Dopamine relationships are doomed to failure. Dopamine is the chemical that mediates pleasure in the brain and love is not always pleasurable.
Love is an action, not a feeling. Love is a profound sense of responsibility and respect for another human being. LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!
Lust is NOT LOVE, LUST is however, an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. It is an uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite or a strong aggressive craving. And with Valentine’s Day upon, the talk of love, the questions of love and the mixed feelings of love that has flooded my inbox prompts the topic of discussion: “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference“
Tune in “LIVE” at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” with Host Tracy L. Bell for her commentary “Love vs. Dopamine, Know The Difference“?……
We’ll be taking calls in our studios on this topic at 917-889-7872, don’t forget to press “1” for the host.
All “Conversation and topic links” in this post will access the show!!
See you on the air!!!
Conversations Of A Sistah 
It’s tricky Trace real tricky. Good morning
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Hey B Wassup
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Afternoon y’all
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Good Wednesday all.
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Hey Ladies and B 😛
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Hey People
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Hey people
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Hey..Hey Hey People!!
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Fam, whatz good?
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Hello everyone
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Sup peeps
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Hi all
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Sup fam
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Sup. Y’all….Those the balloons I sent her 🙂
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Whassup Fam. The Conversation IS ON!!
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Yezir ROLL CALL!!!!
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Hey People.
I hope y’all heard that show????
Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st 😆
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Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st
Yeah and I heard her/the show
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Yeah but that applies to her young listeners, those who don’t know
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Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! Let the DOPAMINE past 1st
Yeah and I heard her/the show
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Yeah but that applies to her young listeners, those who don’t know
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Really Angelhair, and you think grown folks are exempt from the Dopamine effect? How stooped of you!!! We all have that chemical sweetie, sorry to break it to ya!!!
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I’m here.
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Yeah but that applies to her young listeners
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No hunty, if the shoe fits I suggest you lace that bitch up and wear it. Because grown folks are not exempt. we all have that dopamine molecule.
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we all have that dopamine molecule.
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CoSign Ashanti, and it has absolutely has NOTHING to do with age. I know 2 women who got married after a 3mos courtship, marriage only lasted 6months to a year.
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No hunty, if the shoe fits I suggest you lace that bitch up and wear it. Because grown folks are not exempt. we all have that dopamine molecule.
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LOL!!! 😆 HELLO!!!! Trace broke that shit down to the TEE!!!
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It looks bad when you’re delirious good show …if you need to understand it all listen to the rewind
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Hey Fam
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I see
y’all…………………so what we talkin bout??
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Tracy said To wait for the Dick!!! –> she also said in these words “Sex is the last thing you can have with that person”
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Good evening family
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Hey Everyone
is that just me or what? #dontjudgeme
Understand the lust between 2 people better than the dopamine molecule
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Wow…this is a must hear show – good read too 👀 🙌
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Fairy-tales are for kids, and women need to stop believing in it. The reality is, you might be single for the rest of your life, so have a love affair with yourself 😛
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not everyone is lucky in love
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Girls are groomed to be brides and boys are not groomed to be grooms. That’s a big part of it in a nutshell. Society (read=men) placed these “norms” where the guy is scared to commit and gets high fives for being a slut and girls are supposed to save themselves for the aforementioned sluts.
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some people hop from one relationship to another (J-Lo) out of fear of being alone. But if you don’t enjoy your own company, how the hell you expect someone else to enjoy it?
Tuning in
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LOVE IS NOT SEX. No matter what that man tells you; you do not prove your love to anyone by having sex with them!
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Men ain’t shyt these days. Period!
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Welp!!! I’m a woman and I can say. It’s not all the men’s fault. My single girlfriends are a hot smoking mess. Like get yourself together and respect yourself! My brother is a good man and can’t find a self respecting woman to save his life!
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Bedroom activities are for married people Trace
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Thanks for confirming X!!!! I be telling my single girlfriends…dudes want wife material they can get a loose woman literally anywhere…they come a dime a dozen!
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I done gave up on the poonayknee 😆 tuning into the show because dopamine is like an addiction fa real yo.
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you gotta stop falling in love with the idea of love and forever. that shit is work even for the most seasoned couples, and love aint enough to endure when things get tough
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People have to stop believing in “love” period. It’s a very fickle emotion and very few people are capable of the act. Marriage is a contract – first and foremost – longevity is determined by whatever stipulations you agree to when you sign that certificate. To sign your life away to one partner under the guise of “love” is delusional. Hell you can love someone today and hate their guts tomorrow.
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Love is a social construct. It doesn’t exist in nature. It’s a total fallacy. A figment of our imagination. It is rooted in fairy tales and fantasy and driven by brain chemicals that fade over time. That’s why over 60% of marriages fail.
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Marriage is a sex contract. Let’s keep it real.
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3 minutes till show time and I’m in da house!!!!
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Yo those the balloons I sent Trace 😆 but I thought it was MORE than that.
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FaReal??
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Dancing to her opening 😛
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Love and War ending I LOVE IT!!!
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Love this song.
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Real love, is love and war. Loved that she ended her show on that note.
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It looks bad when you’re delirious good show …if you need to understand it all listen to the rewind
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Live that song. 🙂 Thank u Nicole
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Meant to say LOVE but um I’ve lived it too 😛
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OMG when she ended in “love and war” I thought damn!!! If he gets on your last nerve and you can still stand him, you might be onto something.
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love n war is the reality of any real relationship, which is why Tamar said somebody lied to her about them (relationships). Uma need somebody to post the lyrics now. But anywho, Tra’s closing went well with the conversation of course.
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Somebody said every day, was gon’ be sunny skies,
Only Marvin Gaye and lingerie, I guess somebody lied
We started discussin’ it to fightin’ then “Don’t touch me, please.”
Then it’s “Let’s stop the madness, just come lay with me.”
And truth be told I’m wavin’ my flag before it goes bad yeah yeah
‘Cause we made it this far on for better or worse
I wanna feel it even if it hurts
If I gotta cry to get to the other side, let’s go ’cause we’re gon’ survive oh
We stay on the front lines
Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
We go so hard we lose control
The fire starts then we explode
When the smoke clears we dry our tears
Only in love and war
Sometimes you’re my general, you quarterback all these plays
Sometimes you’re my enemy and I’m throwin’ grenades
We’ll just be chillin’ and laughin’, I’m layin’ on your chest
Don’t know what happened ’cause things just went left
But here we go back down that road
That’s just the way that it goes
‘Cause we made it this far on for better or worse
I wanna feel it even if it hurts
If I gotta cry to get to the other side, as long as you’re there I’ll survive oh
We stay on the front lines
Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
We go so hard we lose control
The fire starts then we explode
When the smoke clears we dry our tears
Only in love and war
As long as we make up after every fight when it’s over
You know I’m comin’ home right there where I belong
I’m takin’ off this armor oh-oh-oh-whoa-ooh-oh-oh
And we stay on the front lines
Yeah but we’re still here after the bomb drops
We go so hard we lose control
The fire starts then we explode baby
When the smoke clears we dry our tears
Only in love and war
Only in love and war
Only in love and war
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Who chile!!!
Have Mercy Jesus!!
She answered who’s emails? Who was sweatin her about their love life and lust 😆
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Good show.
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Good commentary tonight
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I don’t want to talk about LOVE, in fact I was so glad Valentine’s Day was/is over!!
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VDay is so overrated. O_O and I’m so over it. Some people put too much into it, when you should feel special every day of the year.
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Loved the conversation otherwise
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