Aw it’s so nice when two people fall in love and really want to spend the rest of their lives together. They may have a long-term courtship before the man decides to spring for a ring and sometimes under different circumstances. Some women are willing to cross the Atlantic ocean and lay down their lives just to get that ring!
The ring for some women serve the purpose as a status quo, they’d like to feel as though their ten, twelve, thirteen and/or twenty-five plus year courtship is going to another level. When in fact it’s really going nowhere, except to your weekly rendezvous at your local motel 6, hanging out at his place or your yearly get-aways to a remote location.
Sometimes the buck stops with the engagement ring and the relationship goes no further. Why is that? What happened to the man’s intent behind the giving of the ring? Did he just give you the ring to “get that thing“? And are you satisfied with wearing this “front?”
Tune into “Conversations Of A Sistah“ tonight at 8:00 PM as I discuss how SOME engagement rings ain’t nothing but a thing! Access the show via “Conversations Live“.
well if nothing else i knew we would finally get a new post about the show. *shrugs*
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well if nothing else i knew we would finally get a new post about the show. *shrugs*
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Yes Ms. Bell seem to be slacking on her post. 🙂
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well if nothing else i knew we would finally get a new post about the show. *shrugs*
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She said a couple of months ago that she was working on a lucrative project. I think that’s why the stories may be a little slow. she only have time to post her shows nothing else too much right now.
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shiiidd!!!!! It’s to the point where i don’t care bout nothing but the show. 😆
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shiiidd!!!!! It’s to the point where i don’t care bout nothing but the show.
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Dido!!!
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shiiidd!!!!! It’s to the point where i don’t care bout nothing but the show.
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CoSign!!!!
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shiiidd!!!!! It’s to the point where i don’t care bout nothing but the show.
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I agree.
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Yes Ms. Bell seem to be slacking on her post.
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Not slacking just doing a bunch of other things. she’s in DEMAND peoples.
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Yes Ms. Bell seem to be slacking on her post.
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Yea Um I seriously doubt Trace is a slacker.
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Yes Ms. Bell seem to be slacking on her post.
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She ain’t slacking on her show and these damn topics and that’s fa sho. Every damn woman in America should be tuned in. Especially if they done exchanged they booty for a ring..ya heard!
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Every damn woman in America should be tuned in. Especially if they done exchanged they booty for a ring..ya heard!
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You people are so outspoken 😆 I can’t take it!
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Good morning Tracy!!!
*waving*
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Morning
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Mornin
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Sup fam.
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Good morning everyone. Hope you will enjoy the show. 🙂
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Hey Tracy and everybody!!!
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Sup y’all.
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Look Tracy popped in well it’s a bout damn time. 😆
Morning Ceo’ers.
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Happy Wednesday people.
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Hey Ceo’ers and TRACY!!!!!
Whatz good!!
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Sup TraBell…….Wassup Fam
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Sup Fam
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Hello Everyone.
Hello Tracy.
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Afternoon peeps.
Did y’all notice Trace didn’t encourage us to email the show.
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Did y’all notice Trace didn’t encourage us to email the show.
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Yea I noticed @Man, I think maybe the questions or emails became too much.
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Hello all.
@Man, yes I noticed, she didn’t even post the shows email address. 😆
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Hey Happy Hump Day Ceo Peeps!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hello one and all.
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Ooh y’all I’m luvin this topic and haven’t even heard the show yet.
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Hey People. Can’t wait to hear how this is layed out tonight. That Tracy Bell is a TRIP!!!!! I wanna know who her man is and can he handle her? And do they have the same beliefs? Cause homegirl be dropping it ancient style.
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That Tracy Bell is a TRIP!!!!! I wanna know who her man is and can he handle her? And do they have the same beliefs? Cause homegirl be dropping it ancient style.
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That’s the problem now society wanna us to accept everything as the norm when it’s wrong. sounds like Tracy stand on strong principles and whoever her man is I’m sure he supports the same if he didn’t he wouldn’t be her man…
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Happy Wednesday People.
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Sup erbody.
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It’s Wednesday’s y’all…..and the conversation here is always HOT!!!!!!
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Whaddup
Whaddup
Whaddup
Fam
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Hey good people!!!!!!!!!!
