We’ve all heard the term “side piece” before….it’s that guy or girl who does anything you want and they’re not your boyfriend, girlfriend or significant other, they’re just your side piece. Like a chicken meal with a biscuit or a big mac sammich with a “side” of fries, never the main course but just a little something on the side. They’re your 2:00 am booty call who know what’s up, no attachments expected, just sex, sex and sex.. with a real understanding they’re your piece on the side.
And in “side piece” relationships there comes the “side piece” agreements such as:
- You’re probably not the only one.
- You can only focus on stolen moments.
- You can’t mention the wife/husband or the main dude/chick, because they need NOT be your concern.
- You can anticipate frequent changes in your spur of the moment hookups.
- As a side piece you must maintain a positive vibe while in each others company for the success of your sitationship.
- You can’t blast your situationship to the world so no tagging your “side piece” on Facebook and don’t send him/her invitations to your family gatherings because your relationship is a side thing not a main thing.
- No discussions about where “your situation” is headed because it’s headed just where it is for the moment.
- And lastly, There are no guarantees about the outcome of your situationship: when you are a cheater at heart, and that won’t change… a “side piece” will never be promoted to the main chick, please know that yet another sidepiece will fill the vacancy that’s been left behind.
Ok…… so now that you’ve gotten a little gist on the rules that govern “side piece” relationships, join me tonight at 6:30 p.m. on “Conversations Of A Sistah“ via Blog Talk Radio as I discuss this topic with the Author of “Side Piece Chronicles” Joi Miner.
Follow the “Conversation links” in this post to access the show!!!
she’s beautiful. but Tracy you really broke down those rules of a side piece LOL 😆 wow.
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she’s beautiful.
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Yes she is 🙂
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she’s beautiful.
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sistah is fyne
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she aight
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Thank you!
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yes i’m feeling that picture. I enjoyed listening to Joi. I enjoyed Trace more tho.
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she’s beautiful and I loved her response to the conversation.
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she’s beautiful and I loved her response to the conversation.
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CoSign….so did I.
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Thank y’all!
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Thank you!
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One “LOVE” Jamesha ~ 1 LUV.
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Joi you were a good guest. You really gave us something to think about. especially when you said “side pieces are a reality” Mm could not be my reality. I would catch a case behind some heifer and my husband.
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Meesh Meesh told da truff. Yeah Jameesha baby uma change yo name! a man and a side piece is a reality ladies, except dat shit.
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Sane, PALEASE take many _/ or crawl ya ass back into your work space. a side piece arrangement might be a reality for SOME but not all.
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@2Thick….good morning. this topic and these comments got u all riled up. chill boo….. was this your reality at some point?
It’s too early to let these comments or the show still your joy. get your coffee/tea vodka or the morning drink of your choice, take a deep breath and simmer down boo. then maybe come back a lil later.
Last night’s show topic raised ya blood pressure at some point.
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All the ‘side pieces’ stand up!
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DAYUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TRA SOUND LIKE THE EXPERT ON DAT SHIT!
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wow. gotta hear this. tuning in. hey tracy
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nothing like a side piece to supply that short term need. then you send that ass home and tell her to keep her mouth shut and not blow up ya spot.
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“As a side piece you must maintain a positive vibe while in each others company for the success of your sitationship” <<<-LMAO 😆 at this. Tracy you are a trip!!!
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Morning
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Morning sexy
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Hey people. Happy “hump day”
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good morning.
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zup good peoples.
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whaddup…whaddup.
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Wassup Fam. any side pieces up in dis tip??. LOL!!!!
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Morning.
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Civil no ‘side piece’ here.
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Hello everyone
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Mornin people. Tracy always havin these talked about conversations.
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It’s called ‘real talk” man.
morning all.
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Happy “Conversations Of A Sistah” Wednesday all.
@Civil, no “side piece” here I’m either the main dish or not on the table at all. 😛
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Good morning.
Mahogany I’m witcha on that one.
