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To mask his pain, he plays the rebound Game? Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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May 1, 2013 by The ReadyWriter


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Are you the rebound chick? His plan B? The plan that he intends to use if his first plan fails. This is the case when a man needs to mask his pain and hurt from a previous relationship. I find there are a lot of women willing to play this Russian roulette with a man because they refuse to see the forest for the trees.

A rebounding man has a lot of emotional issues not dealt with, such as; he doesn’t want to be alone, he doesn’t want to feel that crush from his failed relationship, so his true intent is to fill a void to mask how he really feels. The new relationship is meant to keep him from having to deal with his feelings about his recent breakup. Rebound relationships are never healthy; in fact they’re superficial because you’re only being used by the man to ride through his short period of delusion.

Men who have breakups and then immediately involve themselves with someone else seem to feel the need to prove to themselves they are worthy of love and affection. They may miss the comfort and affection of the regular relationship. But whatever the reason, it is a selfish reason, one that is based on serving the self-esteem and satisfying the feeling of personal worth.

I dare you to join me tonight at 8:00 P.M. on “Conversations Of A Sistah” on “Conversations Live” as I expound on this topic.

I’ve decided to dedicate this show to every single one of my sistahs on the rebound. Allow me to “school you” concerning the truth.

We welcome your topic related questions @ conversations@optonline.net.

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135 thoughts on “To mask his pain, he plays the rebound Game? Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

  1. Mrs. Hawthorne says:

    Mm 😆 Interesting!!

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  2. Daisy says:

    I’m sharing this show with all of my GF’S…some of them believe a rebound man is the best man to hook up with. smh…can’ wait to hear this show tonight.

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  3. Daisy says:

    Good Wednesday morning Fam

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  4. BBallen says:

    Let me email TRace’s ass right now. Men are not the only ones to date on the rebound women do it too.

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    • Keisha says:

      Men are not the only ones to date on the rebound women do it too.
      ——–
      men mostly B, cause they hate being alone. so get over it. 😆

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      • Adriane says:

        Men are not the only ones to date on the rebound women do it too.
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        Oh most definitely!

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      • Coco says:

        Men are not the only ones to date on the rebound women do it too.
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        Of course they do.

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      • Bird says:

        Men are not the only ones to date on the rebound women do it too.
        ——–

        Yeah women do too but we talkin bout the MEN!!!! 😆

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  5. Keisha says:

    another good RELATIONSHIP topic. 🙂

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  6. Xmen says:

    Both men and women date on the rebound.
    Sorry Tra you WRONG!!!

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  7. Pamela says:

    I see the guys are up in arms on this subject. Maybe Tracy’s topic is taken from her perspective either way sounds good!

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  8. AlScream says:

    Wow so only men date on the rebound? That’s BULLSHIT Tra and you know it!!

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  9. BrownGirl says:

    Tuning in 😆 Tra shole know how to get her Ceo readers up in arms. 😆

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  10. Zion says:

    SMH…Ok.

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  11. Kayla says:

    I beg to differ with you Ms. Bell, I know some women who’ve dated on the rebound too.
    Tuning in.

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  12. 2Thick4U says:

    Not only have some women dated on the rebound they’ve married on the rebound to boot. This is NOT just a man epidemic, this is a 2-way topic.

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  13. Lexy says:

    CALM DOWN CEO MEN FOLK…Y’ALL KNOW TRACY IS A REBEL ROUSER !! 😆
    JUST IN CASE I’M TUNING IN TO HEEAR HOW SHE SPIN THIS TOPIC.

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    • Adriane says:

      Y’ALL KNOW TRACY IS A REBEL ROUSER !! 😆
      ———-
      CoSign!!!!!! And she does it well 😆

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  14. Omar says:

    LOL I’ve dated on the rebound b4. and it sucks!!! especially when you ain’t feelin a chick.

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  15. Bobby says:

    when I think about Jesus and all he’s done for me I can dance, dance, dance all nite!!!!

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  16. Adam says:

    Tracy you dead-ass wrong for trying to make this a MAN thing. I will give you until tonight’s show to redeem yourself.

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  17. Adriane says:

    😆 awesome topic…I see the men got they boxers in a bunch about it too.

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  18. Nicole says:

    I think that when men date on the rebound is to cover up a hurt but for women it’s because they just gotta have somebody.

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  19. Sane says:

    I fucks around on the rebound.
    Hell I don’t care :shrug:

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  20. Jamilla says:

    get it tra wit ya show stopping topics.

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  21. CorporateBitch says:

    Now you all know Tracy’s ultimate intention is to uplift the men in her topic rather than degrade them 😆

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  22. Mahogany says:

    This is going to be a good one. Let me email the show and add my .2 cents cause sistahs be on the rebound too.

