Can men and women remain friends after being lovers in relationships and having babies once their marriages and/or live-in situations have ended? Being civil is one thing but claiming to be the best of friends in constant contact and communication; is this a reality?
Of course, there are positive, wonderful friendships that are mutually beneficial to both friends that should last a lifetime. But then there are other relationships that should end because they are negative, destructive, or unhealthy.
My question is, are friendships possible once the relationship is over?
Join me tonight on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” as we explore this subject.
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Conversations Of A Sistah 
Hail to the nah and I said that.
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LOL 😆 Zenna I agree.
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Hail to the nah
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I agree sometimes it’s just not possible
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I agree sometimes it’s just not possible
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I just said the same thing.
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I agree sometimes it’s just not possible
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That’s what I’m saying
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Hail to the nah
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CoSign
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who wanna be friends with an ex?
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Let the analyzation begin 🙂
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Afternoon y’all
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Hellurh Everrybody!!!
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Helloo my good Ceo’ers!!!
I am so happy to be here!!
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Afternoon Peeps
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wassup peoples
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Afternoon fam
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Hey y’all
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Zup people
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Happy Wednesday y’all
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The Conversations are BACK ON tonight good peoples.
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Afternoon Ceo’ers
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Hello all
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wassup people………….a friend you can fuck are the best kind.
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What it do fam LOLL
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………….a friend you can fuck are the best kind.
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really? I don’t think so.
afternoon everybody
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Hey everybody.
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Hello ceo’ers
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Whazzup good people
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Hey now……..—————> it’s wednesday and the conversations are on tonight.
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Afternoon
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Sup”” yea I wanna hear this show. Tracy always starting some shit.
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I am so happy to be here!! —>> Me to Flo 🙂 Good afternoon everyone
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Sup people
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Hello people
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Hello all !!!!!
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Hey everybody….Happy Wednesday
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Happy Hum day y’all 😆
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Zup y’all. Tracy love to get a brotha thinking.
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Happy Wednesday 🙂
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Hello everyone
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Hey y’all
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I see the gang’s all here 🙂 hey fam
I’ll see y’all after the show
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Whazup ladies
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hello good people
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Good afternoon….friendships are possible once the relationships end but that’s my .2
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and so the conversation has begun 🙂
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Hey y’all
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Whats up fam, the show starts in another what hour n a half
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I don’t wanna be friends. stay in my damn past.
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Can I just comment after the show? 😆
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are friendships possible once the relationship is over? —> Not IMO
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naw…you’ll wind up fucking nem
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*dammit it to HELL NO!!!!!!
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Sometimes men change, meet someone else and don’t want the friendship.
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I’ve had some wonderful relationships. A couple of these men would make wonderful friends but it seems that’s never enough.
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No Tracy, once the relationship is over, I see no need to be friends.
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Nah I say build a bridge and get over it!
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I am currently friends with the guy I dated for two years. It hasn’t always been easy, but, there is still respect and we care about each other enough to remain friends.
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I’m tuning in Tra cause I know you ain’t down with the friendship after fucking thing 🙂
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It is possible to remain friends after a relationship? It depends on why the relationship ended in the 1st place.
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Some people can deal, some can’t or don’t want to.
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I have managed to keep old boy/friend’s as friends it seems that we got along better as friends and NO WE AIN’T HAVE SEX EITHER! 🙂
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🙂 Yes Tra you can remain friends, but it all depends on the way the breakup occurred and why? That’s all
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how can two people remain friends after being in a relationship? personally I don’t think it’s possible or realistic. so tracy I look forward to this conversation.
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personally I don’t think it’s possible or realistic.
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Of course it is, suppose you have children, then what?
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personally I don’t think it’s possible or realistic.
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Of course it is, suppose you have children, then what?
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Oh I can always remain civil if kids are involved but a friendship is something different altogether
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Oh I can always remain civil
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Yep because being Civil means not acting up in front of your children., that’s it.
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Yep because being Civil means not acting up in front of your children., that’s it.
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that’s why I ain’t down for being nobody’s baby mama.
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I can comment further after the show.
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I agree Tracy and will be tuned in cause my ex husband and I cant even stay in the same room 2gether
that’s right.
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if i ain’t good enough for the relationship i ain’t good enuff to be a friend
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I have ex-b/fs who I bitterly hate…. so oh hell no we can’t be friends.
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If you remain friends, how can you move on? 😡
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A friendship would be impossible if one person still had feelings for the other. I tried remaining friends with an ex once, huge mistake! huge!
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I say leave exes where they belong. In the past!
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As long as he ain’t a psycho ex, we good.
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Can a man and woman remain friends after a relationship?
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I’ve been told that it’s easier for women to remain friends with a guy and separate the “sex thing” from a friendship, than it is for men. Any truth to this, fellas?
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It depends on the ex ….tuning in to hear Tracy’s commentary on this.
