The news broke yesterday that Eva Longoria filed for divorce from her husband of three years, San Antonio Spurs, Tony Parker.
As more details emerge about the sudden divorce, media speculation is asking this question: Who’s the other woman?
Parker was reportedly going behind his wife’s back, with the wife of a former teammate; all were reportedly good friends but now both couples are seeking a divorce.
Longoria caught her husband exchanging hundreds of incriminating text messages with another woman and the ther woman is supoosedly Erin Barry, wife of his former teammate Brent Barry (the couple is pictured with Parker and Longoria above).
While the inappropriate texts have rocked two marriages, a media source said, the relationship between Parker and Erin never got physical, and that it never went past “just texting.”
Either way, Longoria filing for a divorce is justified because emotional infedility in a marraige/relationship is just as damaging.
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“Either way, Longoria filing for a divorce is justified because emotional infedility in a marraige/relationship is just as damaging.”
I cosign on that one.
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damn Trace ain’t no joke. I see she gon keep a nicca in check.
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how so @slick?
because a man should be into his woman, mentally, emotionally and physically, so i agree with her, the divorce filing is justified.
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True dat!!!!! QUeenC,
if I caught my man SEXTING/TEXTING with another bitch it’s ova fa real.
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@lexi,
the man is supposed to be emotionally available either way. and he was directing that elsewhere and a smart woman will recognize that…
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sexting/texting/facebook it’s all wrecking marraiges and relationships. bottom line, it’s the devil’s plan but the individulas decision.
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@rezzie,
i co sign you girl! that’s the truth.
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cosign rezzie,
all this modern technology is TEMPTING for some people but you have the responsibility as an individual in a relationship/marraige to nip dat shit in the butt!!!
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did ya’ll hear about the nj pastor who is asking his MARRIED MEMBERS to DISS their facebook pages because it’s breaking up marraiges in his church?
when i heard that, i was like, oh shit!!!! dude ain’t no joke!
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@anthony,
i heard that and was taken back by it. i guess he’s dealing with mbrs who are having a problem with temptation. IMO he should be addressing it. hell atleast he mentioned it and is standing on his principles behind it. some pastors don’t care!
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the devil is liar and people gotta STOP falling into his plan and his tactics for their lives and relationships. it’s not worth the suffering. his goal is to rob you of your happiness and ya truth.
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in realtionships: the bottom line: you gotta have a made up MIND! when you LOVE someone THEY’RE IT!!! POINT BLANK, PERIOD!
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@Q-Tip,
I agree, when you have a made up mind and know you love someone, you will be able to kick tempatation in da azz. sometimes its hard but you gotta think about the consequences and it’s neva worth it.
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You would think, with all that $$, they have, they might splurge on a second cell phone, have it hidden, and on mute n shit.
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So SlickRick,
sounds like you CONDONE infedility? YES?
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wow @slick,
wow!!! i’m lol…wow…so i guess it’s safe 2say ya azz ain’t married? and if you in a relationship you ain’t emotionally connected to shit! except that THING you slingin n between ya legs huh.
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slick,
you startin shit this early. damn!
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Slick,
“You are only as faithful as your options”.
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Very true @omar.,
@Queen, i’m not wit cheatin –> no.
@corp, yes i’m in a relationship and yes i love her to death. i’m just not ready to marry her, idk her that well yet. we only been 2gether 6 months. if we last and i grown in love, i’ll def. take that plunge. life 2short to love and let go. oh hell no!
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slick.,
Mm..Hm..go head and try to DRESS it up. lol.
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“Either way, Longoria filing for a divorce is justified because emotional infedility in a marraige/relationship is just as damaging.”^^Co-sign ya Tra: Some women are smart enough to walk away with their dignity and hopefully find “real men” who love and appreciate them.
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Good morning lisa.. 🙂
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Hey @Mrs!!!! what’s good woman? you ready for the holiday….OOh I can’t wait…a week from today, my azz will be at home! lol.
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guess eva gone get P.A.I.D. with this one.
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Adam,
NO SHE WON’T…they had a PRENUP.
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with a pre-nup @starr, the marraige was already set up to fail.
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You’re dead wrong Tony….dead wrong….whoop his ass Brent!
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I know right@Ace,
dude had him in his home and he’s fucking his wife?
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adam,
no sex took place, it was only texting.
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sexting/texting…doesn’t matter, it all leads UP to FUCKIN!!!! cause you will want to eventually DO what you are talking about.
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Lisa I agree.
Adultery is bad enough, but SCREWING the wife of a friend and teammate is just plain low.
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He didn’t FUCK her @Lisa & FLO: No SEX was involved is according to the reports.
