Good day, CEO Readers!!
Again, I oppose the question, has old fashion played out along with answering machines, rotary dialing and busy signals? It goes without saying that this translates to romance, dating and marriage too!
Can two people come together and find a happy and peaceful medium between the new and the old?
In a conversation I had the other evening with my crony, he said, “women of this generation don’t do what they used to do back in the day and my oh my how times have changed!”
The conversation came about as we were listening to the lyrics of a favorite Whitney Houston song of mine: “Things just ain’t the way that they used to be · Back in the day when a man meant security · He’d be working hard all week, baby kick back and throw up your feet, let me fix you a treat, so it might be love and sweet”
The song talks about “old school love” when he ran down how the ladies today are not old school anymore.
He said:
- Women don’t cook,
- They don’t behave like ladies,
- They don’t give you anything to look forward to. (meaning they give-up the goods too quick)
- They don’t care for and/or about their man
- They don’t trust men
- And they don’t take off their man’s shoes anymore (The one thing his mother always did for his father). I died laughing at that one.
What are your thoughts? My CEO ladies, in particular! Do you find this to be true or a little embellished?
In the meantime, here’s the song for your listening pleasure. 🙂
Conversations Of A Sistah 
If the man is my husband I will do all of that if not…oh hell no!!!
Sounds like Ms. Bell and her crony might “tie the knot soon” *wink-wink*
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This post is definitely telling the truth. The stupidity of women these days is something else!
Saying if I’ll do it only if you do, or he’s not worth it makes absolutely no sense, in the end nothing gets done. Lead by example ladies if you have to.
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Bballen, before you look at someone else for certain treatments you gotta make sure you deserve it.
know what you’re worth it., so when you don’t get it you can take the appropriate action.
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Yes I do love that man!!
Thanks for the video and posting the song ms. Bell.
Women are liberated and can remain that way and still care for the man that they love. I would ONLY do this for my husband., only a husband should experience all the perks., ladies should NOT be willing to show their whole hand while dating, when he “upgrades ya” then you give up all the perks.
Until then, give him something to wait for. 🙂
Tracy I think it’s sweet that you love this song.
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I feel you @Mrs.
Also men are not in homes anymore. Why would a woman do that to a man that is not their husband. Women had HUSBANDS back in the day.
Tracy ask your man——>WHERE R THE husbands Now????????
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Yessssss! This My Shit
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what’s ya shit?
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Most of what Tra’s man said is true.. but the catch 22 is., men dont do alot of things REAL men use to do back in da day either!
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Amen!
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AMEN!!!
AMEN!!!
But Tracy, tell ya CRONY, not all men are worth catering too.
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PREACH YA’LL!
PREACH!
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ya’ll better preach up in diss bitch!!!!!
There aint no mystery and masculinity anymore.
Because THEY (SOME MEN) MAKE THE CHOICE, to take it up da azz some of em.
How we gone take off their damn shoes if they wanna wear heels like us women!!!!
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cosign
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I agree @Starr,
Some women have no choice but 2 Strap it ON and BE MEN!
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Sorry that’s where I disagree Starr,
I hear women all that time talkin about there going to turn Lesbo b/c a MAN has done them wrong. These females are dogging females out too.
My take on this is that women give up at a drop of a hat. It use to be you can take a young lady out show them a good time maybe get a long kiss goodnight then they will give up the panties on a later date. Now all you got to do is meet a chic in the club by them a few drinks and they are ready to go home with you. MAN I have turned numerous women down trying to get me in there house and have there way with me.
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That’s for real @Anthony.
A lot of women have become lesbians because they were lonely not because they liked women. I’d rather be alone than munch carpet. I’m sorry.
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pass the mother-fuckin popcorn ya’ll, cause tra done started some SHIAT and it’s bout to be ON UP in here!!!!
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You can say that again @tamala.
Men are always saying what females don’t do anymore.
what about them?
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Ladies, A Question?
Those Men that dont alot for you, why do you consistently deal with them. I mean most men are straight trash I agree with you but alot of women are just as worse for dealing with them. Im so tired of women telling the same old stories of this man did this, this man did that, all the while knowing the consequence before all that crap happened. I f you know what a dog will do YOU CANT TEACH HIM NEW TRICKS so dont get upset when something horrible happens to you. STOP SAYING ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS Women see a man in school working to get his MBA and working at a internship and they will reject him for the local drug dealer or hustler or “drug dealer turned rapper” why because the fast life is intriguing. Rather style over substance. Its only a fact you mess with trash eventually you will become a product of your environment.