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Hey Good morning everybody
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hey all…..@civil no side pieces on my title. that’s a low place to be. still tuning in though.
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Wassup
Show is an hr. away and I’m checked in already
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hey fam
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Whaddup
Whaddup
Whaddup
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HellUR who is proud to be a mistress and a ho? I don’t care how popular it is. smh
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I wish I had a main piece let alone a side
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hey!!!
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oh well peeps there you have it…her book is a true story.
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good show hope you guys were tuned in 🙂
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hey peeps
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Sup fam. I missed y’all
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What it do good peoples?
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Good morning.
Side Piece pussy is just as real as the latest STD
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Not all side pieces got STD’s but I wouldn’t know I ain’t into that 🙂
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Not all side pieces got STD’s
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whenever you’re in relationSHIP(S) with different/multiple people or more than 1 person, an STD is highly likely.
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1.You’re probably not the only one.
2.You can only focus on stolen moments.
3.You can’t mention the wife/husband or the main dude/chick, because they need NOT be your concern.
4.You can anticipate frequent changes in your spur of the moment hookups.
5.As a side piece you must maintain a positive vibe while in each others company for the success of your sitationship.
6.You can’t blast your situationship to the world so no tagging your “side piece” on Facebook and don’t send him/her invitations to your family gatherings because your relationship is a side thing not a main thing.
7.No discussions about where “your situation” is headed because it’s headed just where it is for the moment.
8.And lastly, There are no guarantees about the outcome of your situationship: when you are a cheater at heart, and that won’t change… a “side piece” will never be promoted to the main chick, please know that yet another sidepiece will fill the vacancy that’s been left behind.
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Hilarious!!! Scary Tra but SOOOOO TRUE
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Hilarious!!! Scary Tra but SOOOOO TRUE
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I agree.
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Hilarious!!! Scary Tra but SOOOOO TRUE
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I cosign too.
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Nothing scary about that list because for somebody it’s true. somebody can relate, I’m sure
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hail yea…I can relate. my aunt had a man and was his side piece had the man’s kid, the man neva left his wife, wife died and he still didn’t marry her ass. a side piece is only good as a side… nothing else.
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well damn bobby
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Going to be an interesting show. 😛
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While the 10 agreements in that “side piece” list may be true. I don’t find it funny at all. There are some sistahs and brothaz living that as their reality. smh
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Princess it’s only sad if you’re the ‘side piece’ some woman are satisfied with being the side meal and not the main course. a lot of women have low self esteems.
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Hm….a guy that does anything you want that isn’t your boyfriend and you can still get with other guys. the best thing a girl can ever have. 😛
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Yeah ain’t nothing like someone that you can talk to, at your convenience while you are in a relationship. No strings attached, no stress, no expections, no bullshit.
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I am LMMFAO 😆 at this post so I can’t even imagine the questions Trace gon throw at this chick on the show tonight. Wow! side pieces gave up on love long time ago. like in H.S. LOL!!! Dayum!
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There is NO FUTURE with a side piece trick be it man or woman.
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I wish my husband would have a ‘side piece’ I’d kill his ass. point.blank.period!!!!
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I wish my husband would have a ‘side piece’ I’d kill his ass. point.blank.period!!!!
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sounds like you ain’t playin either. damn.
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I wish my husband would have a ‘side piece’ I’d kill his ass. point.blank.period!!!!
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sounds like you ain’t playin either. damn.
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I’m NOT!
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welp this sounds like a show that every married woman or man should be tuned in too.
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Great conversation piece. I’ll be tuned in as usual.
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Sounds like a good book. Have to hear the show. I always look forward to these weekly conversations TRacy
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Can’t wait to hear this topic.
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“in “side piece” relationships there comes the “side piece” agreements such as
1. YOU’S A HOE AND ALWAYS BE A SIDE HOE!!
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whatz up wit Trace these days she don’t share personal shit no more. 😦 like her dinner dates and her latest restaurant trips.
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she don’t want us to know I guess
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I miss that.
