When we’ve been hurt and disappointed, we automatically lock ourselves in a box for protection, shunning out those parts of our-lives that are susceptible to be hurt again. We swear off relationships and throw away any chance of true love and fidelity as a reality. We’ll allow one huge mistake, regret or experience to determine our destiny in life going forward.
But isn’t it sad to stop living and believing all because you give consent to your past to manipulate and define your future?
I know many women who have settled for less, and simply “accepted” the cards dealt because deep down inside, they don’t believe they deserve more. I’m sure you know of someone who seems to have it all together in their life, but when it comes to relationships, they just can’t seem to shake the hurt they’ve been dealt in the past or seem to repeat over and over again.
Don’t you feel you deserve the best your purpose has to offer in every aspect of your life? And that includes love and the right relationships.
Join me tonight at 8:00 PM on “Conversations Of A Sistah” via “Conversations Live” as I discuss “Defining a Sistah’s self-worth“.
Access the show here and I’ll meet you on the air!!!
As usual sound off here!!
So is this show just for the sistah’s? Mm Hm I’ll be tuning in.
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So is this show just for the sistah’s?
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Ion think so. I like hearing Trace talk so I’m tuning in either way 😆 #dontjudgeme
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So is this show just for the sistah’s?
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Now y’all know Tracy is fair with cussing folks out with her weekly commentary 😆 Don’t be scerred. Tune in and hear fa ya self gentlemen.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy? 😆
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Good morning Ebony,
Tune in and find out!!! 😆
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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That means when sistah’s accept and deal with anything just to get along…when women tolerate bullsh*t…I don’t know but I’m guessing.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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WHAT ARE YOU WORTH @ EBONY???
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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How do you define you? Ask yourself that question.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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The term is broad but skrong!!! 😆
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@Ebony,
It’s one’s worth as a person, as perceived by oneself…tune in tonight.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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Self-esteem; self-respect.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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If I can just jump in here and add: The quality of being worthy of esteem or respect.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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I like how everybody’s guessing where Tracy is gonna go with this topic and I like the effort but I can almost guarantee Tra’s topic is about relationships.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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What does it mean for you?
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Whats up all.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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Again: Self-worth provides the experience of being able to cope with the basic challenges of life and being worthy of happiness.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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Think highly of yourself my sistah.
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Defining a sistah’s self-worth? what does this mean Tracy?
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It means it can fuck with what you believe about yourself.
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This a powerful topic for us women we need to know how to value ourselves as women.
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Oh Good moanin
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Mornin Starr
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What’s up ladies.
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MORNING
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Good afternoon Ladies.
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Happy Hump day y’all
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Hey everybody
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Hey people.
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It’s Wednesday people!!!!
And the Conversations are REAL 😆
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Sup good people
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Hello all.
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Hey everybody!!!! *waves*
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Happy Wednesday y’all.
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Good afternoon everyone
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Hey Ashanti, Ad, Starr, Wanda, Kee and Ebony…..Hey Fam WaSup y’all
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Sup Ceo’ers
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Hello everyone.
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Ladies and Gents whatz good??? 😆
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How will the dream live on?
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Whatz up fam
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HEY FAM
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YVONNE
CORP
ADAM
ADRIANE
STARR
ASHANTI
MISS ANG
KAYLA
ACQUITTA
NATASHA
2THICK
Y’ALL STILL DREAMING? 50 YRS AGO. KING MARCHED AND HAD A DREAM.
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Wassup people
@Lexy and 50 yrs later they still marching. smh
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They will be airing the “I have a dream” speech at the same time as Tracy’s show. 😡 Damn, damn, damn!!! (in my Florida Evans voice) 🙂
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Happy Hump Day y’all.
@Florida, I’m gonna work it out. I refuse to miss “Conversations” tonight !!
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Hey everybody
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Good afternoon everyone.
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Good Day y’all
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Praise God how y’all doin???
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They will be airing the “I have a dream” speech at the same time as Tracy’s show
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Ok still gotta hear “Conversations” either way.
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Hello everyone.
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Hey Fam
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Hey Ceo peoples.