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I SECOND THAT @ AceMan, but still meant WTF I said….
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@Tamala,
I still do all of the above that Tracy’s man speaks of, except remove my man’s shoes.
I think it has to do a lot with the upbringing. You imitate what you see, I do it because I was raised that way. Nowadays there are more single parents & broken homes.
Also a man have 2 make sure hey uphold their part also. My dad provided for us & treated my mother well. I find a lot of men to be disrespectful and uncouth.
So it depends on the situation.
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Amen I do agree @Tamala., men are nothing like what I seen as a child. My mom and grandmother only worked because they wanted to not because they had too. The men in my life growing up took care of home first.
Hey Tabatha….
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co-sign
I don’t have a problem at all doing all those things and more. That’s how I was raised. It’s just that the person has to meet me halfway, and appreciate what he has.
Instead of people like my ex, who wanted all of that from me and he wanted to date others and have sex with other women at the same time.
Then some men wonder why they don’t receive this ‘special’ treatment from good women…..smh
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men dont deserve a cooked meal or rubbed feet esp. if they dont take care of their kids or dont wanna put a ring on it.
Men got cooked meals because they went to work all day brought home the bacon. They treated women like women they get treated like men. Plus groceries aint free if your not helping put them on the table then you dont eat.
Hell we work too nowadays. Women were stay at home moms back then they had nothing but time to cook the food you bought and kiss their man’s azz.
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Damn @Tamala,
You sound like a “bitter azz man hater”
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LOL @ Tamala,
Well., I cook for my husband because he desereve it when he gets off i got that for him.
I clean after him 2-because i he can’t clean my house like me.
But just like i’ll cook his meals, he takes me out to dinner as well.
That works for us., we do 50/50!!!
I’m 🙂 cause I love that man!!!!
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MY HOUSE..WHAT ABOUT OUR HOUSE? THATS ONE OF THE PROBLEMS RIGHT THERE…
I CAN SEE CLEANING YOUR HOUSE, BUT YOU SHOULDN”T BE CLEANING UP BEHIND NO DAMN MAN!!!!!
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you so called women need to go back to the old days/ways and submit to us. The world would be a better place..
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@man,
Like a lot of Black Women, I don’t have a problem submitting, but if you are talking about making the world a better place, it takes two sweetie.
So what changes will you (general sense) make to help this world become a better place?
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Yeah @Man,
what changes will you make to better this world?
we’ll wait???
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@Man,
I will submit to my husband not a boytoy., I will cater to “my husband” not a boytoy. Then HIS WORLD will be a better place when I am at the center of it.
Bye fool!!!!
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i believe we all are saying the same thing, truth b told, i dont know how old alot of u in here r, but i can say for my generation (x) alot of us didnt have real parents or got 2 see what its like to be in a real relationship so we dont know what to do or what to ecxpect, i would say this is america’s problem, but more so in the black community., so u have hood niccas and nickettes, running around thinking they GROWN ADULTS and they still have a high school mentality.
me and wifey are 50/50, its not 60/40 none of that, she brings home the bacon, i have a nice job but every woman i have dated made more than me. we r PARTNERS we have DIMOCRACY, no1 vote is greater than the other, we talk it out like a jury would do, and make the best choice for US as a couple, doesnt matter who did what and when, just as long as it got done. barack woulndt have been the pressident without michelle and hillary wouldnt have been considered without bill……i rest my case.
i’m giving ya’ll a mans opinion, reach 1 teach 1 goes for all of us, LADIES, let me say this is no beef just a discussion, i think yall r cool.
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@Xmen2009, I also agree w/you that a lot of people on here must be really young, if not in age def in mind.
Thank you for keeping it positive…
@Ms. Tracy,
My favorite one is; “They don’t give you anything to look forward to. They’re too quick to give up all the goods.”
You’d be amazed at how fast women get down these days. It don’t take much work or effort. Here’s what kills me too, they like to get fucked. They’re not into romance and taking things slow, they want to get pounded. It’s just too easy! Being easy to get into bed is only sexy for the moment, you know? I would say that, in this day and age, if a man takes his time to have sex with a woman, he’s probably really feeling her.
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AMEN!!
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Aww @ Xmen2009.,
who knew you had some damn sense. Aww!!!
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Um, these are not the good ol days where women were housewives.
Most women work & dont have time to cater to a mans every need. You need balance in the relationship. Doesnt matter who is doing the cooking & cleaning as long as it gets done.