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yea she don’t engage us anymore
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hey it’s called she got a life. we should have 1 too.
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as long as there’s money, corruption and deceiver’s in this world, there’s always room for the career as a side piece. those are the side piece chronicles right there.
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anxious to hear this
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well we got about 25 minutes
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Ok I’m waiting
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Coc I’m online. sometimes I’ll dial in and listen if I’m caught in the car
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And in “side piece” relationships there comes the “side piece” agreements
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Tra you ain’t neva LIED!!!! 😛 LOL!!
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I betta be all the pieces that nigga need and want 😆 😛
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Music queing up……. *dancing*
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I gotta GET that book!!!
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see how men trick women? that is so deep. smh 😦 good show Tracy
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Tracy you were gonna have her READ A PIECE OF POETRY. what happened?
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Um she apparently ran outta time. duh!!
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her “situationship” as Tracy called it. 😆 she must’ve had some sense of humor. cuss my arse woulda been somewhere cryin n pissed!!
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her
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yea that is a bit much.
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her
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Ion think I could do that.
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her
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her girlfriend was comfortable being the side piece so…
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her
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but did y’all hear how Tracy asked her “and your gf was able to laugh at what was happening in her situationship” that’s deep but a lil twisted at the same time.
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her girlfriend allowed her to write a story about her
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Which is why Tracy said to her “you changed names right?” and she said YES. As long as she changed my name, I wouldn’t have a problem with it.
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names were changed to protect those involved.
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Great guest!! Go Joi!!!! Good show Tra
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I just read your comments and laughed so hard. I really enjoyed being on the show. I had a BLAST! Thank you for having me, Tracy and thank y’all for listening!
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Blessing to you Jameesha.
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Tracy announced her as Joi though (as written in the post) I’m confused
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Hey! My pen name is Joi Miner. Jamesha is my given name. ^_^
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she was good. we need to get that book.
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I love me some conversations of a sistah. can we get the ending song.
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I’m so attracted to Tracy’s voice. I swear. she fine too but the show is a real turn on for me.
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I really enjoyed myself! Miss Bell, thank you for having me! Thank y’all for the compliments. I enjoyed reading the comments. I was too tickled! See y’all next time! ^_^ Can I use those rules in the next book, Miss Bell? Lol.
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Hey Joi!!!! Girl your story sounds juicy. gonna check out the book. Good show. I listened to the rewind this morning. Be blessed my sistah.
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Joi I enjoyed hearing your story. I may have to check it out.
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Oh good show. you were a great guest. well spoken…..Tracy Bell aka blog queen love juicy and scandalous topics. 😆
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yes it was a good show.
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Kudos to the author.
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Joi the topic of ya book got some of my “conversations of a sistah” family upset. Damn this is a rough neighborhood to live in.
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Hey Flo! Please do! And let me know what you think. I had fun writing the story and have had great reviews so far!
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Tamala, Sane, and 2thick4u thanks so much! I can’t remember the last time I had that much fun on a radio show! Lol
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Hey Joi…..I see you.
Question: you had fun writing the book really? But could you say that if the story was about your husband and his side piece?
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I do believe that I could, if that was my reality. I understand that people are upset, especially those who are married, because this is a reality that we hope never becomes our own. The book is a story. I enjoy writing and telling stories. Like I said last night, though, if you know who you are marrying, that can cut down on a lot of the lies and confusion.
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aw hail.
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Hi Joi. I enjoyed listening to your story.
C’mon now, how does your GF feel about you finding such a hurtful experience funny after turning it into a novel? I don’t think being caught up as a side piece relationship is a funny matter
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Acquitta,
No one is making fun of anyone. She embraced and accepted her reality and that it wasn’t just hers. We’ve all made bad decisions and being able to look back at our errors and find humor in it, is a mark of growth.
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Hey Joi/Jameesha good morning
My mom was talking about when my father had a mistress last night after hearing the show and she was able to laugh. so I see how it’s possible.