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WHATZ UP
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Oohh whats up ladies
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Whaddup peeps
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Hello everyone.
In the spirit of the anniversary of i have a dream..let freedom ring 🙂
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Hello Ceo Fam
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Hey Fam
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Damn it’s packed up in here.
Oh that’s right ‘the conversation’ is ON tonight.
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Looking forward to a great Conversation Ceo Family
Love y’all
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MLK 50 Realtalk#
Tuning in for this conversation tonight. 1 hour to go.
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Love the topic Tra….tuning in.
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Break it down Tracy break it down.
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WHAT ARE WE WORTH LADIES??? WHAT ARE WE WORTH?
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What do you use to quantify your self-worth? Bottom line so tune in. I am..
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some of us define our self worth by how man FB and twitter followers they have. Smh yeah ok. I’m sure Tracy has a different definition of this but this is my take.
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Defining your self-worth:
Is it from what you do?
Who you work for?
Who you hang out with?
Whether you have a boyfriend (and what he does)?
How men treat you?
How thin, curvy, or stylish you are?
How long your hair is?
It can be a multitude of these things. we’ll have to wait and see which one Tracy will take from.
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Self-esteem is an issue for many women so great topic to tune intooooo.
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What we live, our reality, is the projection of ourselves; for WE are the projector of what we believe. So where will our blog queen go with this topic? we’ll see.
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Self-worth self-esteem hell isn’t it all the same thing? either way if it’s low people take advantage of that shit. they see it as your weakness. now how trace gon spin-it we’ll see.
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Self worth is the opinion you have about yourself and the value you place on yourself.
Great topic Tracy.
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Your self worth is a function of how you value yourself. To build your self worth you must first discover your values and then make up your own definition of this …right @ Tracy Bell? 🙂
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RESPECT YOURSELF LADIES BOTTOM LINE.
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Good show topic
Because a lot of women/sistah’s make their self-worth conditional and based on other people.
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Today marks the 50th Anniversary of the March on Washington, DC
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Ok y’all.. A healthy Sense of Self-worth is NOT the same as having an inflated ego brothaz!
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“Self-worth comes from one thing – thinking that you are worthy.”
Tuning in.
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Our self-worth requires conscious and continuous maintenance on SELF!!!!
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DO YA THING TRA I’LL BE TUNED IN.
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Back to lurking.
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Basically, in order to develop a stable and enduring sense of self-worth, we must know that our mere existence makes us worthwhile
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Self-worth provides the experience of being able to cope with the basic challenges of life and being worthy of happiness.
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As self-worth goes up, so does our sense of trust that somehow we can cope with the environment. When it decreases, we lose confidence that we can be successful in our environment. For instance, a person with a high level of self-worth may overcome a negative environment and become successful, while a person with a lower level of self-worth may fail within positive surroundings.
Bottom line, you have to determine your self-worth.
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Tuning in no matter what!!!!
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Let Freedom ring.
50 years later and the Conversation is still on tonight at 8:00 PM 😆
God bless Dr. King.
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We must always garnish and nurture our self-worth people…ladies especially.
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Henrietta,
We see a fluctuation of self-worth in individuals who are laid off or fired from long-term positions or when personal relationships fail. In numerous cases, seemingly high-self-worth individuals can fall apart.
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Ionna I agree but we have to do what we have too to push forward.
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I agree but we have to do what we have too to push forward.
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CoSign which is why this is such a strong topic.
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I’m very passionate about the topic of self worth, as it’s something I had struggled with for much of my life., so I’ll be “front and center”
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Heather Hedley is sanging in Washington today at the Anniversary of the “I Have A Dream” speech.
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Heather Hedley is singing in Washington
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LIFT THAT VOICE AND SANG CHILE. SHE TORE IT UP!!!
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OBAMA SPEAKING NOW.
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Living with a lack of self-worth will cause you to:Feel stuck in self-doubt, worry and negative self-talk and think …Gotta hear this show.
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When you doubt your self-worth you create distractions (like addictions) to avoid feeling unfulfilled. Sad but true.
