That’s what Mo’Nique said on her show, as she went into what women need to do in order to keep a man happy in a relationship. Mo’Nique and her guests seem to think that black women work too hard to take control in their relationships.
Her disposition seems to imply that black women have been taught to be too independent and this leads to the breakdown of their relationships. This is not only the case with black women but all women of different races as well.
She actually says that black women “ sit down” (in the bathroom) for a reason and that men “stand up” for a reason. Obviously, this rhetoric may not sit well with many black women, but some of you may wonder if Mo’Nique has a point.
On the Mo’Nique’s show which airs on BET, a couple provides an interesting perspective on black women being subservient to their men. That’s all well and good, if a women is subservient to the right man, who’ll respect her modesty in order to submit to such a will.
If you care to see the video from Mo’Nique’s show, follow my link here!