Some men think all they have to do is bring home the bacon. Some dont even do that and still expect all that crap listed above.
Please. I Thank god I have a good man who has my dinner ready and the house clean when i get home from my 9 to 5.
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Your man must not work then?!
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That’s a blessing to hear that your man takes care of things like that!
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women arent woman anymore either for that fact!
Why? Cause they wanna be men, lol.
I was raised by a grandmother and my momma and i can say they were real women, they didnt talk about there men to others, they cooked, cleaned, and the whole 9.
my wife now, she is a woman, she makes more than i do, but we are 1, she allows me too still be a MAN.
And no i dont rule the relationship but my vote counts just as much as hers does.
love and peace black people
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Your comments rings a lot a truth but I am a real woman who works, cooks, cleans and make sure my man as well as my family are ok.
I wouldn’t dream of putting my man down to anyone if he is bad enough to dog out why be with him??
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It’s all the liberated women crap we’ve been fed by white people… They know we fall for anything and look at the single mothers in the black community?…
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“But I get the purpose of the song, it’s basically saying plant yourself here at home with me where you belong.”
It’s a really deep, and loving song Ms. Bell.
So you apparently love that man??? 🙂
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Dear Ms. Tracy,
I cook for my man, rub his back, wash his back and bake his favorite desserts, etc. But I draw the line at taking off his damn shoes.
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there is actually something very loving and soul-enlightening about this type of “feet” thing.
And if your man is humble ladies, ain’t nothing wrong with washing or rubbing his feet.
LOL @Lisa.
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hell @ Adriane,
I’ll SUCK MY MAN’S TOES and FEET if he DESERVE that shit!!!!
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Men have become used to being pampered.
Yes, back in the day a woman’s man was her God so she even took his shoes off… LMAO!!!
Well, most women have realized men are not Gods and that they are just what they are. How about paying a Maid service to do the housework even once a week so your woman will have free time to pamper you. I bet that would be too much to ask for huh?
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ain’t no damn maid comin in my house @Mahogany, we both can do the housework. dem maid bitches will end up stealing form you. oh hell nah!!!
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Lisa,
I like this list. It rings true. I didn’t hate to cook but my ex was clearly better at it than I was. LOL.
I cooked some nights, and he did too. And we hung out in the kitchen while the other cooked. TV wasn’t that big of a thing in our home.
The rubbing each others feet thing is incredibly sweet. Never even thought about that one.
Trace you gotta a “keeper”
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@Lisa, i feel you – i aint taking off my mans shoes. Tra’s man is trippin.
i will occasionally give my man a foot massage, but he’s able to take off his own damn shoes.
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Tracy never ONCE SAID DUDE WAS HER MAN!
She said he was her CRONY….That’s a friend.
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@BigBelly,
Let’s define “CRONY” Boo!!!!
1.) a close friend, especially one of long standing.
2.) a friend, mate, pal, buddy, companion, colleague, partner.
3.) member of an established couple in a relationship.
Blog Queen uses and/WRITES with words that are not EXACT buy you ‘as the reader’ has to read between the lines in order to figure it out.
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I’m LMAO @ Nicole, leave it 2U to break shit down. You always do., if it’s not a song it’s a definition. You good gurl! 🙂
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she still didn’t say he’s her man!
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@BigBelly,
either way hun, she was having the conversation with HIM-NOT-YOU.
Again, she was having the conversation with HIM-NOT-YOU…HIM-NOT-YOU…HIM-NOT-YOU
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Whether he is her CRONY, or her Lover -BigBelly-, she was still talking to HIM-NOT-YOU!!!!
HIM-NOT-YOU!!!!
HIM-NOT-YOU!!!!!
And finally…HIM-NOT-YOU!!!!!
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LMAO!!!!!
Whoaaaaaa!!!!!!
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Ok I’m down with the cooking and fixing a plate if you’re a good man but taking your shoes off??? HELL NAW!
I don’t want to be near yo stank feet! or rub yo feet! I’m not an asian fantasy. Or a dog by your feet.
GTFOH
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Ok @ Yvonne but….this is how relationships deteriorate, and we wonder why they don’t last nowadays. Is it too much trouble then to fix a big bowl of warm soapy water and bathe his feet and rub them down with peppermint oils and lotions? Then his feet would not stink and you could kiss them. lol.
I say this to say, that I would do the same for your feet and kiss them for you, if you were a willing wife. See how this works?
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REALLY!? @Yvonne!!!
take off your shoes?
