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“Mashonda’s Advice Via Her Twitter Page”

The ReadyWriter

Should be common sense, don’t you think?

When she made a cameo appearance on “Love and Hip Hop” the other week, speaking as if her only claim to fame is the fact; Alicia Keys stole her husband, I was turned off by her at that point. The world knows what happened Mashonda, it’s time to move on.

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101 thoughts on ““Mashonda’s Advice Via Her Twitter Page””

  6. Yeah, she should know since when she got with Swizz he had a woman at the time and that same woman had a baby with him while Mashonda was also with Swizz. GTFOH you and your advice

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  10. why does everything that comes outta her mouth have something to do with relationships, love, pain? Is this all she can think about after all this time has passed? She is still clearly hurt and obsessed with this shit. She’ll never get over this shit, will she?

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  13. Ah man, Meerkat Manor left you to play in another cave. MOVE ON!!! Im sick of the bitter bitch routine from her when she needs attention.

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  14. Would this bitch #diealready? Does she have a man? Judging from her last relationship where she allowed herself to be cheated on repeatedly, she’s the last heffa I’d take advice from.

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  16. Bitches get cheated on everyday what makes this bland hoe special? #moveonmashonda People are SO over you. Alicia won, deal with it.

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    1. Alicia won, deal with it.
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      Alicia ain’t won shit. Karma’s gonna handle her and Swizz’s ass real good. You can tell who has morals on here and who doesn’t, just by reading some of the comments. I mean who co-signs Alicia’s hoe ass behaviour? A hoe maybe? Ugh!

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      1. Alicia won, deal with it
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        What gets me is the fact people blame Alicia for the breakup. Anyone with sense knows that obviously there were problems before Swizz sought comfort elsewhere. It doesn’t have a damn thing to do with morals when a man no longer loves a woman. I don’t get it. Was he supposed to stay with Mashonda even though he wasn’t feeling her anymore? People fall out of love everyday. No matter how much Mashonda bemoans the fact is Swizz didn’t want her anymore. If it weren’t Alicia it’d be someone else. Mashonda needs to accept reality.

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      2. Um @Slick,

        sound like you are justifying adultery. Alicia Keys IS partly responsible for the break up because she took part in the affair that brought the marriage to a close. Yes people fall out of love and marriages end. The immorality comes into play when you seek extramarital sex and relationships. Swizz is wrong because he should have ended his marriage before beginning a relationship with A Keys. And I, personally, am disillusioned with Alicia Please because she vehemently denied being in a relationship with him until she got pregnant and could no longer hide it. She is known for being a humanitarian. She’s received worldwide recognition for it. She is one of the few artists that could have been considered a role model for younger women. But there is nothing respectable about engaging in an affair; sexual, emotional, or otherwise with a married man. It’s just trifling.

        Mashonda DOES need to move on. No doubt about that. And yes, she lost him the same way she got him. But that does not make A Keys and Swizz innocent in the matter.

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      3. Bird,

        Mashonda is making herself and women in general look bad with this desperation…. and God knows she needs Oprah, a sofa and a strong drink, HOWEVER just to mediate it a little I will say that contrary to your comment here: “It doesn’t have a damn thing to do with morals when a man no longer loves a woman.” and here: “Was he supposed to stay with Mashonda even though he wasn’t feeling her anymore?”

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      4. Alicia won, deal with it.
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        We dont need you to pan that out for the 100th time sister. What we DO need is for women like you (and the ones who dont mind being #2) to wake the hell up and realize that infidelity isnt going anywhere unless we (women) put a stop to it. We have just as much control as men do. Probably more.

        TWO elements needed in order for a man to cheat?
        1) A woman to cheat ON
        2) A woman to cheat WITH

        That’s the reality of it all. Of course swizz was a cheating dog already, and Lord knows he didn’t stop when he married A.keys. Why she thought she could change him is beyond me but women who dont mind being number 2 while he’s married to someone else better not mind remaining number 2 when he marries them.

        Best believe he’ll be out ho-ing again looking for his new temporary number one.

        We (women) contribute greatly to the demise of our own relationships/marriages by not letting go and holding on to what we know is unhealthy for our emotional/spiritual state. It’s too bad women like you dont wake up and realize the moral to the story until it happens to you.

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      5. Alicia won, deal with it.
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        Who is the better woman and what did she win? A cheatin ass man? Please! Swizz gon do to A. keys just as he did to Mashonda, the Uk chick and the one b4 her. end of story.

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      6. Alicia won, deal with it.
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        Who is the better woman and what did she win? A cheatin ass man? Please! Swizz gon do to A. keys just as he did to Mashonda, the Uk chick and the one b4 her. end of story.
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        I Co-sign!
        It seems like the dumbest one “won” because while this HO was screwing over his wife (again) he was screwing over his ho too. FOUR CHILDREN – FOUR MOTHERS(!!) I can count; you do the math. Using the term “winning” gives the expectation that a prize is and will be the end result. No such evidence exists in this case.

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  17. Mashonda keep on keepin’ on girl. At the end of the day Swizz was Her HUSBAND, not her baby daddy. Let her do her and heal in her own way. If what she says bothers you so much, how about you scroll past posts regarding her.

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    1. Mashonda keep on keepin’ on girl. At the end of the day Swizz was Her HUSBAND, not her baby daddy. Let her do her and heal in her own way. If what she says bothers you so much, how about you scroll past posts regarding her.
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      I would eat ten pounds of dog shit before I publicly harrass a man that’s made it clear he doesn’t want me. I don’t want someone that doesn’t want me nor can you force a nigga to want you. All the letters, tweets & interviews in the world won’t change that. He still moved on while Mashonda is running in place beating a dead horse.

