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“Classic Case Of A Narcissist”

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A narcissist is a man (or woman) who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance. Narcissist think it’s all about them.

Narcissists are usually well-dressed, handsome, beautiful, charming, funny, and extremely outgoing.

The problem begins when you fall in love with one.

To your friends and family, he’s handsome, charming, funny and outgoing. But to you he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

Narcissists seek you out if you have money, power and/or respect.

They also seek you out if you are nice, compassionate, sweet and generous, because these are qualities that they will never possess.

Narcissists eventually see these qualities in you as a weakness. Underneath his or her charming exterior most narcissists are envious, needy, insecure, depressed, self-centered and extremely selfish.

No matter what you do, they will never see you as their equal.

The more you try to please narcissists, the more they will abuse you mentally, and sometimes physically.

The reason I used a pic of Jay Z and Beyonce for this post is because they are both narcissists who feed off each other.

Jay Z needs Beyonce more for her money, power and respect in order to achieve the power and respect that he now has.

Jay Z will never allow Beyonce to be greater than him. An example of this is, the fact that his book “Decoded” barely mentions Beyonce even though this book is supposed to be about his life and Beyonce is his wife.

The reason Beyonce is barely mentioned in the book is because Jay Z (a classic narcissist) knows she would steal all of his thunder, and his small ego just wouldn’t tolerate that.

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113 thoughts on ““Classic Case Of A Narcissist””

  5. or maybe he wants to keep his relationship details between the two parties that matter the most, him and his wife. i’m neither rich nor famous and i wouldn’t divulge more than i thought necessary about my relationship.

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  9. You know that old serpent uses human emotions to keep humans in bondage.

    More women need to wake up and smell the coffee. Stop making excuses such as these:

    “oh well he is my child’s father, so I must stay with him. ”
    “oh he is really a good person when he’s not mad. ”
    “oh I will be so so lonely without him. ”
    ” oh the Bible says stay with your husband. ” <— I can't stand this excuse!

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  13. maye bey and jay just wanted that part of his life to stay private…

    your will to live should always be stronger than your desire for a man. Sometimes we leave physically but emotionally we are still there…moving on is extremely hard to do when you heart tells you to stay.

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  20. “Narcissists are usually well-dressed, handsome, beautiful, charming, funny, and extremely outgoing” CEO Blog ala T.Bell
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    And Jay Z is a Narcissist? 😦
    I beg to differ…

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  21. Decoded is about Jay’s lyrics and the meaning behind some of them. It’s not a biography, Beyonce is his wife and I am sure they have said numerous times, their relationship is something that they want to keep between the both of them.

    While I am happy for anyone to escape an abusive relationship, REALLY, I am.

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    1. Come on yall lets be nice Tra obviously know of someone who is in a dark place and material things probably was not worth her very own life with a Narcissist ….

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  29. I feel the word narcissist gets thrown around way to lightly I say all of that to say that being confident and proud of yourself and happy etc. doesn’t make you narcissistic. Clinical narcissism is defined much differently than the way it seems to be used in this post and in general conversation.
    Truth be told it’s widely known and has been proven that each of us ALL have some narcissistic traits in us. Again, to be declared a true narcissists has to come from a licensed psychologist/therapist.

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      2. “Aint nothing wrong with being confident!”

        Confident is one thing but only selfishly focused on “YOURSELF” is another. and this is why some relationships FAIL as partners you SUPPORT each other. It takes 2 people to make it successful.

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  33. Jay don’t need bey to feel confident. That nucca may look like Joe Camel but he has has hella talent and swag.

    Now could we please get a post worth reading?????????????????

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  35. Have any of you heard of this new drink out Four Loko the chit is dangerous and can be lethal so do not consume! It’s described as a coffee drink but has liqour in it and the caffeine is a stimulant and the alcohol is a depressant they said you could pass out or but your body in shock or worse DIE

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    2. @Corp
      I heard about it on the news today its this coffee liqour drink that has the potential to be deadly… have you heard of K2 that fake weed?

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    3. @Corp
      No girl I don’t think so the woman on the news didn’t mention that but she said the caffeine/stimulant and alcohol/depressant is a bad combination for your body – your body could go into shock!!! chit is crazy girl tell me have you heard of K2 that fake weed you can buy out of convenient stores?

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  36. I see Ms. Bell still playing by leaving us in the same dry azz posts for hours at a time.

    (scrolling up to see what y’all talking bout now)

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    1. So, y’all mean to tell me this is allllll we get today? One lil ole post? Don’t get me wrong, ….your happiness is most important to me….but dag? Can a sista get some celebrity gossip? A Dd Phil moment? Something…
      anything….

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  37. Blog Queen is so funny.. Beyonce is a much bigger star than jayz.. clearly ya’ll know that.. there are people in this world that know of Beyonce and have no clue who jayz is..lol- I do agree that beyonce has “upgraded him”- but thats about it!

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  42. can somebody hit me on the right of my head pleazz?!? my right eye is stuck from rolling it so hard when i read this b.s. 😦 😦

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    3. sharpton has pimped his civil rights game all the way to the white house riding on other issues. and we all know how he rides the bandwagon at every chance he can get. i have to agree w/heavyc.

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    5. @heavyc, tracy could actually be talkin about anybody. besides it could be somebody she’s in love with….but i can see how the good right rev might be considered., sense he’s a public figure..

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      3. @Lexi, you might be a bit off wit that 1, i think tra’s man gotta have some humbleness going on. i can’t see blog queen tolerating a monster azz attitude like that of a narcissist! that’s a bit bullshittt-E.

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      5. @lexi, you prbly on point. tracy’s GOAL is to always keep us guessing and becuz so many of us readers wanna know her man, some of US take a guess @everything and INTO everything she writes.

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      6. Ms. Bell is *NOT* talking bout Rev. Al Sharpton @HeavyC, not with this post anyway but if he fit the bill then so be it. 🙂 in the last couple of months tra’s attitude towards sharpton has warmed up anyway.

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      7. i agree with ashanti but i can see how sharpton could be considered one @lex., fyi fam, blog queen was in sylvia’s last night. *wink* *wink* and the guy she was wearin didn’t look like a narcassist 2 me. justsaying#

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    7. “in the last couple of months tra’s attitude towards sharpton has warmed up anyway.”

      really? @ashanti, let some scandalous shit come out about dat mtherfer, blog queen’ll rip a new azz hole into dat nicca in a nj minute, with a stroke of her keyboard.

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    1. “they look like they are in love for real”….

      miss rina,
      what’s your point?
      you can be in love with a narcissist, just like i’m sure narcissist fall in love.

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