“When The engagement ring ain’t nothing but a thing” I likes that!!!!! 😆
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Afternoon CEO’ERS!!!!!!!!!
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Sup
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Wassup Negra’s and Nigretts
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Ashanti
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I see you Tra!!!
@Man, i still emailed the show.
Wasup to everybody and anybody who follow in here after me.
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afternoon
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Hello one and all.
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What’s going on Ceo People.
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Hey~Ay!!!
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Hello ladies and gents
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Sup Fam
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Hello everyone. 🙂
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Helleor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wassup everybody.
Are we all tuning in for this one tonight.?? I am.
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Hello Ladies and Gentlemens.
Be sure and bring the talks back after the show.
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What’z up everyone. Tracy babbled the truth.
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LOL 😆 @ this topic. My girl pulling out all the stops.
Can’t wait. *wink~
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Oh this is gone be good cause i know a whole lotta women who’ve been engaged for 10, 12 and 20 + years and ain’t said “I Do” yet!!!!! 😆
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY? Yeah it’s an age old game. about as old as prostitution. And when some dudes put “a ring on it” that shit be cubic zirconium cause the know they ain’t really marrying the chick. Smh
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY?
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So glad you didn’t bit ya tongue on that one @Q.
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY?
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all day erday.
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY?
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That’s why I’m tuning in. Although she’d never come out and say PUSSY on her show I like tuning in for the PROPERNESS of it all. 😆 Cause ya know she be so damn PROPER!!!!
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY?
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Y’all SO NASTY! All of you!
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Okay Trace I guess the “THANG” is the PUSSY?
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Oh MY how blunt!
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Great Rhyme to what sounds like a another “HOT TOPIC” Tuning in like Flynn.
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Wow and so many women settle for the bullshit. They know the ring is just “a thing” but they go along with it because of the so called status quo. They think it makes them look like “see I gotta a man” knowing dude ain’t got no job to hold you down. let alone a real ring….chile please!!!
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Yeah sex is the biggest reason for marriage, the ring and the front if necessary. LOL 😆 but tuning in tonight cause Tracy bees spilling the real tea and nuttin but…….the tea.
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Not engaged yet but I’m hoping. and yeah i’m marrying when and if the sex is good. hell that’s gone be my main reason. 😆
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😆 LMAO at Tra’s topic…I gots to hear this.
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Oh shit!!!!
Good topic!!!!
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Tracy’s topics catch my attention every time…The Conversations are on every Wednesday 😆 the rest of the week we can go to hell but on Wednesday’s the Conversations start right chere!!!
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Tuning in.
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“Some women are willing to cross the Atlantic ocean and lay down their lives just to get that ring!”
LOL 😆 at that statement in the post. Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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Mm some of US ARE!!!!~
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Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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“Get that ring b4 spring” Whitley Gilbert, A Different World.
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Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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I agree with Tammy. Some women are! Sad but true.
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Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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Please some girls/women have taken being engaged to whole new level. You would be surprised. Seriously…Tracy hit the nail on the head with this topic. And I can’t wait to tune in tonight. Campus closes as of tomorrow too. It’s gone be a party up in R dorm.
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Tracy made some of us sound so thirsty and desperate.
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Some women are but why wear his ring if there is no love or marriage as the outcome. Who wants to do that?
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Ion know but that’s a bad ass ring in the pic. 🙂
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“The ring for some women serve the purpose as a status quo, they’d like to feel as though their ten, twelve, thirteen and/or twenty-five plus year courtship is going to another level. When in fact it’s really going nowhere, except to your weekly rendezvous at your local motel 6, hanging out at his place or your yearly get-aways to a remote location.”
Well Dayum the whole statement is true..Tra calling it out but it’s true. And some couples are satisfied with that but two eaches own…. shit or get off the pot. thank God I aint have to tell my hubby that.
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Ok Fam….I am literally LMMFAO 😆 @ –>>“The ring for some women serve the purpose as a status quo, they’d like to feel as though their ten, twelve, thirteen and/or twenty-five plus year courtship is going to another level. When in fact it’s really going nowhere, except to your weekly rendezvous at your local motel 6, hanging out at his place or your yearly get-aways to a remote location.”
Wow !!
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Great topic and write up Trace (10* thumbs up) !!!! Tuning in as always.
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Oh another great topic can’t wait.