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show was ear popping. But….Ion know…..if I was a married man’s side piece Ion know if I would have the GUTTS to tell anybody. I think I would have to take that shame all the way to the grave. Smh
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Her friend had nothing to hide, besides she found out the man was married after she fell in love with him.
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Yea he tricked her but I think I woulda felt foolish after the fact.
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first of all, I have a hard time believing her friend didn’t know the man was married. a married man can’t spend time with you the way a single man can. They can’t stay the night and they have to be home at a certain time. Just like a dog back to the kennel. They can’t go away for long weekends and they damn sure ain’t gone give you a home number. so how could she not see the signs of a married man? the story is just hard to believe.
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Miss Ang. sometimes we know it and just don’t wanna see the signs
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Nothing can be delivered and set free if it’s covered up. remember that ladies. I was glad that her friend ultimately let the married man go. Just sad to hear that she believed actually believed that he would leave his wife. 😡 smh. in the meantime he was dipping his wand in 2 ponds. nasty ass. 😛
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Nothing can be delivered and set free if it’s covered up.
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some men like the arrangements between their wives and side piece. that’s why it’s the best kept secret.
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some men like the arrangements between their wives and side piece. that’s why it’s the best kept secret.
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Maybe Sane that’s true however, the girl didn’t know the man was married! Did U even listen to the show?
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YES I heard the show. and the reason married men don’t announce they’re married is because they want the BEST of both worlds. The wife and the side piece 2gether in a beautiful arrangement.
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YES I heard the show. and the reason married men don’t announce they’re married is because they want the BEST of both worlds. The wife and the side piece 2gether in a beautiful arrangement.
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Oh HELLS NO I don’t think so. what planet are u from? Not in today’s society. some women might be down with that but I’m NOT. I wish a kneegrow would!
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the reason married men don’t announce they’re married is because they want the BEST of both worlds.
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What in THEE Fuck are you talkin bout? some men and women might like that old time back in the day hookup but too many men and women are being killed, misled, lied too and hurt behind side piece arrangements. 2 each his own boo.
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the reason married men don’t announce they’re married is because they want the BEST of both worlds.
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what your saying MIGHT be true. But if these ‘side piece’ bitches would shut down one of those worlds this wouldn’t be an issue now would it?
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dipping his wand in 2 ponds.
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LMAO 😆 that is too funny
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Good show. I heard the rewind last night. I especially like how Trace wrote the “side piece agreements up top. hellava larious.
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Book sounds like an interesting read. as a married woman I might be mad as hell though. Thank you Tracy for bringing that up last night too.
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Trace the show was off the hook…I like her.
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Thanks SoldierBoy. And I see I got some people riled. Reality has a way of doing that.
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I see I got some people riled
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yea bu it’s all good JRock.
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I see I got some people riled
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yes and I’m one.
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Lawd have mercy. the chile said “side pieces” are a reality. and she’s speaking from her knowledge of women who have and/are living it. sounds like a subject that needs to be dealt with. JESUS!!!! have mercy!!!!
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I know last night’s show topic got some of y’all GOING OFF up in here. It was a good show and the author was on point. Tracy always keep it interesting. we have to remember when we raise the consciousness of what is wrong people are prone to be pissed. have a blessed day fam.
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The title of the book alone is
She was a great guest!
Tracy I LOVE…LOVE LOVE the write up (good post) those side piece agreements are a trip!
Now I think I may check out the book.
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show was good Ms. Bell.
The conversation was and the details of the book was shocking thou.
my motto is…it ain’t my shoe so I don’t have to wear it.
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I heard the show because I missed it last night.
And judging by some of these comments the topic/subject/book raised some eyebrows. Blood pressures too.
I say, if this is not your reality, it should roll off ya back like water off a duck. But if it looks like a duck, walk like a duck and quack like a duck, then guess what? it’s a duck! LOL!!!
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Good show Trace. Keep dealing with REAL TOPICS and everyday issues. I like that 🙂 and Ion care who gets pissed OFF. LOL!
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Author told the TRUTH ladies. KNOW who you’re marrying
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