  36. Bird says:

    Are there many divorcee’s up in this tip? ๐Ÿ˜† who requested this topic? ๐Ÿ˜ก rolls eyes

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  37. Miss Ang says:

    Not married yet but I have some GF’s who were married and divorced guess I can tune in with them.

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  38. SlickRick says:

    Tuning in just because this is “Conversations With a Sistah” ๐Ÿ˜† And I ain’t married nobody! YET!!

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  39. CoCo says:

    A lotta guys I meet are divorced. Personally it’s a turn-off to me b/c I see it as baggage. esp. if he got some snot nose kids.

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  40. Donte says:

    I married this chick right out of HS and we were divorced in a yr or so. we both wasn’t ready. I can relate but it took me awhile b4 I decided to date again.

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  41. Nicole says:

    The drama comes when you’re still married and only separated and tryna date. make sure it’s over before you walk thru another door people.

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  42. Mahogany says:

    Only 56 comments and it’s a show night? Ok this topic must be not exciting? Ion know just asking.

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  43. BBallen says:

    Not married never married but tuning in.

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  44. Yvonne says:

    There are so many activities that can be done instead of stressing out about dating right after divorce. Guess we’ll be going there tonight. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  45. RandomChick says:

    Marriage is supposed to be 4ever. I can’t relate to tonight’s topic but hell I’ll be tuned in anyways.

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  46. Gabriella says:

    great topic!!!

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  47. Ashanti says:

    I see this topic is not boding too well not tto many comments tonight?

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  48. Shawnia says:

    Y’all underestmated tonights show…That caller had me in tears you can tell she was telling the truth!!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

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  49. Yvonne says:

    Tonights caller blew me away y’all…. she was dating a dirty motherfucker!!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

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  50. Pointman says:

    Dayum that sistah didn’t deserve that! Her story was mind blowing niggaz oughta stop playing

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  51. Anthony says:

    “get his social security number before doing anything”

    ๐Ÿ˜† wasn’t that Tracy’s mom?

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  52. Keisha says:

    My heart ached for that girl who called in tonight.

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  53. Keisha says:

    OMG tonight’s show was drama filled…that caller I give her credit because she’s hurt but not bitter. that girl was basically messing around with a liar!!!! so fucking sad and deceitful ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

    Trace please get her back on I gotta hear the rest of it and how she’s coping. sending my email now.

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  54. Browngirl says:

    I was shocked when that caller shared her story. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ OMG it was sad!!!

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  55. Val says:

    that girl blew my mind!!!!!
    Tracy that TOPIC WAS SOMETHING ELSE!!!!!!!
    PLEASE~PLEASE do a continuation show.

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  56. Ionna says:

    Hold ya head up caller I believe her name was Crystal…and she greeted Tracy so lovely. I felt bad when she said “she think about how he hurt her when she lay down at night” Dayum! that’s horrible ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

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  57. Wanda says:

    That callers story blew my mind. That no good lying fuck she was dealing with!!!!! SmDh ๐Ÿ˜ก

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  58. 2Thick4U says:

    Tracy your show was awesome as usual! that caller had my heart breaking for her. I hate when a women’s been hurt.

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  59. Kayla says:

    Great show Tracy Great!!! The 2nd caller was deceived as well so sad and unfortunate!

    But that caller who said “get his social security card” was hilarious!!!!!!!!!

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  60. Bobby says:

    Tonight’s show was OFF THE HOOK!!!!!! all the callers blew my mind.

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  61. Starr says:

    โ€œget that social security card ladiesโ€

    ๐Ÿ˜† Ain’t that the truth!!!

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  62. Joanne says:

    It’s scary that a lot of people (men especially) are not who they say they are. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ
    Good show tonight. I feel so bad for that 1st callers whose been hurt. Really I do.

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  63. Nicole says:

    Never gonna put you out
    Never gonna let you down
    Never gonna break your heart
    Never gonna mess around
    Never gonna tell you lies
    Never gonna make you cry

    All those things you said
    Now would you mind telling me why?
    I’m out here all alone
    And I’m feeling let down
    My heart’s broken up in two
    I’m wondering what was true
    Hearing all the shit you said
    Now somebody else is in your bed
    And now that I’ve got your attention

    [1] – Listen to the sound of me breaking down, down, down
    Can’t you hear me losing my mind?
    Everything that’s everything is nothing
    And I can’t tell your truth from all your lies
    This is the sound of me breaking down, down, down
    Over and over again in my head
    You’re a liar, a liar, a liar yes

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  64. Sane says:

    the 1st caller stole my heart as a dude sounds like she didn’t deserve what she got from that nigga. He was a str8 up grimmy nigga too. nasty motherfuckers like that make it hard for the rest of us good brothas.

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  65. Zion says:

    good show tonight ms. bell ๐Ÿ™‚ good show.

