This is a term used for contemporary homosexuals who hide their identities by living in the closet. This is why revealing one’s homosexuality is referred to as a “coming out”.
Gay men and women have difficulties acknowledging their homosexuality, either to themselves or to others due to their psychological complex. This is why a lot of gay people conceal important aspects of themselves such as their love life or a significant other. It’s like living the good lie.
Closet individuals cannot reveal to themselves, let alone to others their homoerotic feelings, attraction or fantasies. This is why these individuals continue to remain in the closet. They never marry or openly date because their hidden desires are only expressed behind closed doors. Their homosexuality is so unacceptable that it must be kept out of conscious awareness and cannot be integrated into their public persona. Consequently, these feelings must be dissociated from the self and hidden from others.
I have more respect for men who are openly gay and conservative, then those tall, dark, handsome, big bulky men who are closet homosexuals and allude their truth. And while a homosexual or lesbian lifestyle might be popular and unshocking in today’s society, some chose to live quietly gay to protect their professional images and lifestyle.
This may all be fine for some but don’t claim to be straight, when you’re really GAY and living in the closet.
Side note: The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.
Conversations Of A Sistah 
almost couldn’t find the comment button. i don’t know any dudes living in the closet. but damn that’s a pretty big secret to be hide ing.
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morning queen,
dey blocked the internet at work…. i miss ya’ll
how bout a late nite post once a week Tra?
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morning ladies….y’all some real early birds.
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morning B…i figure i get my say in early 🙂
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morning wassup y’all
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morning fam…welcome back kayla 🙂
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morning
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wassup fam…it’s fuckin monday again 😦
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morning early ceo risers
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good morning everyone
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good morning everyone
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morning people.
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morning
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good morning
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hey everybody…..welcome back Kayla gurl 🙂
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greetings all.
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afternoon fam fam.
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afternoon all. 😉
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heller
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wassup beautiful peoples.
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hey y’all~
what’s good???? y’all having a good monday so far.
I am one mo hour ta go!!!!!!!!!
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hello all..it’s late but i’m checkin in.
happy monday.
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Hello everyone. yes when men don’t marry and lie about girlfriend’s they are in the closet and on the downlow.
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whaddup erbody…so happy to see kayla back
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WHAZ GOOD MY CEO PEEPS
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Happy Monday all!
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whaddup y’all
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evening ceo’ers
🙂
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I don’t know no ‘livin in da closet monfuckers’ but apparently trace do.
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dayum!!!!!!!!!! who in da closet and where da flying fuck did this post come from? do we have any gay people in the fam? wtf???
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downlow men are the worst kind.
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“Claiming to be “Straight” But Living In The Closet”
wow. this post should blow they asses right out the closet.
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ok i think it’s safe to say trace know a gay dude who claims to be str8. he busted now. lmao
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aw shit now.
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must we have this conversation again? some people just won’t detail their sexuality. it’s their business and their preference but to claim or pretend you’re str8 but you really gay is wrong.
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smh..what’s even sadder is when you fall for a gay guy claimin to be straight. that’s the real tragedy.
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closet homos and downlow men are the worst because they are living a LIE!!!!! tell the truth and come out, come out wherever you are.
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sad..can’t be happy living in the closet.
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“I have more respect for men who are openly gay and conservative, then those tall, dark, handsome, big bulky men who are closet homosexuals and allude their truth.”
PREACH*
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closet..downlow..whateva as long as they don’t date str8 women in return. that’s why there is a high HIV epidemic amongst black women.
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picture is priceless 🙂
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all the downlow niggas step aside….this posts for u
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I’m sure there are alotta brothas stayin in the closet. some of them don’t want their images scattered. IDGAF just don’t tryda holla @ me and don’t pretend u want me when u really want the johnson that’s all.
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downlow in da closet up another man’s ass either way it’s sick
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wow ms. bell..this post is a deep analysis but true…put it on blast!!!
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any sin in secret is to HIDE FROM DELIVERANCE from it!!!!~ Bottom line.
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look @em tellin us to shshhhhh!!!!!
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look @em tellin us to shshhhhh!!!!!
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It’s only a picture @Starr, Tracy said—>“The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.”
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ollie, ollie, oxon free~~~~~
LMMFAO @ this gay/downlow shit……
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downlow? in da closet? oh this is too much.
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I’m not a man NO. but i couldn’t have another man going up my ass with his dick. just like i couldn’t have another’s woman’s mouth on my poo-nah-nah.
gross!!!!
God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.
I’m done.
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God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.
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COSIGN. POINT. BLANK. PERIOD.
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God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.
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LOL Ok now.
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I reckon “our blog queen” know atleast “1” downlow in the closet man???? Huh? This post is hinting at something IMO.
I thank God for “WOMAN” cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.
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This post is hinting at something ->>>OR SOMEBODY
Hey Zion 🙂
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I thank God for “WOMAN” cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.
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I hear that!
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cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.
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HOLLA
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Side note: The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.
I didn’t think so.
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i don said my peace now i’m movin on.
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God made woman for man, today, tomorrow and 4ever more and that ain’t never gonna change i don’t care how many gay laws albany pass. God is the same and HIS Word never changes people.
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This may all be fine for some but don’t claim to be straight, when you’re really GAY and living in the closet.
Ain’t never been no future in frontin, this is why some DOWNLOW homo’s never marry or leave their wife cause they really want dick..sad, sick and FUCKED up but true
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I know a dude that’s downlow and he don’t like to talk about who he datin or if he datin. then he had the nerve to tell me he celibate. waitin for marriage and i’m like ok, yeah whateva nigga only you and God know da truth.
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Um kinda tired of this subject.
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Um kinda tired of this subject.
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so don’t read, roll up in here or comment.
Browse, lurk and keep it movin.
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Um kinda tired of this subject.
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so don’t read, roll up in here or comment.
Browse, lurk and keep it movin.
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COSIGN. CAUSE WE’LL RIDE THIS TOPIC TILL THE COWS COME HOME.
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THAT PIC ALONE MADE ME WANNA READ THE WHOLE POST. HOW BEFITTING.
DOWNLOW BROTHAS ARE THE WORST KINDA BROTHAS CAUSE THEY WILL GO TO THEY GRAVES W/O ADMITTING THEY GAY. BUT NEVER MARRY AND SOME NO WIFEY OR KIDS. SHERMAN HEMSLEY KEPT IT REAL. HE WAS GAY AND LEFT HERE WITH NO WIFE OR KIDS. I SAY DON’T PLAY WITH THE PUSSY IF YA PLAYING IN 2 PLAYGROUNDS.
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see ladies this is why my gaydar stays razor sharp
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not everybody’s ghey.
but truth is, a lotta pple are.
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WTF??? I don’t know NO downlow nigga. not in my crew.
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if a man prefer to be with a man there will be absolutely no attraction for a woman. so turn up your instincts ladies. he won’t even wanna kiss you. touching you will gross him OUT!
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dayum i believe it’s an ego thing. “downlow” and “in the closet men” have an image to uphold. but no thank you sir you won’t be fucking me and him too. sticking his shit in two holes. one hole got shit in it. Ugh that’s ok. no “in da closet men” for me.
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I hope a new post is coming soon.
We talkin bout ‘downlow in da closet niggas’ in this one and lesbian killers in the other one.
@Tra, can we get a new post on some clean, str8 hetrosexual shit soon?
Please and thank you!!!!!
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it’s foul to be living in the closet but got people thinking you a str8 hetro. whether you a homo or lesbo. be who and what u are to avoid the consequences of your lifestyle.
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SMH @ the downlow brothas…wow.
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