WTH?
u got issues boo. lol.
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That’s bullshit @QTip.,
I do all the things from cooking homemade food, cleaning, being submissive, conduct myself as a lady at all times.
What men don’t do today is keep a job, refuse to take out the trash, can’t fix nothing around the house, don’t hold or open doors. Men today are wimps.
My parents where married for 38 years before my mother passed. I want a man to cook for me. I don’t need to go out and eat.
I do agree with one part of this post. Some of the women today are loose and have no self respect. They look up to strippers, video vixens and women who commit adultery.
That’s how relationships deteriorate.
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if I find the right one I will do all the above and then some that aren’t on the list.
I can cook my azz off!!!!
but I won’t just cook for anyone, he has to be somebody special
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Um Felecia baby,
don’t FIND a man, let the man FIND YOU!
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Then after he FINDS YOU, let him run you down, wonder where you are? wanna know who you hangin wit?
Don’t make it easy for him sweetie.
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I agree with every last one of those statements ladies. I believe men should take the lead role period.
I love being a woman and being submissive. But things have changed. Women are now out working just as hard. So some things that are considered womanly duties now have to be shared. I would love to stay home and keep a good home for a man and children.
I don’t know who the bitch is that wanted all these womens rights. But I could whoop her azz.
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This is a topic my oldest son and I were talking about recently.
He’s 22 and while he has met ladies he likes, he says they tell him they don’t know how to cook, they curse like sailors, they dress like they’re on sale and that bothers him.
He as well as all my other children were taught how to cook and handle a household. I do wonder sometimes what the mothers of today teach their daughters about how to maintain a home.
Honestly,I couldn’t believe it when I met women that told me they didn’t know how to cook or just didn’t cook, it was just unheard of to me.
My next question to them was always ”well,how do you feed your children? do they only eat fast food?”
Truthfully I don’t understand the modern woman’s mentality. Just because she works,it doesn’t mean her home should suffer.
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i feel you on how many women have forgotten to be woman. seems women are quick to say well you do this and then I’ll do that. Sad. Why dont you try doing and see what happens. At the end of the day if you tried, and he didn’t well at least you know.
I’d rather have the satisfaction of, hey i tried it, and you failed to do so. And now I know, why wait around for the other person to do something.
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TRACY NOT ONLY IS YOUR QUESTION LOADED BUT THIS IS A ‘NEVER ENDIN’ DEBATE.
NO MATTER WHAT ANY MAN SAYS ‘WE AS WOMEN’ DON’T DO, WHY BECAUSE WE HAVE OUR REASONS!!!
1ST OF ALL, PERSONALLY I LOVE 2 BE TREATED THE WAY I TREAT A MAN (WHEN I HAVE 1…LOL) N’ THE FUNNY THING IS I DO JUST ABOUT ALL THE THINGS SOME DUDES COMPLAIN WOMEN DON’T DO NEMORE!! I COOK, I CLEAN, I TAKE MY GRANDPA’S SHOES OFF STILL, BUT NEVER MY MAN N’ I NEVER WILL!!!
I DON’T DO ‘DRAMA’ N’ BIT*H FIGHTS (MY NAILS R TOO PRETTY 4 THAT) NEVERMIND TAKIN’ CARE OF MYSELF 2 THE TEE!!!!
MY ISSUE IS THAT WHEN A MAN SEES AN ‘INDEPENDENT WOMAN’ (LIKE MYSELF) THEY ASSUME THAT I’M THE ‘TYPICAL BLK I CAN DO IT MY DAMN SELF’ WOMAN N’ THAT IS NOT THE CASE @ ALL!!!
YES I WILL DEFEND MYSELF IF NEED BE, BUT I DON’T COME FROM THE HOOD (ALTHOUGH I HAVE LIVED IN THE HOOD) I DON’T HAVE ANY BABY DADDIES, NOR DRAMA, SO I JUST HIGHLY BELIEVE THAT MEN WANT A WOMAN WHO SITS DOWN, SHUTS UP, N’ CATERS 2 HIM N’ IF THAT’S THE CASE THEN MAN OH MAN, I’MA BE A SINGLE BIT*H 4 LIFE!!! LMAO
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cant speak for all women….but seems these days marriage isnt as sacred like it was back in our grandparents days.
more and more couples are betraying their vows and leaving each other at an alarming rate. only makes sense for us women to b self sufficient in the event that we are put in a position where we gotta hold shi* down on our own.
i used to work @ a gas station when i was younger and u would be suprised @ how many elderly women dont even know how to pump their own gas because their husbands (who have now passed away) always did it for them.
i think women should KNOW how to b independent and do things on their own but we should also know how to slide in2 a wifes role as well.i personally dont mind cooking and cleaning..these are things i do with or without a man..but then please dont whine when i expect yo as* 2 be taking out the trash and keepin up the yard n the cars..ect…fair is fair!!
