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What’s the PROBLEM Black Man???


We should all be proud and responsible for the decisions we make in this life. And these decisions should also be the case in love and marriage. Be proud of who you choose as a wife and/or partner to spend your life.

I was out to dinner last night, enjoying the company and the ambiance of my evening when, three black men came into the restaurant with their brood and was seated in my view. It was obvious others would be joining their party as there were “3” empty seats left at their table. They wouldn’t of had my attention except, they kept staring at me, which was when I noticed all of their children were bi-racial. The stare was becoming so obvious that one of the men had his shades on not to be so conspicuous. These men were so attentive of me, that I was beginning to think I was the only black woman in the restaurant. I couldn’t figure it out.

Then the obvious happened, three white women joined them who were apparently their spouses, significant others and the mother of these children. Well thank God!!! I thought….So why did they continue to stare at me? Because really I didn’t care. Did they regret having not waited to hook up with a fine black woman? Were they guilty because they married and procreated outside of their race? I got the impression they were not happy with the women who joined them. Whatever the issue, I should not have been the center of their attention, when their life choices were sitting amongst them.Β 

 

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81 thoughts on “What’s the PROBLEM Black Man???”

  1. Damn.
    So many questions.
    Tracy who were you with?
    Maybe they were intimidated by your presence ?
    They hate they didn’t wait O_o Hell so much come to mind.

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    1. I hate it too
      Look like he’s licking on vanilla icecream
      And don’t get me wrong. Love who you love but if alot of these black men knew our history they would be so turned off😏

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  2. That’s right Trace when you choose Becky, keep your eyes on your Becky with the good hair. Don’t be looking at the sistahs after the fact.

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  3. Ok. Tracy I’m going to answer all these 4U here it is
    So why did they continue to stare at me? Because your black is beautiful
    Did they regret having not waited to hook up with a fine black woman? Probably
    Were they guilty because they married and procreated outside of their race? Possibly
    I got the impression they were not happy with the women who joined them. They’re NOT!! But sounds like they didn’t have choice
    Whatever the issue, I should not have been the center of their attention, when their life choices were sitting amongst them. Exactly!!!

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  4. Your right these men may have been thinking all the same thing. Staying within the own race might have been the wiser. It’s really hard to tell why people are attracted to each other. Sometimes I think it’s the mentality, or maybe just physical attraction. Whether in our own culture or outside of it, people have changed and many of us have hard up bringing’s and many of us fall for those deep rooted assumptions of what society tells us is best. For example, those white women they married. Regard less if a person doesn’t know who they are and very confident of what they need, what they settle for is never going to full fill them.

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      1. what they settle for is never going to full fill them.
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        Think they sopping gravy when they only got the flourπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚FOOLS!!!

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  5. This is hilarious πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Trace you a trip.
    I think they felt guilty for “feelin you” knowing their SPRITES were due to arrive any minute.

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  6. The blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice
    Those women they chose will never fulfill their cravings for a fine black women.

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  7. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Trace you were a reminder of what they missing πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Who were you dining with? If I saw them staring at you I would’ve walked over and said “Dont be staring at the “PROMISE LAND” when y’all dusty asses done settled with squatters πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  8. I got the impression they were not happy with the women who joined them. Whatever the issue, I should not have been the center of their attention, when their life choices were sitting amongst them.
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    They are not happy with the choices they made. You apparently blew their mind if one of them kept their shades on just to keep looking. How sad. Furthermore they must hate themselves. 2 eaches own. Don’t look now.

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  9. It’s too late for them. No turning back now. They over there now so they may as well stay over there. Ain’t no need of looking or scoping out a black queen cause it’s too late now.

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  10. Once you bring children into what you might regret buck up because you’re tied to that person 4ever. Nothing wrong with looking but it sounds like these men were craving the nectar of a real black woman. Smh

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  11. I hate it when people stare. How rude.
    Tracy you intimidated them into shame. They were ashamed of what they produced and what was coming. You’re ever so right be happy with who you choose to procreate and spend your life with.

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  12. Them niggaz were shocked when they saw Trace. Ion know why? It’s a whole bunch of beautiful black women in the tristate area, where were they from? The backwoods of south Jersey? WTF?
    They bama asses had no idea something that fine was so close.

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  13. Interesting Tracy
    4get them though. Tell us about the restaurant or your meal at least. Who were you having dinner with?

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  14. The problem is some of you are missing the point of this post. It’s not about who she was with or what she ate? She’s bringing our attention to the fact that, these black men chose a life with these white women. But yet couldn’t take their eyesπŸ‘€ off of her. They didn’t choose their own kind for whatever reasons but the sick part about it is, they sat there knowing they fucked up. Don’t miss the point people for wanting to focus on the details not mentioned.

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  15. Mm…Tate Diggs divorced his European wife because so many black women were angry with his fine ass for having one. If we as African American people knew our history we would never hook up outside our race. Smh those 3 black men are lost😑

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  16. My MyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Trace you made them feel guilty
    Wonder what they were doing to you in their mindsπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  17. Tracy you should of messed with them and started doing all kinds of stuff with your lips and tongue. Have them sweatin by the time their wives rolled in.

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  18. That picture oh my.
    Tracy they were really tripping
    I bet not ever see my man checking out another woman. That wouldn’t fly with me.

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  19. Yea they were wishful thinking.
    Too late
    Ya man should’ve tongued u down then threw you across the table. Lol
    Suckers

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