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How Did you Give Thanks?

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November 27, 2015 by The ReadyWriter


Ms_Mamie_HouseThanksgiving is a time for family and friends, yet some people still don’t understand this concept. The family structure is not as solid and strong as it us to be, this is why some family members choose to be scattered and unappreciative in a time of giving thanks.

Children no longer make their way to their parents or grandparents home for thanksgiving. Long gone are the days of “over the mountains and through the woods to grandmothers house we go”. Some people don’t understand that “family is not only important but the backbone of our being“. Some of us don’t get that memo until it’s too late.

I “thank God” that my girlfriends family still and always embrace the concept of “family first’ and the importance of family dinners and Thanksgiving gatherings year after year. My conscious was even called into question as she reminded me of how we’d meet at her mom’s house every Sunday after church, break bread and shared meals.

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My girlfriend further reminded me, of the many Sundays I planted my feet firmly under her mother’s table for the macaroni and cheese, cornbread, yams and array of other soul food favorites. She said “yeah Tracy you could be blogging about Sunday dinners here, instead of all these restaurants you be going to every week”. I was so strongly convicted because she was RIGHT!! Her mom is known for preparing a meal at the drop of a hat and can fry fish like It’s nobody’s business.

This “friend of mine” was inherited because our families are friends and the love is genuine and this is where I spent my thanksgiving. Thankful and reminded that “their home is where my heart is and will always be” no matter how far I rome on this journey called life, because it is in their atmosphere of family, where I will always experience love, warmth, respect and positivity…and for that I’m thankful and grateful.

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70 thoughts on “How Did you Give Thanks?

  1. bobby says:

    that table is LAID out. Tra u going for left overs?

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  2. Miss Ang says:

    Beautiful write-up 🙂 Tracy Happy Thanksgiving.

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  3. CorporateBitch says:

    Tracy your friend is blessed. wow that table is what??? The truth. Look at that cornbread.

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  4. Neesy says:

    OMG LOOK AT THAT POUND CAKE.

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  5. Alscream says:

    Is that sweet potato pie? Dayum!

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  6. BBallen says:

    classy.

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  7. Sane says:

    That was some spread! Trace ya peoples classy.

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  8. Coco says:

    I know I see banana pudding….beautiful tribute MS. BELL

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  9. Kayla says:

    Nice……………..Tracy I assume we have to guess those delicious dishes and desert? You are such a trooper with how you lure us into conversation. 😛

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  10. Adam says:

    They know how to celebrate. Awesome layout!

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  11. Randomchick says:

    Beautiful kitchen. love those granite counter tops.
    Tra you right folk don’t value family no more. they think we they get grown they can abandon their own. you ain’t neva lied. ya write up is the truth!

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  12. Cameo says:

    Yo Trace I wish we were friends.

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  13. Omar says:

    that food look gud.

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  14. Danny says:

    Tracy ah man this is awesome. nice tribute to a friend and ‘point check’ for those who snub their families. looks like you had a nice thanksgiving with good people.

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  15. Henrietta says:

    Nice.

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  16. Yvonne says:

    nice spread and lawd that banana pudding. wow!

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  17. Rezzie says:

    To God be the glory! A table fit for a queen.

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  18. 2Thick4you says:

    Ooh…Ooh…Ooh….Ooh……Ooh…where’s the turkey Tra?

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  19. Zenna says:

    Oh wow nice.
    Thanks for sharing blog queen.

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  20. Miss Ang says:

    This was so nice. Hope everyone enjoyed the holiday.

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  21. PookieNem says:

    Those deserts. 😛 food and the whole set-up looks catered. Tra should’ve invited us.

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  22. QTip says:

    That cheesecake is laid out. food looks GUD!
    Tra where was this?

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  23. BBallen says:

    Trace I need you to go back to ya peeps house for a pc.a pound cake for me.
    Ask ya friends moms if she would fry some fish for us. 🙂 I mean me……..thanks

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  24. Civil says:

    Trace looks/and SOUND like you were surrounded by old friends who are like fam. That’s beautiful.

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  25. Mrs says:

    Love the write up Tracy.
    That food and those deserts., that was a layout fit for kings and queens. 🙂

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  26. Sane says:

    How Did you Give Thanks? —> By appreciating friends, family and all I have to be “thankful” for.

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  27. Mittsey says:

    Oh My does that food and those deserts look good.
    Tracy if me getting a write-up means you being my friend., I welcome the relationship 🙂

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  28. Lexy says:

    Beautiful Tracy just beautiful.

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  29. SLICKrICK says:

    TRACE CAN A BROTHA GET A PLATE?

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  30. Ashanti says:

    Nice.

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  31. AppleBottom says:

    I see collard greens, string beans, gravy, yellow rice and those sweets OMG!

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  32. Tamala says:

    Wow! This look like the spread of all spreads.

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  33. Floridagirl says:

    Tracy you’re such a tease why didn’t you name each dish?
    The deserts….pound cakes, cheesecake, banana pudding, sweet potato pies and something nutty.

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