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As usual Audrey,
you are off base and off topic girl, this post is not talking about a “women’s independence” but what women no longer DO for their man.
I suggest you RE-READ…then RE-POST!
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Men dont do what they are suppose to do no more either.
you know, men dont take care of their home, theyre to busy hangin with the fellas to take care of home.
Some work, they dont love their women anymore, they are too busy trying to be a “playa”.
Women want to be loved and taken care of too. Hold our hands, rub our backs, love us and trust we will love u sooo much in return!
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I agree with the way these men feel.
I’ve witnessed a lot of woman and what they say and how they treat their men and it is very sad to me.
I personally as a woman enjoy to cook for my Fiancé and maintain a clean house. To me it is very important to embrace my man and make sure he is well taken care of at all times.
Maybe some woman feel because they work fulltime and having to come home and cater to someone is a bit much, Who knows.
We both work and have a child but that does not stop me from being able to balance it all and I enjoy doing so. Being romantic is also something I enjoy doing as well, it has also been a part of me in my blood I would say.
Although it would be nice for him to be more romantic with it as well but some men just have to be shown the way.
I strongly believe parents aren’t teaching or leading by example these days people don’t take their time with anything.. It’s a hot mess out here and I am glad I am not single and dealing with it.
Good luck to those who haven’t found that rock but don’t give up there are still woman out there like myself!!!
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Bitch please!!!!
For the love of God and all that’s good, “GET OVA YOURSELF”
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@Angel-hair,
Your hard work is a testimony as to why you have and are able to KEEP a good husband. So many will outright refuse to do this kind of work, but will swear they deserve the same household or BETTER.
No one wants to sow the field, plant the seed, reap the harvest, make the flour, or bake the bread, but everyone believes they deserve to eat from the same plate as you and have a full belly. I salute you, you are truly a queen amongst women.
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Please @QTip!!!
This is the same ‘ceo hatin bitch’ who has a fiance he hasn’t wifed her yet. she still playin house and tilling the fields.
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its 2010 people…about to be 2011, women play the same roles men do now!
women dont cook?!
why cant u cook?! and take ur own damn shoes off? foh!
those are the ones i dont agree with but the others like women dont act like ladies i agree, its cool to be a “bad girl” now… smh
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Uhm, I won’t be taking shoes off anytime soon. But, i dont expect it to be done for me either. Feet are nasty. lol
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I love my man! I pride myself on maintaining a beautiful, well-managed household. I can’t imagine not taking care of him. I’m good to him, and he’s good to me. That’s how it works. So many of today’s kids have grown up in single parent homes. They’ve never seen how a healthy relationship works. How sad…..really.
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Yes you do @Joanne and GOOD FOR YOU!!!
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Amen sister.
Only if more men and women thought this way and could reciprocate.
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Mm Hm…I appreciate my good thing.. 🙂
Hey gents:::: 🙂
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Puhlease Blog Queen Puhlease..Lies lies lies. When two MATURE people are in a relationship they understand give and take.
Sometimes I cook, Sometimes he cooks, he rubs my back I rub his..we both work hard and play hard. These sweepng generalizations annoy me.
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IF MEN WOULD STOP STICKING THERE DICKS IN OTHER MENS DOOKIE SHOOTS MAYBE MAYBE THIS WORLD COULD GO BACK TO THE OLD DAYS OF KISSING OUR MENS AZZ… IM NOT KISSING A MANS AZZ THAT STILL HAS BUTT MUD ON IT LEFT OVER FROM LEROY…
IT IS NO USE TALKING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT. FOLKS 27 AND OVER ARE LAST OF A DYING BREED.. THIS NEW SCHOOL OF PEOPLE ARE ON SOME OLE CRAZY NEW MILLENIUM SHIT CASE CLOSED!
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Forget what they don’t do anymore, let’s propose giving this a revise by women, two weeks later they would still complain anyway.
Some women still probably could stay home and take care of the family, what’s so horrible about that ladies? seriously.
Problem is you might not have that condo, new purse, fancy car, nails done hair done and everything you did on your man’s salary. That’s pretty much it.