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It’s a catch 22, sometimes being friends can give you both an opportunity for closure?
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people fall in love because it’s convenient. But when “love” is no longer convenient (marriage and commitment), “I-just-want-to-be-friends” becomes the easiest excuse.
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You don’t have to be friends but u can remain friendly. Good show topic Trace 🙂
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It’s a thin line cause sooner or later one of you gon catch feelings or have them old feelings grow again. I say NO keep it moving. Unless you wanna rekindle that relationship.
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I knew a guy who pretended to be friends with this girl so that he could have this girl fall in love with him. he waited and waited n when it never happened he ended his friendship with her. he clearly had a motive 😆
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Nay we don’t have to be friends.
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some people can’t get over whatever it was that went wrong, when this is the case a friendship is not possible.
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yes it is possible..i dated a guy for 7 yrs and even after we broke up we are still close friends and have been for 17 yrs. so it’s possible
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No, its best both parties go their own way. When a relationship ends unless it is a mutual parting one is always hurt and the other is moving on to better. The one that is hurt will always be looking for the relationship to be more than friends again and when this doesnt happen its a bigger hurt than before. Leave and wish them well.
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After time has passed each person has had a chance to heal and move on it could be possible. 🙂
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Tracy I haven’t had this kind of experience yet but a friend of mine is friends with most of his ex girlfriends though.
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NO! Period..
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NoWay!!!!!!
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After a relationship is over, give me my distance. I do not want to see or talk to you.
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Tra I do think that friendships are very possible. You just need two mature people who do not hold grudges.
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You just need two mature people who do not hold grudges.
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I agree with a lot of maturity and hard work, but there are differing levels of friendship.
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You just need two mature people who do not hold grudges.
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It depends if they no longer like each other than that’s a different story.
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“are friendships possible once the relationship is over?”
Yea if you still need an excuse to have them in your life.
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If there are children involved it’s crucial to remain at least civil, not the best of friends but atleast keep it civil.
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Hell NO I wouldn’t wanna be friends. fa what?
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It can be an opportunity for closure
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It can be an opportunity for closure
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Really? But some people want partner privileges. so that may not work.
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How do you stop calling her boobie and baby.. nah cut all ties a friendship can be sticky.
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Not if you keep having EX ~ SEX…….so let me get ready for Tracy and this Convo right chere.
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All OR Nothing!
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Men and women can’t be friends because the sex always gets in the way, especially if you were use to having it
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or it was real good
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C’mon with the Convo Tra
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Soldier, the show starts at 8 😆
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I know Kee, just anxious I guess. she cancelled last week.
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she cancelled last week.
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FYI:::::: she did not the producer did.
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How long till show time? Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!
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How long till show time?
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One minute
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Thanks
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Let’s turn it up Tra 😆
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Tra the show was DRY AS HELL!!!!
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LOL @ Point 😆 It’s like Tra is getting bored with either the show or her topics
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Nicole maybe it’s her topics ?? Ion know but she gave some good points though
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Tra the show was DRY AS HELL!!!!
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CoSign she seem unenthused
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Damn y’all we waited all day for her to end it so quick? Damn!
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Me personally, I think she tired
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I thought the show good especially since I know some women still fucking they exes.
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SHE WAS STR8 AND TO THE POINT.
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THE SHOW WAS SHORT BUT INFORMATIVE….SHE’S DONE BETTER
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Loved the show! You can’t move on lookin back and holding on bottom line.
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Hey Fam. I always enjoy Tracy’s show but it just seems like we had this conversation b4?
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I thought it was a good show and if Trace don’t get paid for this shit I’d only give y’alls asses 18 – 20 minutes too.
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Wassup Fam……say what you want but Tra ain’t all there. It’s like her heart ain’t in it no mo. I believe this could be the end of theses Conversations as we know it. 😦
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Like the rest of us, Trace is human and get tired because i’s normal. hell we don’t know what she deal with on a day to day basis. we don’t even know what her schedule is, so. the show was good, did she sound tired YES and it took everything in her to get through tonight’s show.
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it took everything in her to get through tonight’s show.
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I agree.
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it took everything in her to get through tonight’s show.
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and you heard all of this in her voice? GTFOHWTBS.
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wonder whats up with tra that she’s been giving us half ass conversations.
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DON’T TUNE IN
cause I ain’t appreciate this HALF ASSED COMMENT
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DON’T TUNE IN
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COSIGN
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wonder whats up with tra
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I just think she could have a lot going on and maybe her producer is not supporting her like he should. Hey we don’t know.
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wonder whats up with tra
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What is suppose to be up with her? She sounded happy and fine to me. You people read too much into things.
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You people read too much into things.
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I agree Rezzie. tell em!
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I thought tonight’s show was interesting. Good show Tra
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Keep doing it Blog Queen…you in the house praise God!
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