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  23. Felicia says:

    What is the extend of a rebound relationship? Can somebody tell me b4 tuning in tonight.?

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    • Shawnia says:

      What is the extend of a rebound relationship? Can somebody tell me b4 tuning in tonight.?
      ~~~~~~~
      Felicia you are a college student get a dictionary girl. and look up rebound.

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      • Olivijah says:

        What is the extend of a rebound relationship? Can somebody tell me b4 tuning in tonight.?
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        To recover, as from depression or disappointment in a previous relationship 😆 Dayum must we teach the chillins everything.

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      • Slickrick says:

        What is the extend of a rebound relationship? Can somebody tell me b4 tuning in tonight.?
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        Easy prey. You neva ask such a question in an open forum like this. call me 212-555-1212

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  24. Acquitta says:

    Sounds like Trace is taking the time out to acknowledge SOMEBODY’S hurt

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  25. Ionna says:

    he married her on the rebound 😆 True statement.

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  26. RandomChick says:

    Men and women both sometimes always rebound from an impact (or series of impacts)

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  27. Ebonyeyes says:

    I likes thanx Tra

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  28. HarlemGirl says:

    Rebound relationships what a good one this is all too popular nowadays.

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  29. Pointman says:

    Niggaz always try to rebound after a lost. 😆

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  30. Cameo says:

    LMAO 😆 Cause y’all know damn well brothas stay rebounding. We always gotta a plan B.

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  31. aceman says:

    Ok why Trace just calling brothas out like this.

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  32. Zenna says:

    Relationships on the rebound.
    Thank God’s that’s neva been me.
    Sounds good though.
    Can’t wait tuning in tonight.

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  33. Tamala says:

    Oh that Blog Queen Bell is a mess!
    Wonder who she knows or suspects is on the rebound. 😆

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  34. WandaB says:

    when will I find my prince charming 😥

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    • Bobby says:

      when will I find my prince charming 😥
      ——–

      in a fairytale book 😆

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      • WandaB says:

        when will I find my prince charming 😥
        ——–

        in a fairytale book 😆
        *******************
        Damn dream killer 😆

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  35. Yvonne says:

    Can I reserve comment until after the show?
    And no Tracy did not say she’s dedicating tonight’s show to all her sistahs on the rebound. Smh.

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    • Coco says:

      And no Tracy did not say she’s dedicating tonight’s show to all her sistahs on the rebound.
      *********************
      Yes she did, I’m not offended are U? only if it applies I guess.

      “I’ve decided to dedicate this show to every single one of my sistahs on the rebound. Allow me to “school you” concerning the truth.”

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  36. WandaB says:

    Tracy I want you to do a show about love.

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  37. Yasha says:

    Well are any of you on the rebound? Holla!

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  38. Floridagirl says:

    I can’t 😆 with Tracy and her damn hot topics!!

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  39. annonymous says:

    I KNOW A DUDE WHO MARRIED AND HAD A BABY WITH A CHICK ON THE REBOUND AND REGRETTED IT LIKE HELL WHEN HE CAME TOO. NOW HE FUCKED UP AND SO IS THE GIRL. PLUS THEY GOTTA KID NOW THAT HE DON’T WANT.

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  40. Gabriella says:

    be by yaself.
    do you until you heal. involving another person only makes matters worse.

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  41. Slickrick says:

    Trace don’t be schooling these women on how to know when a brotha got em on the rebound. that’s a ninja’s best kept secret. 😆

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  42. QTip says:

    damn now we on the rebound. personally I can’t do it. I don’t believe in “if u can’t be with the one you love, love the one you with.” nah I don’t roll like that. you only using that person.

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  43. Starr says:

    Vey Touchy this subject is, esp. since men take pride in showing an interest in another woman just to get over the one who hurt em. bastids!!!!!!!!

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  44. Donte says:

    See I believe women rebound quicker because they have a greater support system.
    •Women have a much stronger emotional support system of female friends and family. This helps them heal much faster than guys. The quicker they heal, the more likely they are to start dating again.

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  45. Gia says:

    I agree with Trace on this one, men tend to lose their confidence with women when they breakup and he’s on the rebound. To regain his confidence, they will pursue women just to boost their usually bruised ego’s. 😆 Get it Trace you know what you talkin bout you on point!!!

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  46. Manup says:

    Trace you’s one stone cold chick. 😆
    What dude tried to holla at you and he was newly divorced or separated?
    I hope that nigga will be tuned in.
    Trace you can’t fool me.
    You be talking bout that True to life shit!!!

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  47. Danny says:

    ok tra. I gotta hear where u coming from with this one.