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get over it!!! @ebony!
he fucked her trust. fine azz eva ain’t just leaving him ova no sexting/texting.
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See for me, @Adam,
it doesn’t matter… when you are emotionally unattached to your spouse and getting cozy and emotionally attached to someone other than your spouse, that can lead to shit happening. you form bonds and friendships with that other person and believe it or not, emotional infedility is worst because BEING emotionally attached to someone is the greater onset of becoming physically connected. the physical is the SEAL of the connection.
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I agree with Lisa,
my fiance and i were friends for a long time. which formed an emotional bond between us for the longest, then we fell in love and when we physically connected it was just as powerful. because we had already connected emotionally.
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True,
an emotional connection between two people can be powerful w/o fucking them. but once you fuck em, you hooked. and this mighta been the case here.
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Ladies- it doesn’t matter that you are a beautiful celebrity or a even just a wife who faithfully keeps house, works out to stay in shape and raises the kids- men just don’t have the attention span to stay committed because they are selfish little boys who will never grow up. In this day and age, we really do not need men anymore. Save your money, educate yourself and live your OWN life, you’ll be so much happier!
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well damn!!!
Bitter much? LOL. I don’t think it’s fair to lump all men 2gether in your comment Gabriella, all men don’t cheat and there “R” some who value, love, marraige, family, honesty and realtionships.
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@Gabriella,
I know women who have the same attitude girl. esp. those who make more money and don’t need a damn man. sometimes having a man can be aggravating…but to live w/o is sad and if you happen to love one see that as a blessing and make the best of it…cause guess what? nobody’s perfect!
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Hers statement was “We love each other deeply and pray for each other’s happiness.” Yeah, right! LOL!
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@Cindy,
she dumped his azz with the quickness. lol
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Yep @ OJ
And glad Eva will no longer be known as Longoria-Parker
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I agree Olivijah,
Good for Eva. He cheated. She’s out.
That’s what being a prideful, independent woman is all about.
And not looking back.
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This is so twisted I swear. there has to be more to the texting/sexting…but either way it’s considered betrayal at its best!
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Keisha,
^^I-cosign!!!!
“she found hundreds of texts….on Tony’s phone.”
Why would you keep hundreds of texts from ANYONE on your phone? And especially texts of a nature that you really shouldn’t be getting?
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Flo: because men can be dumb!!!! and caught up! but there’s prbly more to this i’m sure.
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Oh please ya’ll: Eva’s prbly cheated too….trust me. the woman is an actress. She’s probably slobbered half her male cast! It just isn’t publicized like Tony’s ordeal…anything to make a man/athlete look bad.
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@Civil,
yep, lie and cheat and hurt people you pretend to honor with a marraige vow… just make it interesting.
And Remember the woman he cheated with cheated too… but I guess it wasn’t her fault either huh?.
In fact she made it perfectly clear to him she was willing. Otherwise it would be rape. so please!
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The irony of life is that., those who are supposed to love us the most, hurt us the worst. This wasn’t some random chick. This woman was a mutual friend of Eva’s. They both stabbed her in the back.
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true @brown, double betrayal.
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No @Ivy: triple betrayal.
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OK DAMN!!!!
Single, double, triple…we get the damn point!!!!
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@FloridaGirl,
No kidding, is it that hard to hit “delete”?
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With friends like her, who needs enemies! I still do not understand why people don’t just leave before they do something this cruel! Their excuse is usually that they did not want to hurt their partner. What a bunch of bull!
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A professional athlete cheats on his wife. Is this supposed to be news?
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I heard she waited until he signed his new contract b4 filing for divorec???
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Why would she wait until he signed his new contract? LOL..that’s some ole bullshit fa real!
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wow..getting rid of someone because of text messages…heck what ever happen to having proof in the pudding ….actually catching the guy getting busy with someone else in person!
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DeWight,
You’d have to have read the content of the texts which I’m sure Eva did. Perhaps that was “proof in the pudding”. People Magazine claims a “source” said they were just flirtatious texts but we would have to ask Eva that since she read them. I’m guessing they were more than just “flirts”.
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DeWight,
Maybe what she read was enough for her. maybe she read how he fucked her or wanted 2. would you stay in your marraige after reading something like that! I wouldn’t.
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I don’t blame Eva for filing for divorce. She deserves a lot better than Tony that’s for sure. if he cheated on her with another married woman who cheated on her spouse then him and this floozy deserve each other.
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Good morning Joanne,
I agree.
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Uh, there’s a woman involved in this too. The other guy’s wife is a cheater as well.
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Yes Joanne, did say that @Acquitta P.
