“Claiming to be “Straight” But Living In The Closet”…


This is a term used for contemporary homosexuals who hide their identities by living in the closet. This is why revealing one’s homosexuality is referred to as a “coming out”.

Gay men and women have difficulties acknowledging their homosexuality, either to themselves or to others due to their psychological complex. This is why a lot of gay people conceal important aspects of themselves such as their love life or a significant other. It’s like living the good lie.

Closet individuals cannot reveal to themselves, let alone to others their homoerotic feelings, attraction or fantasies. This is why these individuals continue to remain in the closet. They never marry or openly date because their hidden desires are only expressed behind closed doors. Their homosexuality is so unacceptable that it must be kept out of conscious awareness and cannot be integrated into their public persona. Consequently, these feelings must be dissociated from the self and hidden from others.

I have more respect for men who are openly gay and conservative, then those tall, dark, handsome, big bulky men who are closet homosexuals and allude their truth. And while a homosexual or lesbian lifestyle might be popular and unshocking in today’s society, some chose to live quietly gay to protect their professional images and lifestyle.

This may all be fine for some but don’t claim to be straight, when you’re really GAY and living in the closet.

Side note: The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.

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74 thoughts on ““Claiming to be “Straight” But Living In The Closet”…

  1. almost couldn’t find the comment button. i don’t know any dudes living in the closet. but damn that’s a pretty big secret to be hide ing.

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  2. dayum!!!!!!!!!! who in da closet and where da flying fuck did this post come from? do we have any gay people in the fam? wtf???

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  3. “Claiming to be “Straight” But Living In The Closet”

    wow. this post should blow they asses right out the closet.

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  4. ok i think it’s safe to say trace know a gay dude who claims to be str8. he busted now. lmao

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  5. must we have this conversation again? some people just won’t detail their sexuality. it’s their business and their preference but to claim or pretend you’re str8 but you really gay is wrong.

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  6. smh..what’s even sadder is when you fall for a gay guy claimin to be straight. that’s the real tragedy.

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  7. closet homos and downlow men are the worst because they are living a LIE!!!!! tell the truth and come out, come out wherever you are.

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  8. “I have more respect for men who are openly gay and conservative, then those tall, dark, handsome, big bulky men who are closet homosexuals and allude their truth.”

    PREACH*

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  9. closet..downlow..whateva as long as they don’t date str8 women in return. that’s why there is a high HIV epidemic amongst black women.

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  10. I’m sure there are alotta brothas stayin in the closet. some of them don’t want their images scattered. IDGAF just don’t tryda holla @ me and don’t pretend u want me when u really want the johnson that’s all.

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    • look @em tellin us to shshhhhh!!!!!
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      It’s only a picture @Starr, Tracy said—>“The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.”

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  11. I’m not a man NO. but i couldn’t have another man going up my ass with his dick. just like i couldn’t have another’s woman’s mouth on my poo-nah-nah.
    gross!!!!

    God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.

    I’m done.

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    • God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.
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      COSIGN. POINT. BLANK. PERIOD.

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    • God intended for man and woman to use their bodily tools accordingly.
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      LOL Ok now.

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  12. I reckon “our blog queen” know atleast “1” downlow in the closet man???? Huh? This post is hinting at something IMO.

    I thank God for “WOMAN” cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.

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    • I thank God for “WOMAN” cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.
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      I hear that!

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    • cause ain’t nothing like a good BLACK woman for a successful black man.
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      HOLLA

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  13. Side note: The picture in this post does not relate to its topic, it was chosen ramdomly to fit the subject at hand.

    I didn’t think so.

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  14. God made woman for man, today, tomorrow and 4ever more and that ain’t never gonna change i don’t care how many gay laws albany pass. God is the same and HIS Word never changes people.

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  15. This may all be fine for some but don’t claim to be straight, when you’re really GAY and living in the closet.

    Ain’t never been no future in frontin, this is why some DOWNLOW homo’s never marry or leave their wife cause they really want dick..sad, sick and FUCKED up but true

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  16. I know a dude that’s downlow and he don’t like to talk about who he datin or if he datin. then he had the nerve to tell me he celibate. waitin for marriage and i’m like ok, yeah whateva nigga only you and God know da truth.

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    • Um kinda tired of this subject.
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      so don’t read, roll up in here or comment.
      Browse, lurk and keep it movin.

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      • Um kinda tired of this subject.
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        so don’t read, roll up in here or comment.
        Browse, lurk and keep it movin.
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        COSIGN. CAUSE WE’LL RIDE THIS TOPIC TILL THE COWS COME HOME.

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  17. THAT PIC ALONE MADE ME WANNA READ THE WHOLE POST. HOW BEFITTING.

    DOWNLOW BROTHAS ARE THE WORST KINDA BROTHAS CAUSE THEY WILL GO TO THEY GRAVES W/O ADMITTING THEY GAY. BUT NEVER MARRY AND SOME NO WIFEY OR KIDS. SHERMAN HEMSLEY KEPT IT REAL. HE WAS GAY AND LEFT HERE WITH NO WIFE OR KIDS. I SAY DON’T PLAY WITH THE PUSSY IF YA PLAYING IN 2 PLAYGROUNDS.

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  18. if a man prefer to be with a man there will be absolutely no attraction for a woman. so turn up your instincts ladies. he won’t even wanna kiss you. touching you will gross him OUT!

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  19. dayum i believe it’s an ego thing. “downlow” and “in the closet men” have an image to uphold. but no thank you sir you won’t be fucking me and him too. sticking his shit in two holes. one hole got shit in it. Ugh that’s ok. no “in da closet men” for me.

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  20. I hope a new post is coming soon.

    We talkin bout ‘downlow in da closet niggas’ in this one and lesbian killers in the other one.

    @Tra, can we get a new post on some clean, str8 hetrosexual shit soon?

    Please and thank you!!!!!

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  21. it’s foul to be living in the closet but got people thinking you a str8 hetro. whether you a homo or lesbo. be who and what u are to avoid the consequences of your lifestyle.

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