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  48. Joanne says:

    Another good show 😆

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  49. Bird says:

    HO!!!!!!!!!!!!
    And the Conversations are due to start in another 27 minutes people.

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  50. Anthony says:

    LMMFAO TRACE GOT GAME PEOPLE.

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    • Natasha says:

      LMMFAO TRACE GOT GAME PEOPLE
      ———————————————-
      Why @ Anthony, cause she can peak a niggras card 😆

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      • Pinky says:

        LMMFAO TRACE GOT GAME PEOPLE
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        LOL 😆 @ —> “Why @ Anthony, cause she can peak a niggras card”

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  51. Natasha says:

    Ok Ms. Bell you was talking like you was sitting at my kitchen table. Sistah to Sistah. 😆

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  52. UncleEd says:

    I’m sorry my Ceo dudes….Ms. Bell is RIGHT men seek rebound relationships quicker than women. And it is because of OUR fragile EGO’s.

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  53. Nicole says:

    This song is the SHIT Tra!!!!!

    Thank you for ending tonights topic with it.

    Darkchild, oh yeah
    Toni Braxton, oh
    Ha-ha, uh-huh
    Yeah, uh, uh
    Darkchild yeah

    Listen girl
    Who do you think I am?
    Don’t you know that he was my man?
    But I chose to let him go
    So why do you act like I still care about him?
    Looking at me like I’m hurt
    When I’m the one who said I didn’t want it to work
    Don’t you forget I had him first?

    What you thinkin’?
    Stop playing me
    He wasn’t man enough for me
    If you don’t know now here’s chance
    I’ve already had your man
    Do you wonder just where he’s been, yeah?
    Not be worried about him
    Now it’s time you know the truth
    I think he’s just the man for you

    What are you thinking?
    Did you know about us back them?
    Do you know i dumped your husband, girlfriend?
    I’m not thinking ’bout him
    But you married him
    Do you know I made him leave?
    Do you know he begged to stay with me?
    He wasn’t man enough for me

    Listen girl
    Didn’t he tell you the truth?
    If not then why don’t you ask him?
    The maybe you can be more into him
    Instead of worrying about me
    And hopefully you won’t find
    All the reasons why his love didn’t count
    And why we couldn’t work it out

    What you thinkin’?
    Stop playing me
    He wasn’t man enough for me
    If you don’t know now here’s chance
    I’ve already had your man
    Do you wonder just where he’s been, yeah?
    Not be worried about him
    Now it’s time you know the truth
    I think he’s just the man for you

    What are you thinking?
    Do you know about us back them?
    Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
    I’m not thinking ’bout him
    But you married him
    Do you know I made him leave?
    Do you know he begged to stay with me?
    He wasn’t man enough for me

    What are you thinking?
    Do you know about us back them?
    Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
    I’m not thinking ’bout him
    But you married him
    Do you know I made him leave?
    Do you know he begged to stay with me?
    He wasn’t man enough for me

    Oh yeah
    So many reasons why are love is through, yeah
    What makes you think he’ll be good to you, no
    It makes no sense cause he will never change
    Girl you better recognize the game, oh yeah

    What are you thinking?
    Do you know about us back them?
    Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
    I’m not thinking ’bout him
    But you married him
    You know I made him leave
    And you know he begged to stay with me
    He wasn’t man enough for me

    What are you thinking?
    Do you know about us back them?
    Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
    I’m not thinking ’bout him
    But you married him
    Do you know I made him leave?
    Do you know he begged to stay with me?
    He wasn’t man enough for me

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  54. Pinky says:

    Good show Tracy!!!!
    You have me cracking the FUCK up 😆 with your “5” man on the rebound signs

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  55. QueenC says:

    Tracy were you nervous because of all of the emails you recieved regarding the show? Don’t be scared when you address the questions and comments. Say what you gotta say and let that be it.

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  56. CEODawg says:

    Tracy good show tonight.

    You were funny as you stood your ground on your topic geared toward men.

    Good Night all :peace:

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  57. henriettagreen38 says:

    I was trying to wait until my gravi pic kicked in.

    Good show Ms. Tracy

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  58. Daisy says:

    Tracy you had an awesome show. You be sharing good information 😆 My BFF’s and I laughed our asses off!!!

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  59. HarlemGirl says:

    Great show Tra!!!

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  60. Ionna says:

    Good show Tracy

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  61. BrownGirl says:

    Tracy you 5 rebound points were funny as hail 😆

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  62. Intense says:

    missed tonight’s show live but will be catching it on the rewind.

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  63. Katman says:

    Tra your show is sexiest

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  64. Cameo says:

    Yeah Trace showed her ass on her show tonight

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    • Tamala says:

      Yeah Trace showed her ass on her show tonight
      ——-
      No she just exposed the truth as usual.

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