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Your Soulmate IS NOT your Significant Other, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

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April 20, 2016 by The ReadyWriter


SoulMates-largeI think we all have different definitions of a soul mate. We tend to believe that a soul mate is a lover, spouse or lifetime partner;  someone with whom we have or will develop a romantic relationship. This may be the case in some instances but not necessarily definitive.

A soul mate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. Affinity in terms of sociology, which refers to “kinship of spirit”, interest and other interpersonal commonalities.

In current usage, “soulmate” usually refers to a romantic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond. This is to say, the word is used with more rarity than other terms associated with ‘romantic partner’. It is a very versatile term, being defined differently by different individuals, as it is related to the concept of love.

Soulmate commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve. Soulmate is not used as often as other terms representing the same idea, and this is likely to lead to its perceived rarity in meaning. The definition ranges widely and cannot be pinpointed. It is commonly accepted that one will feel ‘complete’ once they have found their soulmate, as it is partially in the perceived definition that two souls are meant to unite.

Join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. EST on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via Blog Talk radio, as I reveal the real meaning of one’s soulmate. A bond that is NOT necessarily one tied in romance.

The “Conversation link” in this post gives access to the online show.

See you on the air!

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88 thoughts on “Your Soulmate IS NOT your Significant Other, Tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah”

  1. QTip says:

    Hey Trace./Good morning Gurl.

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  2. QTip says:

    Most women have this theory that they wanna marry their best friend. So I know they won’t agree on this topic Trace

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    • BrownGirl says:

      Most women have this theory that they wanna marry their best friend
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      Yes and these same women isolate their best friends and then when something goes down in their love relationships with their man they need those same GF’s ….I REFUSE to abandon my girls for some knee grow and Ion care if we are married.

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      • QTip says:

        I REFUSE to abandon my girls for some knee grow and Ion care if we are married.
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        and you shouldn’t. any dude who would want you to diss ya friends don’t mean you no good.

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      • Anthony says:

        I REFUSE to abandon my girls for some knee grow and Ion care if we are married.
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        You’ll be saying something different once he lay dat pipe

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  3. Omar says:

    Ion know IMO everybody need someone to kick it with when that man or woman you involved with pisses you off. and if that person is considered a soulmate then so be it.

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    • Flo says:

      Ion know IMO everybody need someone to kick it with when that man or woman you involved with pisses you off.
      *******
      Are u talking on a fucking level of kicking it? Just so that we’re clear on this comment right here.

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    • Omar says:

      Are u talking on a fucking level of kicking it?
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      Not at all. Get ya mind out the gutter Flo

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  4. Flo says:

    Good show topic Tracy. 😛

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  5. Lilly says:

    Can you imagine if we thought every man we ever dated it or fell in love with was a soulmate? we’d be connected to a lot of souls O_o I like this topic

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  6. ManUp says:

    Tracy so busy that we only get post about the show? Y’all see how she do us?

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  7. aNGELhAIR says:

    IS THERE EVEN SUCH A THING AS ONE’S SOULMATE? SMH

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  8. EBONY says:

    I’ve never connected with any1 on a Soule mate level. Maybe I’m not even understanding tonight’s topic fully. But I’m thinking for me and a man to be that close, I guess he’d hafta be my soul mate.

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    • Adriane says:

      But I’m thinking for me and a man to be that close, I guess he’d hafta be my soul mate.
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      She said and I quote “The definition ranges widely and cannot be pinpointed.” so everyone has a different understanding of what a soul mate is or should be. I’m always curious thou on Tra’s perspective of a topic.

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  9. Adriane says:

    Tuning in. where’s Nicole?

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  10. BrownGirl says:

    A soulmate is someone you could talk to for hours and not even realize the time because you never get bored. and it’s not necessarily ya man either.

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  11. Ashanti says:

    what is a soul mate anyway? I’ve only heard the term on TV in love stories and shit O_o who else can’t relate?

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  12. Coco says:

    Most of us define a Soul Mate as a perfect romantic partner that will fulfill every aspect of our being.
    The truth is, life is not quite that simple. So I’m tuning in to hear Tracy confirm what I may already possibly know. 😛

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  13. Anthony says:

    I downloaded the conversations of a sistah app so uma hear the show regardless.

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  14. Nicole says:

    Tracy I hope to Gawd you’ll define a soul mate, cause all I’s ever had was a room mate 😆

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  15. Olivijah says:

    Great Conversation piece. I’m no where near meeting my soul mate 🙂

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  16. Henrietta says:

    I think I met my soul mate… he turns me on but I don’t even think he knows I exist.

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  17. Alscream says:

    I made it home in time. Dayum it was tight. and it’s nice outside too.

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  18. Adriane says:

    10 minutes till show time. Holla peoples.

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  19. Daisy says:

    It’s kinda lonely in here tonight. On line and waiting. 7 minutes till show time.

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  20. billy boy says:

    I wonder if Tracy was talking about Carolyn?

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  21. Adam says:

    I knew Trace prolly had a soul mate.

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  22. Acquitta says:

    Good show topic and thanks for addressing my email. I agree with you Tracy married 26 years and my husband is NOT my soulmate. God bless your mom Tra

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  23. Danny says:

    No matter how fleeting the encounter, each soul that comes into our lives has the potential to provide a significant life transforming moment.

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  24. Yvonne says:

    “Soul Mates serve as mirrors of ourselves”…..T.L.B. Conversations Of A Sistah >>>I LIKE That!

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  25. Keisha says:

    There are Different Types Of Soul Mates 🙂 and I believe Tracy covered them all.

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  26. Miss Ang says:

    we have the word ‘friend’, and the word ‘soul mate’ which is essentially romantic by nature. But how would you describe someone that falls in between? I wish Tra had opened up her lines…I wanted to call in. 😦

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    • Tamala says:

      Ang,
      What about someone who is more than just a ‘best friend’ but doesn’t have the romantic and sexual attraction of a ‘soul mate’?

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  27. Tamala says:

    Is it just me or are we all wondering who Tracy’s soul mate is? O_o

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  28. Cameo says:

    yO WHY IT SEEM LIKE tRACY loosing followers because of some of these topics. fuckem I say……Trace had me trippin last night. Her VOIce is a trip.

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    • DHood says:

      Trace be sounding a bit proper might I add. 😆 but that life partner shit she was talkin had me content.

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  29. DHood says:

    Eat and Rap, Eat and Rap, that’s what Trace’s father said about her and her soulmate.

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  30. Felicia says:

    “Soul mates are like fixtures in our lives because a soul mate can last a lifetime” T.L.B.

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  31. Kayla says:

    I do believe that a soul mate can be someone that you love and your life partner. Some of us want to connect with our lovers, husbands/significant others on that level. This was a good show but some statements and comments I disagree with Tracy on. Just my .2cents

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    • 2Thick4U says:

      Kayla every situation and relationship is different. For me my soul mate just so happens to be my BF. We women make the mistake of cutting off those important friendships when we get a man and when the man exits and leave the BF/soul mate is always left standing.

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  32. Sane says:

    If she’s fuckable you won’t consider her a soul mate. pointblankperiod

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