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OMG touchy. One of my girlfriends has been engaged for like 5 years already.
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OMG touchy. One of my girlfriends has been engaged for like 5 years already.
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so you need to grab ya homegirl, hold her hand and listen to the show. don’t be scered.
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OMG touchy. One of my girlfriends has been engaged for like 5 years already.
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so you need to grab ya homegirl, hold her hand and listen to the show. don’t be scered.
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Who said somebody was scared? My girlfriend just may not like what she hears is all. We all been tryna tell her her so called fiance ain’t serious about her
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OMG touchy. One of my girlfriends has been engaged for like 5 years already.
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One of my girlfriends about 4 years…Uma get her to tune in with me tonight.
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LOL 😆 I’m LUVIN Tra for this one.
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Oh wow…”When the engagement ring ain’t nothing but a thing” I will be tuning in tonight to hear this one as usual.
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Loving this topic……Oh man I can’t wait to tune in and hear how Tracy is gonna spin her topic….Unfortunately this is true. Couples getting engaged but don’t actually make it to he altar. Why is that???
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“Sometimes the buck stops with the engagement ring”
Damn sure do cuz some women just want the ring w/o ever getting married. they have their reasons. My one homey’s GF was on welfare. so she wanted the ring but didn’t wanna get married. Go fucking figure Smh. and he gave her a ring like a fool…she ain’t wanna let go of dem checks.
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Ion care what any of y’all say Tra be talkin bout some real shit.
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Tracy be coming up with some greeeaaaat topics! 😆
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this is a step on ya toe type of topic.
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this is a step on ya toe type of topic.
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Only if your toes are sticking out and in a position to be stepped on 😆
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this is a step on ya toe type of topic.
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It’s only a show.
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Oooooh I’l be tuning in as usual.
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Love Tra’s topics.
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That’s a bad ass ring in that pic. A kneegrow give me something like that and ion care if we don’t ever get married. 😆
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This is going to be another “hot to death” show!!!! Can’t wait.
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My aunt and Uncle been engaged since I was a baby. Going on my Sr. Year in college. should I be sharing this show with them? 😆
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Wished there was a way I could broadcast this show live in my neighborhood. So many girls want the ring w/o really knowing the responsibility behind being engaged. Wearing an engagement ring is the new fashion statement in my neighborhood.
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Lawd have mercy 😆 that damn Blog Queen AKA Tracy Bell and these TOPICS!!! I wanted to jump out the window when i saw this one.
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I had a long engagement before I got married. It was a matter of my husband then fiance and i having to save some money. But we did it and now we’re about 20+ years strong praise God!
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Can’t wait to hear the show though. 🙂
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Sometimes the buck stops with the engagement ring and the relationship goes no further. Why is that? What happened to the man’s intent behind the giving of the ring? Did he just give you the ring to “get that thing“? And are you satisfied with wearing this “front?”
I don’t know if I’m ready for this topic 😆 I don’t know too many women who would get the ring and not insist on setting a wedding date. Then again the guy shouldn’t give a ring unless he intend to marry the girl. Great topic of discussion. I’ll be tuning in as usual.
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Trace ain’t ever got to worry when i give her my ring i’m settin da date.
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Trace ain’t ever got to worry when i give her my ring i’m settin da date
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And you ain’t even gots to worry cause you’ll never get that close.
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I’m #Teamkeepitrealwitaniggra don’t give me no ring just to get the thing. Then again sistahs giving it up in hopes of eventually getting the ring after giving up the thing. Dayum I been reading Tracy’s shit a little too long. 😆
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ok people saddle up, the conversation starts in about 15 minutes.
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Waiting….C’mon on now I gots to hear this.
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Ok chill @Natasha, she got about 2 minutes.
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I’m excited!!!
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is anyone here engaged to be married?
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OMG she ending it on Lauren Hill 😆
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How you gone win when you ain’t right within!!!!
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That thing!
That thing
That thiiiing
That thing!
That thing
That thiiing!!!
Show was HOT like fire!!!
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when the marriage never happens the engagement ring ain’t nothing but a thing!! show was the truth once again.
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Tracy be mentioning sex like it’s taboo n shit…Just come out and say it got damnit!!! alotta y’all dropping the drawers for the ring and he ain’t taking you to the altar
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Good show!