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Wow @Joanne,
I agree….Im kinda taken back by the lack of disgust at the fact that he was sleeping with a teammates wife. Low class to the extreme. For him and the guys wife.
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Indeed @Mahogany. … and not to mention what a great guy Brent Barry is. He and Eva are very generous with their community work and they both lend out their status to help local causes frequently and without reservation. This is fucked up!
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If you ain’t ready for marraige and gonna cheat, then don’t get married in the first place!
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and although elovely’s gravi is killing me., i agree. esp. if you can’t yeild to temptation.
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lol @ ashanti and “yeilding to temptation”
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It’s true for “yeilding” is sin.
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Yield not to temptation, for yielding is sin
Each victory will help you some other to win
Fight manfully onward, dark passions subdue
Look ever to Jesus, He’ll carry you through.
Chorus:
Ask the Savior to help you
Comfort, strengthen and keep you
He is willing to aid you
He will carry you through.
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Amen @Nicole.
“Jesus will carry you through”.
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well…ain’t no need of him asking jesus to help him now. he shoulda been asking jesus to help him when he was sexting. amen and hallelujuh!
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🙂 lmao@starr!
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🙂 LMAO!!! @Starr
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Good morning all….sad story but who didn’t see this one coming. you take a chance when you marry an athlete, too much temptation and everybody can’t handle the pressures of having the ‘poo-nah-nah’ thrown at them.
and i’m sure there’s more to her just finding the text messages.
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Come on @Daisy, he’s what? 26 and a top athlete, please. The only question is why did he get married?? I think that was something that she wanted.
She 34 and had her fun. He hasn’t caught up with her yet.
see me i’m ready to settle down and i think Trace is older than me (but don’t look it)…im gon make dat girl my bride. watch!
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“im gon make dat girl my bride.”
Really?? @BigBelly, aw…how special.. keep hope alive and off this damn blog!
please and thank you.
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@Tamala,
LOL….the man’s got MAD jokes!!!! I think he’s hillarious.
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@Big Belly.,
He’s 28 and the best part of his career is already over…
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ashanti,
He’s a great ball player. Hall of Famer. Who cares about his sex life?
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@PointMen: Eva..
she don’t give a fuck about his career…home life is what mattered to her. and aside from his career and record…he was in a marraige. hello.
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I agree with ashanti @point.
his career or record has nothing to do with his home life. that ego shoulda stayed on the court!
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It is bad enough when someone messes around on their spouse or partner, but I find it particularly disgusting when they mess around with someone their spouse or partner knows. It goes way beyond the bounds of decency. 😦
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So true Natasha.
Someone you’ve hung out with, befriended, and trusted. And frequently a woman will sense something and mention it to her husband and get the “you’re crazy” mental cruelty treatment only to find out her intuition was correct all along.
People who can’t control these nasty and perverted urges for 10 seconds of an orgasm are so completely clueless.
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ya’ll are right!!! a married man should neva tip out on his wife. but the guy is still a great ball player.
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point,
but it still doesn’t negate the fact that he cheated.!!! all dat other shit don’t matter. oh so you think because he can run a good game his married life should be excused.??? GTFOH.
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I never said that lexi,
it’s fucked up he cheated and it’s fucked up that his marraige is over. but all in all he still plays a good game.
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“all in all he still plays a good game.”
But he failed @marraige.
Look @Tiger Woods., almost a year later after his scandal rocked the media and now look, his game is completely FUCKED UP!!!!! and he won’t admitt it., why? his EGO!!!!
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@Mrs…I co-sign you on that 1….
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@Point: we all are not perfect, but the biggest flaw in his action is messing around with his team mate’s wife……!
WOW!
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@Shawnia,
Oh trust…he’s not joking!
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Well I’ll be damn…..oh well none of these high profile marriages work anyway…
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Wouldn’t a happy, loving couple be able to get past some text messages? Just asking
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If that’s truly all it was, I guess they should be able to work it out. Those must have been some Hella of a text messages!!
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@Afrogirl.,
That’s what i’m sayin….Some text msgs…. I would just nip it in the bud b4 anythg blossomed.
Its not like Eva found Tony in between Erin’s legs n shit.
I mean…. I know some ppl would consider the txtn an affair, but sheeeiiiiii.ttttt
others have done way more, way worse (eg, Tiger Woods)
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Wow. . .why do these news bombshells always seem to happen around the holidays?
Ace., Just think, it was around this time last year that Tiger allegedly fled away from a flailing golf club.
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Baller drama….This is about to get good & ugly…SMH @ both Tony & his alleged jump-off, wtf? Outta all the people to do this with.
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Dirty dog!!!!
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