When a couple remain married after an affair, the victim’s self-confidence is gone. After all, how can the one who’s been betrayed give their cheating spouse everything that the affair partner could – the excitement, the fresh conversation, the sex, the attention, etc.? After-all, self-esteem, self-concept and self-confidence are all very similar and somewhat related.
When a woman has been betrayed by her husband’s infidelity, no amount of words or healing can compete with the inner most thoughts in her mind. That woman is constantly trying to convince friends, family and the world that there’s happiness and tranquility in the midst of her forgiveness. This seems to be the case with Beyonce and jay Z of late, with nude pics surfacing online and throughout social media, attempting to share with the world how solid their love is.
This is a bit much but what’s the real issue here?
Join us at 6:30 p.m. EST with host Tracy L. Bell via Blog Talk Radio on “Conversations Of A Sistah” for Ms. Bell’s commentary “A Husband’s Infidelity and a Wife’s Self Esteem“
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Hope to see you on the air!!!!
Conversations Of A Sistah 
Tracy you’re posting late.
Darn.
I was wondering what was up?🤗
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Ah lets get this convo popping.
2 hours till show time😎
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We are 😛 good show
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was a good show tonight
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Ever since Jay admitted he cheated they’ve been scrutinized
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Maybe it’s because beyonce is doing the most to make money while proving to the world that they’re happy and she still got it with them naked pics🙄she stay doing the most.
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Tracy we sshould’ve gotten this post this morning😏
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I think she made it clear some time ago, that as long as the post comes out before the show that’s all that matters.😛✌
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Jay need to do something about that nappy ass head. Why is she wearing a veil?
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Tracy she’s trying to keep them relevant that’s why we getting the racy pics of them🤣….I think Bey and Jay need to realize that they are not the “it” folks no more….people are tired of them and waiting on the next big thing….
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They will get divorced once they realize that their day is over and the pretending can stop.
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I agree Gee. She’s trying to convince the world that their still IT. Same ole OTR tour. Nothing new.
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They will get divorced once they realize that their day is over and the pretending can stop.
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Agreed
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Thats what i have always had a hard time wrapping my head around. He doesnt seem to care how exposed or raunchy she gets. Its like he is either pushing this image or allowing it, to make himself look some kind of way. This is his wife and the mother of his children….what man with a shred of decency would be okay with this. What woman would do this? This is an incredibly private moment, but for some likes and some coins youre willing to put it all out there. smh
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Tracy she’s trying to keep them relevant that’s why we getting the racy pics of them🤣
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I actually like the pic, it goes with the tour! Staged? Yes!
Is it an act of desperation, yes! Does she look Gud? Yes!
Her fans or stans always wanted her to be the only one and number one, which made her a stand alone artist!
At some point, the public’s attention weans, and she has to post pics, use her kids, or relationship to keep people talking and interested!
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Tickets sales are slow that’s why they’ve started giving away tickets. Did y ‘all know their ticket cost are something like $633.00
ooh chile not me.
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show going LIVE just made it.
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I thought it was cancelled for tonight
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nah she posted it late
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It’s ok. I follow the show aside from this blog anyways
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yea I think they make it look good for the cameras and the public.
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Marriage is a contract!!! YES!!! Tra I agree 100% you ain’t neva lied
Good info.
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Don’t nobody wanna see Jay Z. naked. I never thought she would stoop to this level of naked pics.
Good show Trac
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I don’t EVER want to see Jay Z in an intimate situation. His knock kneed giraffe legs can keep those pics for private. He just wanted to show off his boobs, he aint slick. He told Bey she ain’t the only one who can slay. If she can pretend to read, he can pretend to be sexy.
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Tracy, good show and I too believe that infidelity is a deal breaker.
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Tracy, good show and I too believe that infidelity is a deal breaker.
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Ditto
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IMO infidelity should be a deal breaker period. Marriage ain’t what it use to be.
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Marriage and commitment is over rated.
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I believe Jay and B are living their best life….
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I think Bey had a nose job, I’ve thought that for a long time now.
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I am not a fan of these devil worshippers. I don’t see what’s so great about her because she’s not that talented. Monica & Jennifer Hudson sings better than her, and Ciara is a better dancer but so many people act like she’s the best ever. She’s not original or creative, she steals other people’s ideas. Y’all need to stop calling her Queen B, because the original Queen B is Lil Kim.
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They both reek of desperation and it’s just not attractive….
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They sure got ppl talking… achieved their aim!
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Oh good show Tra.