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Self-worth is your sacrifice fulfillment for a perceived sense of security…sometimes when sistah’s don’t feel secure they lose their sense of security.
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@Queen, you know you don’t make no damn sense right?? Just tune in so we can all sop guessing where the topic is going.
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If you READ the damn post you may get an idea where Ms. Bell is going with this topic!
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Sooooo… I’m on Facebook and I hear about a movie about Luther Vandross that Tyler Perry is making…
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AND!!!! Cause you off topic homey 😆
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@Man. My mama done got so put off with this gay stuff BUT she will let you KNOW Luther was “respectable” with his Worldy side. <–her words. :hahaha:
I think that absolves him and in all their eyes he is the bess and not a gay man..per se.. :hahaha: 😆
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Luther was “respectable”
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Sooooo… I’m on Facebook and I hear about a movie about Luther Vandross that Tyler Perry is making…
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hell they done made an opera about Anna Nicole so anything’s possible.
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#respectable gays
Don lemon
Anderson Cooper
Ellen
Jamie Foxx
Diddy
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Very interesting topic….interesting indeed and I’ll be TUNED IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tuning in Ms. Thang aka Blog Queen aka TraBell aka Tracy L. aka Tracy Bell 😆
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Trace I love you Babe.
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Yeah well her show is not about YOUR LOVE but about your SUPPORT
So Tune in and keep that love to ya-self. I’m offended. “side eye”
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Hey Corp,
Don’t be jealous Boo…There’s enuff love to go around. I do support OUR GIRL thou….And always tune in for her most girly-ish subjects.
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Looking forward to a great Conversation Tracy.
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“You Gotts be: by Des’Ree is toonights song….wow!!!! Good show Tra
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That “Soul – Tie” reference was deep!!!
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“Love will save the day!”
Gota Be!!!! Tracy it’s 8:23 you had atleast 10 more minutes Damn!!!!
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I know @Tammy …she don’t prolong for nothing !!! 😆 She say what she gotta say then DROP THE MIC!!! BAM!!!
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Oh man Tracy…You blow my mind every time 😆
Listen as your day unfolds, challenge what the future holds
Try and keep your head up to the sky
Lovers, they may cause you tears
Go ahead release your fears, stand up and be counted
Don’t be ashamed to cry
You gotta be
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold, you gotta be wiser
You gotta be hard, you gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm, you gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Herald what your mother said
Reading the books your father read
Try to solve the puzzles in your own sweet time
Some may have more cash than you
Others take a different view, my oh my, heh, hey
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold, you gotta be wiser
You gotta be hard, you gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm, you gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Don’t ask no questions, it goes on without you
Leaving you behind if you can’t stand the pace
The world keeps on spinning
You can’t stop it, if you try to
This time it’s danger staring you in the face
Remember, listen as your day unfolds
Challenge what the future holds
Try and keep your head up to the sky
Lovers, they may cause you tears
Go ahead release your fears, my oh my heh, hey, hey
You gotta be bad, you gotta be bold, you gotta be wiser
You gotta be hard, you gotta be tough, you gotta be stronger
You gotta be cool, you gotta be calm, you gotta stay together
All I know, all I know, love will save the day
Des’ree – You Gotta Be Lyrics
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I love this song. Loved the show too.
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We need to get some Tracy Bell quotes going here tonight, let me start:
Your body is a Temple and when a man enters he should ENTER TO WORSHIP!!!
Holla y’all
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“Bed to bed collecting soul ties”
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Something like that…Am i close? 😆
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“If your self-worth is killed and not built upon and nurtured during the onset of childhood it can and will affect your decisions and relationships as adults.
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“Your energy, confidence and attitude are the chemistry (good or bad) that will transact others to you”.
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Y’all sound like the show was a school lesson now y’all answering questions to a test GTFOHWTBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Morning Ceo’ers
Last night on R&B Divas Claudette Ortiz was talking about a woman’s self worth. Anybody see that?
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Morning Daisy
Yeah i saw that n was like oh shit Tra was just talking about that.
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Morning @daisy that season finale was powerful!!!
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Look at God ! 😆 Happy Thursday ladies
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