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  66. Daisy says:

    Tonight’s caller had me so empathetic to her experience. This guy she was dating is not only a pathological liar but he persuaded her enuff to trust his ass…the deepest thing she said was, always trust your intuition…Your gutt feeling is always real ladies always real!!!! I would love to hear the rest of her story further.

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  67. SoldierBoy says:

    Damn I felt for both those sistahs who called ya show tonight Trace. The 2nd caller sounded like she’s been healed but that 1st caller is really hurt. The deceit of these niggaz are pulling is just foul.

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  68. Xmen says:

    I ain’t never heard divorce drama like I heard it tonight! That dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies. smmfh wow just wow. niggaz got some sick game fa real.

    but his karma will be a bitch she ain’t gotta worry!

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    • Adam says:

      that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
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      And tried to stick to his shit after she found out! That’s the part that got me.

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    • Lisa says:

      that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”
      Yes and he needs to be lined up in front of a firin squad, blind folded and shot!!

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    • QueenC says:

      that dude was str8 up lying even after she caught his ass in his lies.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”
      Yep lying FUCKER!!!!

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  69. Pinky says:

    I wanted to cry ๐Ÿ˜ฆ hearing that first caller. The fact that she had a smooth and drama free divorce with no issues to go to dating a fucking dawg after having trust issues is sooo fucked up! I was hoping she gave out his name and address or something just to get his ass back! I wanted to call him, bust his windows out something anything!!! I hate grimmy, low life fuckers like that!

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  70. Lisa says:

    ๐Ÿ˜ฆ I hope I can sleep after hearing 2night’s show. I was so hurt listening to that girl who called in. OMG she hurt me some kind of bad. Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I can’t remember.

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    • Yasha says:

      Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I canโ€™t remember.
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      doesn’t matter he wasn’t who he said he was…fucking her and fucking somebody else. that shit is real scary. makes you wonder.

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    • Aceman says:

      Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I canโ€™t remember.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”
      doesnโ€™t matter he wasnโ€™t who he said he wasโ€ฆfucking her and fucking somebody else. that shit is real scary. makes you wonder.
      ~~~~~
      That monfucker mighta been slick but he couldn’t handle the fact that she caught his ass!!! I hope she stay strong and walk away for good. and after 5 yrs it will be hard!

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    • Cameo says:

      Did she say the dude was married or shacking up? I canโ€™t remember.
      โ€”โ€”โ€”
      Dude str8 played himself with her. He was a total fuck up! Now she hurt n shit!

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  71. QTip says:

    dayum just dayum!!! is all i can say!
    good show tho.

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  72. Lexy says:

    I HATE slick, slimy, grimy knee-grows and the dude tonight’s caller was dating for 5 years was as low down and sneaky as they come. Smh I think I woulda shot his azz. But she’s hoping he get his?? she ain’t gotz to worry his azz gonna get it double.

    I like how Trace told her “her honesty might be what’s killing his conscious, which is why his dirty ass can’t stop calling her” Smh..her story was something else but most of all, a damn shame!

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  73. Lilly says:

    Tonight’s caller and her story was shocking! Simply shocking!
    Then the second caller Toni Marie Ricci, who was deceived in her marriage for 17 years.
    I was like damn!!! It’s scary out here….

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  74. QueenC says:

    well I thought I had heard it all until I heard both callers tonight.
    Tracy please continue tonight’s show just as you said. Deceit is a scary thing. especially when you think you know somebody and you don’t!

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  75. Ebonyeyes says:

    I thought niggaz stop playing long time ago until I heard the caller’s story tonight. Smh that was some sad shit!

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  76. AlScream says:

    Sistah got played by this fool who is 19 yrs her junior. he was mature for his age Aight. he was a str8 slickster! karma is a bitch and it will be coming for him.

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  77. SlickRick says:

    That nigga need to burn his playa card for it get his ass killed fa real.

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  78. Harlemgirl says:

    I was touched by tonights caller her story was sad

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  79. SlickRick says:

    Trace last night’s show was deep. That caller took the whole damn cake!!!

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  80. BBallen says:

    last nights show was some show!! that girl with her story ๐Ÿ˜ก Wow!

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  81. Olivijah says:

    Callers story was not only heartbreaking but it was a damn shame!

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    • daisy says:

      But you know what @Olivijah,
      The caller talked more about being decieved than dating after divorce. I listened to the rewind tonite. I thought i would hear bizaare stories about dating but instead heard about how this girl was decieved. I cant wait till Tracy revisit this topic. There are so many questions i have for the caller.

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    • bobby says:

      Daisy how we know the caller will call back.?

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    • Daisy says:

      Hey bobby
      Tracy told her they would continue the topic in a couple of weeks. Listen to the show again. ๐Ÿ™‚

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