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Reachin
#CORNYCARTERMOMENT
when we wanted to know they kept it away…so keep it away.
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Exactly. what happened to “we keep our private lives private” now she willing to give us it all. smh
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Thirsty.
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Husband and wife lying in bed together half-naked.
So shocking!! 😲😲 that’s the insecurity Tracy talkin bout.
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All those pics are staged but it’s provocative it gets the people going!!
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This write up! 😂😂😂 I agree with every bit of it.
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I like Beyoncé, but this (along with her seriously grinding him on stage), does look like a desperate attempt for both of them to reassert their sex appeal. I’m not sure why Bey would think she needed to do so, I’ve seen this as people get older. We understand. You still got it! No need for this really.
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she is in competition with the younger women
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she is in competition with the younger women
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and whoever Jay had an affair with 😛
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You know? This pretty much seals it. These are some jaded individuals with some kind of gaping hole in their lives. Their need for attention and relevancy is disturbing.
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A PIMP AND HIS HO, NOTHING NEW HERE.
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When you are black and have signed contracts with white supremacist no telling what you will end up doing hell they might have jay z bent over on desks
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holla
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Beyoncé fans are so thirsty and she knows that. Why y’all think she keeps going on tour, performing the same 10 songs? 😆 She doesn’t even change her wigs up. She changes outfits and her fans swear she’s “ushering in a new era in pop culture.” Chile BYYYYEEEE. Bey ain’t the first to make an album about marital woes and won’t be the last.
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Beyonce going hard though !!…Guess she’s trying to make shit known🙄…To someone😙😙! Like Tra said on the show that self-esteem will be shocked.
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BeYAWNce know she can’t read staupppppp it 😛
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Beyoncé knows she can’t read. Stop the foolishness.
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THEY TRYNA SELL THEM OTR TICKETS
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Instead of OTR, it should be ATC (At All Costs) 😆 Anything to get people talking, I guess.
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Beyonce needs to go in the opposite direction with new stuff, new look, new show, new PR stunts!
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Lawd……anything for attention.
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I’m a big Bey fan, but I think this was too much and very unnecessary 🤦
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Good show Tracy and I agree because I remember when Jay & B wouldn’t even admit that they were even a couple…way back in her Destiny Child days. I had a thought, Jay didn’t want anyone to know that she was claiming him and vice versa. No surprise there. He’s been cheating, was cheating and probaly always will. Then the story about Cathy Koreana (r.i.p.) & Jay
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Good show Tracy and I agree because I remember when Jay & B wouldn’t even admit that they were even a couple
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I remember that. Beyoncé was hurt by this.
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Good show Tracy and I agree because I remember when Jay & B wouldn’t even admit that they were even a couple
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Exactly.
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What I wanna know is, WHO TOOK THE DANG ON PICTURE!?!?!?
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This is the same couple that spent years telling us they’re private right ? Until it became financially convenient to make albums about marital woes right ? Hypocrites and fraudulent ass negroes.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tracy you shared some enlightening thoughts especially about marriage being a contract. Alot of women are so caught up in the fairytale that they miss the obvious bottom lines. My girlfriend’s say. You never know what you’ll do in your marriage but infidelity would be a deal breaker for me.😏when you cheat you betray which challenges the trust and if there’s no trust there’s no foundation.
Good show👍
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“Marriage is a contract because we enter into under the faith and stupidity of love” T.L.B. Conversations Of A Sistah
#realtalk
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Tracy said “she cannot enter into until death do us part without the unless” 😆
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Mahogany I swear it’s like she would be the run away bride.🤣
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The more successful you become the harder it is to wanna settle down. Not saying we don’t need our men but you don’t wanna hook onto the bullshit is all. Tracy made so many interesting points. We need to be more smart and savvy before entering into what we believe will be long term.
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good morning ladies,
so where does the LOVE fit in? should that be apart of the contract too? we are suppose to marry for love and commitment not for “oh how I don’t wanna screw myself by hooking up with you” c’mon now.
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Adam so true but love ain’t gon pay the rent and keep me healthy if you decide to change up in the marriage.
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Bobby i don’t believe that people change, i believe when they get comfy they revert to who they really are. Too many women entering the institution of marriage blindly why? because once they give up the goods it clouds their judgement. after a couple of years and maybe a couple of months reality sets in.
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Too many women entering the institution of marriage blindly why? because once they give up the goods it clouds their judgement.
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CoSign. Sex clouds your judgement like a motherfucker. women often confuse the 2. this is the issue.
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Sistaz cheat too. It’s just that Jay and Bey is in the public eye.
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