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“The Secret (SEX) Life Of A Middle Aged Married Man”

The ReadyWriter

This article is not only shocking but down right disgusting! A union is between a man and a woman, a husband a wife; for two are to unite not three. The third person in a marriage should be God, not another woman or another man. But in this article, this married man is in love with a man.

I’m a 57-year-old man. Fat. Bald. I have a wife I like. And a boyfriend I love. I’ve been “happily” married for over 37 years. Yet I’ve been leading a secret double life since I turned 50. In the age of Lady Gaga and her mainstream kink videos, a married man in love and having sex with another man is one of the final taboos. I used to think that myself. Nobody talks about it. There aren’t books or movies about it. It’s the ultimate closet.

What I’ve learned in these past few years is that men, even married men, can fall in love with men. A “bromance” can naturally involve touching and it’s completely normal. This is what men have been doing since the start of time, and what men are made to do.

I’m not going to feel bad about who I am — I did that for long enough. In the immortal words of Popeye, “I yam what I yam.” In the mortal words of Lady Gaga, “I was born this way.”

I will say it and say it again, YOU ARE NOT BORN GAY!!!! THAT’S A LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL PEOPLE!!!! God is God and He is all-knowing… and God knew his intent in making woman for man, point-blank-period!

My boyfriend knows about my wife. She doesn’t know about him. Yes, it’s a problem that I’m married. It’s sad. I care for my wife and I don’t want to hurt her, which is one of the reasons why I’ve kept it secret for so long. I’m not putting her at physical risk, but the emotional risk is very real. I’m truly sorry about that.

So to hell with his wife, so what if she dies from aids or catch an STD, it’s about living a double life of fulfilling and satisfying a selfish need. Wow!

You’re not the same person at 50 you were at 20 (if you are you haven’t grown). So we are different people, stuck in the same institution.

I had been “curious” as a teenager and had one encounter with a friend. It wasn’t a good experience, I didn’t like it, so I convinced myself I never needed to do it again. Then I spent almost 30 years being faithful (the last 10 of those being celibate).

But if you’re curious, or at least not totally afraid of the idea of being with another man, those feelings never go away. Never. There are online support groups for married men who are curious, and that’s a constant. Once you have that urge, you always have that urge.

Sex is completely natural and normal for every creature on this planet — even sex among males. Sex feels good for a reason, and that reason isn’t solely so that we’ll procreate within the bounds of a marriage.

Sex is normal. Sex is natural. Sex is good.

Love is even better.

Even so, I wasn’t looking for love, I was looking for real male-bonding, friendship, a physical connection, and acceptance.

Once I was absolutely clear about that, I put a very specific ad on Craigslist and met another man looking for the same thing. I’ll go into details about this handsome, sweet, smart, funny, creative, kind, beautiful man soon.

Neither of us planned on falling in love. It wasn’t a decision or choice, it was a spiritual connection on the very deepest level. And for the first time in my life, it’s a complete love, spiritual, emotional and physical — and it’s completely honest, with no lies or omissions.

Love is a beautiful thing. And while I know that our love will hurt my wife, I also know it’s right. I know it with all my heart. And then maybe she can find real love, too.

If he was so in love with this man, he would tell his wife and set them both free; but instead he chooses to stay on the downlow in order to live an outward appearance of normality. I could respect him more if he was openly gay but he’s having the best of both his worlds with his double lifestyle.

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“Did You Know Bishop Eddie Long Had A 5th Accuser?”

The ReadyWriter

His name is Centino Kemp (pictured here), and his cross-dressing, Rihanna wig wearing, flamboyant, fiercely gay persona — presented a major problem for Eddie Long’s defense team.

Long vigorously denied any and all accusations of sexual misconduct, and he swore that he would clear his good name, remember? The good Bishop had 5 rocks and hadn’t thrown one yet is what he told his packed congregation the Sunday after this scandal first went viral. But this was all before Long’s fifth accuser (Centino Kemp) came forward.

According to FOX 5 Senior I-Team reporter Dale Russell, who broke the story of the 5th accuser, Kemp has Eddie Long’s name tattooed on his wrist. And that’s just the beginning.

The decision was made by Eddie Long’s attorneys to settle quickly, and push the entire sordid affair under the proverbial rug, with signed confidentiality agreements to ensure that whatever went on in Eddie Long’s bedroom would stay in Eddie Long’s bedroom.

Click here to read more.

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“Eddie Long Paid NOT To Admit Guilt”

The ReadyWriter

Bishop Eddie Long apologized to his victims privately but refused to give an apology publicly, which ended up costing him more.

Our legal sources familiar with this case tell us, what began as a $2 million dollar agreement to settle the case for each of the four men quickly rose to $5.5 million for the respective plaintiffs, only because Long refused to publicly admit guilt.

Therefore, the men are to divide $2.2 million dollars equally and then receive $400,000 dollars in payments until the money is paid out over the next 20 years. The final figure comes to $22 million for the four men and $2.8 million for the plaintiffs attorneys.

This proves that Bishop Eddie Long wants to remain in the closet, with skeletons inching out a little at a time.

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“Alot of Black Men, Pastors And Leaders On The DownLow”

The ReadyWriter

Pastor Michael Steven author of “Straight Up” said a lot of men in the black church who are on the down-low are in this struggle because they are not willing to deal with their homosexuality. This is due in part to the fact that, it’s not being dealt with in the black church.

Pastor Micheal answers the question as to what is fueling the epidemic of this down-low experience? These men are confused and dealing with a demonic influence and most churches aren’t equipped to deal with these issues that are plaguing the black community. This is why 90% of black women are HIV positive because they are married too or sleeping with homosexual men.

Pastor Michael Steven said “men who are on the down-low are half alive and half dead” God did not create man to be feminine nor did he create a man to be the receiver and that shouldn’t be the icon in America.

This man is deep and he rightly divides the Word of Truth on this issue.

I encourage my readers to take a listen….

To hear this pastor click here!!!!~

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“DeeJay Mr. Cee Pleads Guilty For Sex With Male Prositute”

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HOT 97  deejay Mister Cee pled guilty to public lewdness and exposure in a New York Criminal Court room this morning. Mr. Cee whose real name is Calvin Lebrun, 42, was arrested on March 30, after cops caught him getting oral sex from another man in a car, Manhattan prosecutors revealed.

Cee, who is also a well-respected record producer, pleaded guilty to a charge of loitering for the purpose of engaging in a prostitution offence, which is not a crime but a violation instead.

The male prostitute Cee was caught with is Lawrence Campbell, 20.

In the police report, the arresting officer wrote that he observed defendant Campbell manipulating defendant Lebrun’s “exposed, naked, and erect penis” in a public place where he might “readily be observed.” And that Campbell’s mouth and lips were firmly attached to Lebrun’s penis “in an up-and-down motion consistent with oral sex.”

When the news first broke, Mister Cee created a Twitter account to vigorously defend his questionable manhood. Other deejays, who have had their manhoods questioned in the past — such as Funkmaster Flex — joined rap artists in support of the married father of four.