Prioritize, and it’s simple if not it’s complicated. If a healthy relationship is a priority you can achieve it. If being cute is a priortiy, oh well.
Lastly, if homie is a lame lazy azz., then common sense is 2, drop him and move on.
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Men are the reason why we are the way we are…Back in the day you get a woman pregnant regardless of the fact you married her.. You didn’t call her a bitch, or a hoe.. Men worked, paid the bills in the house, and treated his woman with respect, and in return the woman cooked, cleaned, and took care of the children. Men want their back rubbed today, but want to spend more time with their friends then with their family. You want us to be the respectable woman but you treat us like gum under your shoe when you allow other women into our bed, and our relationship. Men always say they want this or that, and consistently complains about their AA women counterpart, but don’t want to fit their role traditional role…we can’t be everything…if you want a woman like your mother and aunties….marry your mother or aunties…
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Women dont want to be caregivers anymore. Thats why God gave them so much emotion, to be caring and motherly, in a sense. It really has nothing to do with the action of cooking, and cleaning, but to “take care of”…
I realize that women work, but that alone shouldnt cause you to lose your femininity. I think the workforce is causing the evolution of the female to occur. Women have a taste of power in the workplace, and associate doing these caring things for their men as “weak”, when in fact thats one of the many things we love about them…
This post isnt about men, Its about women. It seem so often that once a post tells a woman what she is not doing, they instantly blame a man for their short-comings.
Damn!!!
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@ELovely.,
I have a good steady job and i’m paying my own way through college. I pay my own bills and i have my shit together. But i do everything on the list except taking his shoes off. i think the problem is that some men dont realize that if they wanna be catered to they have to be worth it. What we do for men is not an obligation, we do it out of love becuz we want to. Not every man is gonna get that kind of treatment from me cuz not all of them deserve it, u gotta earn that shit, pull your weight, respect me, love me, be willing to do the same things for me too before you can expect that shit from me.
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I agree lexy, I paid my way through college and have my own shit. I think a man have to be worthy for me to do everything for him. I don’t mind but I’m just not going to do that for just “any” man.
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and no ladies, you just don’t do anything for the average joe. if he ain’t that special one? don’t do it.
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Not all women are not wifey material, not all men deserve to be pampered. its as simple as that!
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Never give up on him dats not wat loves about!!! :)
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so love this song thanks for posting it makes you feel so happy…And I’m guessing Tra that’s what this “CRONY” (cough) does for you. lol.
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My man downstairs cooking right now, bless his heart
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Well now….lets see
We don’t cook anymore: No we don’t why?….Becuz ya’ll constantly complain about our “muffin tops”.
We don’t act like ladies: You Goddamn right we’ll cuss ya azz out. Try having to take public transportation, day and night, and deal with ghetto azz people, poor customer service and overall feeling of exhaustion because you WORK 40 + hours a damn week. Shit!!!…
We don’t excite ya’ll: You’re looking to me for excitement? How about putting down your XBOX game for a few hours…Why do I have to compete with that?
Take care of you and wash your feet?: I’m suppose to take care of you? Did you remember to get the can of peas I asked you for on your way home, to make YOUR dinner?
And Trust? Did ya friend say TRUST TRACY? HELL To the NAH we don’t trust ya’ll’s azzes. When I have to compete with your attention over the XBOX, Beyonce, and your meddling mother who still influences your decisions. GTFOH!!!
And lastly, take off your shoes? I don’t take shoes off motherfuckers, because I’m hoping that the tightness will REMIND you to cut those long nasty ass toenails that cut me every night.
Now carry on…
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I just lost my soda.
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LMAO!!!!
PREACH BROWN!
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A.M.E.N.!!
God called man to be the head and woman to be his help-mate.
if he heads, we’ll walk along side and help and if that means aiding him then so be it.
But if he don’t walk and like he’s the head then his woman won’t follow.
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FUNNY!!!! But TRUE!!!
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Go head Brown! 🙂
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@browngirl,
sounds personal to me. you want your man to read what you wrote?
damn!
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Oh and antoher thing…this is not 1950! You cannot comfortably raise a family on one income anymore. Women work because we HAVE to. Real wages (wages indexed by the cost of living) have gone DOWN over the past 30 years. With wage companies actively suppressing wages and jobs being outsourced to China and India, two incomes are a necessity in this country now. This is the new normal.
Sips tea*
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these men are a trip.
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No, Boo it’s not men, it’s you!
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running to the restroom to think for a minute..then i’ll respond to this…blasphamy.
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