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“Love vs. Dopamine and Knowing The Difference” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”


vtd_cos-2Dopamine relationships are doomed to failure. Dopamine is the chemical that mediates pleasure in the brain and love is not always pleasurable.

Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is a profound sense of responsibility and respect for another human being. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!

Lust is NOT LOVE, LUST is however, an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. It is an uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite or a strong aggressive craving. And with Valentine’s Day upon, the talk of love, the questions of love and the mixed feelings of love that has flooded my inbox prompts the topic of discussion: “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference

Tune in “LIVE” at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” with Host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference“?……

We’ll be taking calls in our studios on this topic at 917-889-7872, don’t forget to press “1” for the host.

All “Conversation and topic links” in this post will access the show!!

See you on the air!!!

62 thoughts on ““Love vs. Dopamine and Knowing The Difference” Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah””

      1. Hey People.
        I hope y’all heard that show???? O_o
        Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st 😆

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      2. Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st
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        Yeah but that applies to her young listeners, those who don’t know O_o Yeah and I heard her/the show

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      3. Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st
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        Yeah but that applies to her young listeners, those who don’t know O_o Yeah and I heard her/the show
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        Really Angelhair, and you think grown folks are exempt from the Dopamine effect? How stooped of you!!! We all have that chemical sweetie, sorry to break it to ya!!!

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      4. Yeah but that applies to her young listeners
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        No hunty, if the shoe fits I suggest you lace that bitch up and wear it. Because grown folks are not exempt. we all have that dopamine molecule.

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      5. we all have that dopamine molecule.
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        CoSign Ashanti, and it has absolutely has NOTHING to do with age. I know 2 women who got married after a 3mos courtship, marriage only lasted 6months to a year.

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      6. No hunty, if the shoe fits I suggest you lace that bitch up and wear it. Because grown folks are not exempt. we all have that dopamine molecule.
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        LOL!!! 😆 HELLO!!!! Trace broke that shit down to the TEE!!!

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      7. Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! –> she also said in these words “Sex is the last thing you can have with that person”

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      8. Hey Everyone
        Understand the lust between 2 people better than the dopamine molecule O_o is that just me or what? #dontjudgeme

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  1. Fairy-tales are for kids, and women need to stop believing in it. The reality is, you might be single for the rest of your life, so have a love affair with yourself 😛

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  2. Girls are groomed to be brides and boys are not groomed to be grooms. That’s a big part of it in a nutshell. Society (read=men) placed these “norms” where the guy is scared to commit and gets high fives for being a slut and girls are supposed to save themselves for the aforementioned sluts.

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  3. some people hop from one relationship to another (J-Lo) out of fear of being alone. But if you don’t enjoy your own company, how the hell you expect someone else to enjoy it?

    Tuning in

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  4. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!
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    Men ain’t shyt these days. Period!

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  5. Welp!!! I’m a woman and I can say. It’s not all the men’s fault. My single girlfriends are a hot smoking mess. Like get yourself together and respect yourself! My brother is a good man and can’t find a self respecting woman to save his life!

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    1. Thanks for confirming X!!!! I be telling my single girlfriends…dudes want wife material they can get a loose woman literally anywhere…they come a dime a dozen!

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  6. you gotta stop falling in love with the idea of love and forever. that shit is work even for the most seasoned couples, and love aint enough to endure when things get tough

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  7. People have to stop believing in “love” period. It’s a very fickle emotion and very few people are capable of the act. Marriage is a contract – first and foremost – longevity is determined by whatever stipulations you agree to when you sign that certificate. To sign your life away to one partner under the guise of “love” is delusional. Hell you can love someone today and hate their guts tomorrow.

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  8. Love is a social construct. It doesn’t exist in nature. It’s a total fallacy. A figment of our imagination. It is rooted in fairy tales and fantasy and driven by brain chemicals that fade over time. That’s why over 60% of marriages fail.

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      1. OMG when she ended in “love and war” I thought damn!!! If he gets on your last nerve and you can still stand him, you might be onto something.

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      2. love n war is the reality of any real relationship, which is why Tamar said somebody lied to her about them (relationships). Uma need somebody to post the lyrics now. But anywho, Tra’s closing went well with the conversation of course.

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      3. Somebody said every day, was gon’ be sunny skies,
        Only Marvin Gaye and lingerie, I guess somebody lied
        We started discussin’ it to fightin’ then “Don’t touch me, please.”
        Then it’s “Let’s stop the madness, just come lay with me.”
        And truth be told I’m wavin’ my flag before it goes bad yeah yeah

        ‘Cause we made it this far on for better or worse
        I wanna feel it even if it hurts
        If I gotta cry to get to the other side, let’s go ’cause we’re gon’ survive oh

        We stay on the front lines
        Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
        We go so hard we lose control
        The fire starts then we explode
        When the smoke clears we dry our tears
        Only in love and war

        Sometimes you’re my general, you quarterback all these plays
        Sometimes you’re my enemy and I’m throwin’ grenades
        We’ll just be chillin’ and laughin’, I’m layin’ on your chest
        Don’t know what happened ’cause things just went left
        But here we go back down that road
        That’s just the way that it goes

        ‘Cause we made it this far on for better or worse
        I wanna feel it even if it hurts

        If I gotta cry to get to the other side, as long as you’re there I’ll survive oh
        We stay on the front lines
        Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
        We go so hard we lose control
        The fire starts then we explode
        When the smoke clears we dry our tears
        Only in love and war
        As long as we make up after every fight when it’s over
        You know I’m comin’ home right there where I belong
        I’m takin’ off this armor oh-oh-oh-whoa-ooh-oh-oh
        And we stay on the front lines
        Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
        We go so hard we lose control
        The fire starts then we explode baby
        When the smoke clears we dry our tears

        Only in love and war
        Only in love and war
        Only in love and war

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  9. VDay is so overrated. O_O and I’m so over it. Some people put too much into it, when you should feel special every day of the year.

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