I’m engaged have been now for a year getting married in September and as much as I DISAGREE with most of Tracy’s subjects and opinions tonite was a good show. I was happy when she broke some stuff down. Thank God we set our date as soon as he asked me to marry him.
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GTFOH @Angelhair, somebody marrying ya crazy, opinionated, hateful ass!
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YES AND we’re happy!!!
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Congratulations @Angelhair, tonight was a good show as usual.
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Angelhair, I don’t like U but Congratulations nevertheless.
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Congratulations Angelhair,
I hope the show either confirmed or shed some light on your upcoming nuptials.
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Not engaged yet but made sure i heard this show wit my boo…he knew something was up cus i usually listen to “Conversations of a Sistah” by myself. 🙂 that show threw major hints and shade.
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It’s been three weeks since you were looking for your friend
The one you let hit it and never called you again
Remember when he told you he was about the Benjamins?
You act like you ain’t here him, but gave him a little trim
To begin, how you think you’re really going to pretend
Like you wasn’t down and you called him again?
Plus when, you give it up so easy you ain’t even foolin’ him
If you did it then, then you’d probably do it again
Talking out your neck, saying you’re a Christian
A Muslim, sleeping with the Gin
Now that was the sin that did Jezebel in
Who’re you going to tell when the repercussions spin?
Showing off your ass ’cause your thinking it’s a trend
Girlfriend, let me break it down for you again
You know I only say it ’cause I’m truly genuine
Don’t be a hard rock, when you really are a gem
Baby girl, respect is just the minimum
Nigga’s creepin’ and you still defending him
Now Lauryn is only human
Don’t think I haven’t been through the same predicament
Let it sit inside your head like a million women in Philly been
It’s silly when girls sell their souls because it’s in
Look at what you be in, hair weaves like Europeans
Fake nails up out Koreans
Come again
Yo, when when come again
When when come again
My friend come again
Guys you know you’d better, watch out
Some girls, some girls are only, about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing
The second verse is dedicated to the men
More concerned with his rims and his Tim’s than his women
Him and his men, come in the club like hooligans
Don’t care who they offend poppin’ game, like you got yen
Let’s stop pretend, the ones that pissed out by they waste men
Cristal by the case men, still living in his Mother’s basement
The pretty face men claiming that they be the big men
Need to take care of their three and four kids
But they face a court case when the child support’s late
Money taking and heart breaking now you wonder why women hate men
The sleepy silent men, the punk domestic violence men
Quick to shoot the scene, stop acting like boys and be men
How you gonna win, when you ain’t right within?
How you gonna win, when you ain’t right within?
How you gonna win, when you ain’t right within?
Come again
Yo yo, come again
Bro-straight come again
Sit straight come again
Watch out, watch out
Look out, look out
Watch out, watch out
Look out, look out
Watch out, watch out
Look out, look out
Watch out, watch out
Look out, look out
Girls you know you’d better, watch out
Some guys, some guys are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing
Guys you know you’d better, watch out
Some girls, some girls are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing
Girls you know you’d better, watch out
Some guys, some guys are only about
That thing, that thing, that thing
That thing, that thing, that thing
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If nothing else Trace made it extremely clear that an engagement is a PROMISE TO MARRY!!!! and if there is a delay in marriage the promise may never happen.
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As usual I thought the show topic was interesting. These are things some of us never even consider because we’re so caught up in them. Thank you Tracy for always shedding some light.
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I was engaged once and never married. she had the kids and i realized she just wasn’t for me. i let her keep the ring too.
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Stop lying @Omar!!
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I don’t need to lie. Seriously it was about 3 yrs ago. I was one of the men Tracy was talkin bout..I wasn’t ready. I realized I didn’t want a ready made family.
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Good look Omar man, it’s easy to get in and harder to get out!!
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yeah the show was UNISEX tonight.
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yeah the show was UNISEX tonight.
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WTF do you mean??? both men and women?
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Caught the show the rewind and thought it was good. Trace is only telling us ladies and gentlemen how to do IT RIGHT!!! or don’t do it at all.
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Great show Tracy 😆
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Caught the show on the rewind..downloaded and listened to it this morning and loved it. very informative as always looking forward to next week’s topic.
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Hey Lisa
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