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It takes ‘TWO’ to tango…So why do women ‘WAR’ with the other-woman, when her man cheats? Tonight on Conversations Of A Sistah


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It takes two to tango…and two to cheat, yet some women solely blame the other woman when the infidelity has been exposed. Especially since both parties are equally responsible and all matters should be focused on the betrayer, the one who is actually in the relationship. So why are women so quick to attack and lay fault on the other woman?

And don’t get me wrong, the other woman, his mistress and/or ‘side piece’ should bear some responsibility as well, especially if she knew the man was married or in a relationship. Although it can be argued that she doesn’t deserve the majority of the blame, it does actually take two to tango. Yet the man will take pleasure in knowing women are squabbling over him.

So why do women feel compelled to battle and be hostile towards the other woman because of her man’s cheating, whorish ass ways?

Join me tonight at 8:00 P.M. on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversation’s Live” as I answer the question: “Why do women ‘WAR’ with the other woman, when her man cheats?

You can access the show here! In the meantime, sound off on this Conversation until we meet on the air!!

142 thoughts on “It takes ‘TWO’ to tango…So why do women ‘WAR’ with the other-woman, when her man cheats? Tonight on Conversations Of A Sistah”

  1. Tracy if my husband EVER cheated on me I wouldn’t have to confront the other woman cauz I’d KILL his ass! For sure!

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      1. I’m so glad I ain’t married whew!
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        If you cheat in your courtships you’d cheat in your marriage –>> So very true practice makes PREFECT dude

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      2. I’m so glad I ain’t married whew!
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        Not being married is not a safe haven. you living drama you gon bring the drama wit ya women.

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      3. I’m so glad I ain’t married whew!
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        so what that mean? doesn’t make you exempt from the drama

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      1. talk to me people..would you fight over your man or woman?
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        Well 1st of all my husband is not going to EVER put me in a position like that but as long as that heffa stayed in her SIDE lane I would have no reason to STEP to her.

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      2. talk to me people..would you fight over your man or woman?
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        Princess ain’t that much LOVE in the world.

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      3. talk to me people..would you fight over your man or woman?
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        Ion know ladies you can NEVER say never!!!

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      1. Sup people. no # for tonights show?
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        if you click on the shows link the call in # automatically appears.

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  2. Fighting your man over his mistress or side piece is appropriate but fighting her over him is too much energy. 😦 NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  3. Yes, yes women can’t think str8 when it comes down to competing for a man especially if he cheated on her. This will be a good show.

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  4. 2 women fighting over a man shouldn’t find it’s way to press, let alone the Internet. As men and women of Colour air their Character we need to show the world we are NOT the mindless savages they think we are.
    Wise Up to Rise Up!

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  5. Funny how men don’t fight over women but women will fight over their man and it’s called a cat fight or some other stupid, degrading shit. Either way it’s a shame that these topics need to be addressed in this day and age.

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  6. I’ll never catch a case over a dayum man!
    Tiger Woods was fucking 14 women ON THE SIDE……and NOT one time did his wife Elin Nordegen fight or approach any of those skanks.

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  7. Y’all know how some men are? they like to play one woman against the other and have the other woman on the side when the real culprit is the man !!! No man is that important or worth fighting for ladies. ever!

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  8. No matter what you think, men will always fight over women and women will always fight over men. Its been like that through the ages.

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  9. FIGHTING OVER A DUDE MUST MEAN HE HAVE SOMETHING SPECIAL WHICH I DOUBT. BUT IF HE WERE MARRIED I GUESS THAT WOULD BE THE EXCEPTION

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  10. who would fight over a man? I don’t care if he’s my husband or not? cheating or not you confront that man! there’s already drama with the fact that he’s cheating. never me.

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  11. some women do approach their men when they find out he’s cheating. I know a woman who ran her man over with her car. they don’t play! I’ll comment further after the show.

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    1. Trace this is a 1 sided post. brothaz be fightin over women too.
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      So true …a man bit off another’s man ear in a fight over his woman 😆 there are so many situations between couples who get caught cheatin then end up fighting the other man or woman. it’s crazy!

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      1. Gabriella, it takes extreme rage for a man to bite off another mans ear. WTF? then after you bite it off you have 2 choices……spit it out or swallow it.

        Either way. you have to be a siiiick dude to even attempt it.

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      2. These are called FIGHTS OF PASSION but I can Promise you that if Anybody ever bit me or my ear off I’m knocking their teeth the fuck out!!!.

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      3. Trace this is a 1 sided post. brothaz be fightin over women too.
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        on the flip side the actions are still trivial and petty.

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      4. Trace this is a 1 sided post. brothaz be fightin over women too.
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        on the flip side the actions are still trivial and petty.
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        Agreed Civil

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  12. women will fight to their deaths over a man. sad but true. and he’s never worth it!
    looking forward to tonights show as usual.

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  13. Unless he has a diamond encrusted dick 😆 well neva mind. no dude is ever worth the fight husband, boyfriend or whateva. and I know tra gon say the same thing tonight. tuning in for the laughs.

