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“Can Bad Sex Ruin A Marriage And Lead To Divorce?”

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October 1, 2011 by The ReadyWriter


Or is sex important in the marriage period?~

Kristina Dzara author and professor at Southern Illinois University, examined the role of sex in marriage and says it depends on three measures of sexuality in the first three to six months of marriage.  The frequency of sexual intercourse, sexual satisfaction, and agreement between spouses will and can predict if they will divorce by the 5th year of marriage.

Although there are a lot of factors that can contribute to divorce such as, marital quality, early marriage, cohabitation and so much more.  In order to get a better understanding of the effects of sexuality in marriage, she considered many of the following factors:

  1. Does frequency of sexual intercourse matter in terms of couples staying together?
  2. Satisfaction with sex and physical intimacy?
  3. And the effect of a husband’s sexual satisfaction with respect to the prospects of divorce?

The professor concluded, for wives, satisfaction with physical intimacy and marital satisfaction seem to be rolled into one overall factor. Not so for men. When men report being satisfied with their marriage, this reduces their likelihood for divorce, and if they also report being sexually satisfied, then divorce is even more unlikely.

What’s your opinion?

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35 thoughts on ““Can Bad Sex Ruin A Marriage And Lead To Divorce?”

  1. Mrs. Hawthorne says:

    chile please it gets better and better and better!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    🙂

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    • SueWee says:

      COSIIIIIIIIIIIIIGNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!

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      • CorporateBitch says:

        I don’t know if it gets better and better but i intend to practice till i get to the altar with a husband?

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      • Ionna says:

        I don’t know if it gets better and better but i intend to practice till i get to the altar with a husband?
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        damn don’t you wanna have something to look forward too???????

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      • CorporateBitch says:

        damn don’t you wanna have something to look forward too???????
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        yeah sex with my husband hopefully. but atleast i won’t feel bad feeling i’ve missed something if i’ve been dycktamized on a regular. 🙂

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      • Ashanti says:

        yeah sex with my husband hopefully. but atleast i won’t feel bad feeling i’ve missed something if i’ve been dycktamized on a regular
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        you need to STFU while you still sound like a stank HO instead of a loose HO.

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      • Natasha says:

        @Mrs,
        I cosign, bad sex? I don’t know how other people feel but I have never experience­d bad sex, only good, better and great sex.

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  2. Tabatha says:

    ***Can Bad Sex Ruin Your Marriage?*­**
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    Um……..a bad marriage can ruin sex.

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  3. Ionna says:

    There is so much more involved in a good marriage and good sex is just the icing on the cake.

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  4. ELovely says:

    Unless there is emotional intimacy, true and deep friendship­, compatible personalit­ies and cohabitati­on habits it’sll never work good sex or not!

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  5. Al-scream says:

    If the love between that man and that woman is true and abiding love, the sex will be OFF THE FUCKIN HOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  6. Rezzie says:

    if God is IN IT, everything else will fall into place.

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  7. XMen says:

    Is good sex AN essential to a lasting marriage? —-> PRETTY MUCH!!!

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  8. RandomChick says:

    Hell yeah bad sex can ruin a marriage.

    cheap and mean can too

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  9. Acquitta says:

    If the sex is bad, why get married in the first place? *rolls eyes*

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    • Angelhair says:

      If the sex is bad, why get married in the first place? *rolls eyes*
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      if you ain’t married should you be having the sex?

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  10. Ashanti says:

    This post ain’t for me so my mouth will stay shut on this one.

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  11. Ms. Kayla says:

    routine sex with the same partner over and over will get old after a while, especially in marriage, unless both people make a concerted effort to keep things spiced up.

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  12. Danny says:

    Bad sex is worse than no sex at all!
    But, in a pinch, masturbate­, at least you’ll be with someone you love!

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    • Ashanti says:

      Bad sex is worse than no sex at all!
      But, in a pinch, masturbate­, at least you’ll be with someone you love!
      _______________________________

      LMMFAO you stoopid @Danny.

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      • RandomChick says:

        But, in a pinch, masturbate­, at least you’ll be with someone you love!
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        *Dead 🙂 LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

        Wow!!!

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      • Yvonne says:

        But, in a pinch, masturbate­, at least you’ll be with someone you love!
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        LOL

        🙂

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  13. UncleEd says:

    If the woman isn’t into it, the sex can be bad.

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    • Yvonne says:

      If the woman isn’t into it, the sex can be bad.
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      esp. if they’re dry humps. lol

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      • Wanda says:

        If the woman isn’t into it, the sex can be bad.
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        and even worst when we fake the orgasm

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  14. Adriane says:

    Isnt sex suppose to be like driving? the more you do it the better you get at it?

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    • Yasha says:

      That’s the reason you wait, then there is no comparisons

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      • Gia says:

        That’s the reason you wait, then there is no comparisons
        *****************************************************************
        @Yasha, practice makes perfect and you want to be ready for your wedding day!

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  15. Cameo1 says:

    And what about the other side of the coin Tra?
    Those with amazing sex lives who divorce anyway?

    And as everyone knows, not divorcing is not an indication of happiness, fidelity, or compatibil­ity – sexual or otherwise: all that not divorcing says about a marriage is that the people are still married.

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  16. Zenna says:

    There are three things that will ruin a marriage. Not necessaril­y in this order, these are:

    1. Money,
    2. Sex, and
    3. In-laws

    (Note: Sometimes, its a combinatio­n of ALL).

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    • Ms. Kayla says:

      There are three things that will ruin a marriage.
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      Don’t mistresses and concubines count and should be added to your list?

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      • UncleEd says:

        Don’t mistresses and concubines count and should be added to your list?
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        No, they save more marriages than they hurt.

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  17. Mahogany says:

    Needy men will cheat. But a man that wants you wants YOU. just my opinion

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  18. SlickRick says:

    people stay cause they want to , people leave cause they want to…period

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