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  14. Females like to fight other females and will do anything to get or keep a man. :smh: 😦 unfortunately but true. great show topic Ms. Bell

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  15. Damn 2 women fighting over a man how about shame on the man who would allow 2women to fight over him. that shit is juvenile and not cute!

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  16. Lawd have mercy my neighbor’s wife use to fight his Ho’s make it so bad he use to TRY and stop her which would PISS her off all the more 😆 you pass that shit down to your children when you bahave like that smh.

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  17. Join me tonight at 8:00 P.M. on ”Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversation’s Live” as I answer the question: “Why do women ‘WAR’ with the other woman, when her man cheats?

    I gotta hear this show with my girlz cause we all will fight a bish if she messing with our man. Ion know it’s like 2nd nature IMO. some bishes just plain disrespectful and have to be put in check. point..blank..period!

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  18. I don’t know this topic is a reality for somebody not me. I believe men should keep their women apart if he has or is dealing with more than one, if one approaches the other then you caught out there.

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  19. Oh man I’m so excited about this show because my mama use to approach my fathers mistresses in a heartbeat 😆 they divorced when I was a kid but I find that shit funny as hell now.

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      1. Listen girl
        Who do you think I am?
        Don’t you know that he was my man?
        But I chose to let him go
        So why do you act like I still care about him?
        Looking at me like I’m hurt
        When I’m the one who said I didn’t want it to work
        Don’t you forget I had him first?

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      1. Listen girl
        Who do you think I am?
        Don’t you know that he was my man?
        But I chose to let him go
        So why do you act like I still care about him?
        Looking at me like I’m hurt
        When I’m the one who said I didn’t want it to work
        Don’t you forget I had him first?

        What you thinkin’?
        Stop playing me
        He wasn’t man enough for me
        If you don’t know now here’s chance
        I’ve already had your man
        Do you wonder just where he’s been, yeah?
        Not be worried about him
        Now it’s time you know the truth
        I think he’s just the man for you

        What are you thinking?
        Did you know about us back them?
        Do you know i dumped your husband, girlfriend?
        I’m not thinking ’bout him
        But you married him
        Do you know I made him leave?
        Do you know he begged to stay with me?
        He wasn’t man enough for me

        Listen girl
        Didn’t he tell you the truth?
        If not then why don’t you ask him?
        The maybe you can be more into him
        Instead of worrying about me
        And hopefully you won’t find
        All the reasons why his love didn’t count
        And why we couldn’t work it out

        What you thinkin’?
        Stop playing me
        He wasn’t man enough for me
        If you don’t know now here’s chance
        I’ve already had your man
        Do you wonder just where he’s been, yeah?
        Not be worried about him
        Now it’s time you know the truth
        I think he’s just the man for you

        What are you thinking?
        Do you know about us back them?
        Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
        I’m not thinking ’bout him
        But you married him
        Do you know I made him leave?
        Do you know he begged to stay with me?
        He wasn’t man enough for me

        What are you thinking?
        Do you know about us back them?
        Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
        I’m not thinking ’bout him
        But you married him
        Do you know I made him leave?
        Do you know he begged to stay with me?
        He wasn’t man enough for me

        Oh yeah
        So many reasons why are love is through, yeah
        What makes you think he’ll be good to you, no
        It makes no sense cause he will never change
        Girl you better recognize the game, oh yeah

        What are you thinking?
        Do you know about us back them?
        Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
        I’m not thinking ’bout him
        But you married him
        You know I made him leave
        And you know he begged to stay with me
        He wasn’t man enough for me

        What are you thinking?
        Do you know about us back them?
        Do you know about your husband, girlfriend?
        I’m not thinking ’bout him
        But you married him
        Do you know I made him leave?
        Do you know he begged to stay with me?
        He wasn’t man enough for me

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  20. It takes ‘TWO’ to tango and two to cheat

    yea some sistas truly have it twisted fighting each other instead of putting their man in check. I know alotta feelings was hurt behind tonight’s commentary.

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  21. I agreed with the caller it takes a ghetto mentality to fight over a man. no man or woman is anyone’s possession unless they’re married.

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  22. Trace what kind of same hill bullshit that cyrus webb got going on?
    I pressed “1” and couldn’t/didn’t get through!! I wanted to SPEAK my peace!

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      1. Tra’s show was good!!!!
        But what happened that y’all didn’t get through when you called?
        @Tamala, if you pressed 1, what was the problem? That don’t sound right.

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  23. Listened to tonight’s show and it’s disheartened to know that sistahs be really fightin over men. I even googled the topic and women are sittin in jail to this day behind having killed a woman over a man. or man because of a woman. this is a sad state of reality.

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    1. Corp,
      When she said, “Women be chasing around the other woman to scare her, who has time for that crap? I wouldn’t be running around after another heifer!!” I hollered up in here!!! 😆

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  24. One recent Chinese wedding was certainly not the happiest day of the bride and groom’s lives.

    A wedding in the Chinese city of Shenzhen was crashed by none other than the groom’s pregnant mistress, who showed up in a wedding dress of her own.

    Tra ya topic is really happening between these couples. like wow!

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  25. I never understand why two women would fight with one another over the dog of a man who has been involved with both of them. I would never fight over the scrap of a bone.

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