      Talk about morals….what about DIGNITY?. Just because he’s your “husband” he has the right to make a fool outta you? GTFOH!

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      1. Mashonda will not go away nor let you forget Swizz did her wrong so she can get it. So what if Alicia denied screwing Swizz? She doesn’t owe Mashonda anything. Did Alicia tell her “I do”? People keep bringing up Alicia but she didn’t marry Mashonda. Swizz did or did everyone forget? She’s playing this out in the media. Luckily her son isn’t old enough to see this. If she can’t take criticism, here’s a novel idea, keep your business to yourself.

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      2. Now in regards to Mashonda, some people need to put themselves in her place. Alicia is an humanitarian, singing songs about Karma and Superwoman. Not only is she a fake. She’s a liar also, because when Mashonda confronted her and her ex-husband they both lied about the affair. Regardless of Swizz’s infidelities Mashonda wanted to work on her marriage with Swizz. Her heart was still in it. He was not only her husband, lover, the father of child etc, he was also her confidante.

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  21. *blank stare*

    Mashonda about 2 tweets away from being put on my “Triflin’ Ass Bitch” list right along side Tameka Foster Raymond.

    Girl, for the love of God Get over it already!!!!

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  22. Here’s CommonSense101 for Mashonda. When you havin a bad day cuz you can’t stop obsessing over how his beak used to stretch halfway up your stomach as he pecked the pussy, stay the fuck away from anything with a keyboard..

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  24. MaShonda needs to let it go. Subliminally Tweetin’ about A. Keys and Swizz is NOT going to make the past disappear. She needs to take everything as a learning lesson and stop dwelling on this. No one knows every detail that went down in her marriage to Swizz, who’s to say she was totally innocent? The bottom line is she needs to gracefully move on.

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  27. If she would just *hush* and allow karma to work that twisted shit out, maybe something would happen on her behalf but she just keep running her damn mouth about that beak nose swizz beaks and a. keys. let it go I say! I know it’s hard Mashonda but you can do it!!!!!!

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    1. Starr,

      I co-sign, she doesn’t realize she’s just helping their situation! If it wasn’t meant to be then it won’t. Just sit back and watch them self destruct instead of sounding like a bitter black woman. It’s sad, really..

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      1. If she would just *hush* and allow karma to work that twisted shit out
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        Some of you need to grow up. Marriages end everyday so I don’t see how karma is a factor

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      2. If she would just *hush* and allow karma to work that twisted shit out, maybe something would happen on her behalf but she just keep running her damn mouth about that beak nose swizz beaks and a. keys. let it go I say! I know it’s hard Mashonda but you can do it!!!!!!
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        Mashonda will not go away nor will she let us forget that Swizz did her wrong.

        So what if Alicia denied screwing Swizz? She doesn’t owe Mashonda anything. Did Alicia tell her “I do”? People keep bringing up Alicia but she didn’t marry Mashonda Swizz did, or did everyone forget? She’s playing this out in the media. Luckily her son isn’t old enough to see this. If she can’t take criticism, here’s a novel idea, keep your business to yourself.

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      3. Mashonda should deal with her heartbreak in her own way. It may not necessarily be the way I’d handle things, but than again I’m not her, neither am i God. Who am i to tell her how to handle and deal with her pain? She ain’t harming nobody so i say let her be. Alicia and Swizz shouldn’t be made to get off that easily any damn way, no matter how much time has passed.

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  30. DAMN, CAN SOMEBODY GET THIS CHICK A DATING REALITY SHOW ASAP BECAUSE SHE JUST CAN’T SEEM TO GET OVA THAT NIGGA…….WAS THE DICK THAT GOOD??????? DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  32. Mashonda, Mashonda, Swizz didn’t want you ANYMORE Boo, you served your purpose. Get over it dammit!!!!

    And no Alicia Keys will not be his last baby momma or his last wife…but damn can you please move the hell on, enough of this crazy bullshit from you and relationships.

    You can’t give advice because whatever you used to keep your man – didn’t work. For the record you are not that attractive…

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  33. c’mon Mashonda…you’re losing me here girl.

    yes healing takes some time for some people; but if its not out of her system by now-what 3 years now? it wont be, and its a long road ahead sounds like.

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  34. Wow…I couldn’t believe the episode of *Love and Hip Hop* where she openly talked about Swizz and Alicia and took that girl on a tour of her house showing her all the pictures still on the wall of her and Swizz. That shit shoulda been came down. This clearly shows that she’s still mourning the relationship and need help!!!! Mashonda can’t give nobody NO advice because she’s still dumb and hurt herself. SMH @ the fuckery!

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    1. Wow…I couldn’t believe the episode of *Love and Hip Hop* where she openly talked about Swizz and Alicia and took that girl on a tour of her house showing her all the pictures still on the wall of her and Swizz. That shit shoulda been came down.
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      she claimed the pictures are still up for her son, but she could put a small pic in her son’s room but to have that shit blown up on the walls, i think is a bit pyscho! the chick def. need help.

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      1. yes, yes, ya’ll! that bitch sound like she bout to go betty broderick on swizz and alicia’s asses.

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  37. This is what all bitter jealous women do… They keep talkin about how it ended and actin like they are relationship experts instead of moving on with their life… Get over it that dude left you and is happily married now…

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    1. This is what all bitter jealous women do… They keep talkin about how it ended and actin like they are relationship experts instead of moving on with their life… Get over it that dude left you and is happily married now…
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      You sound stoopid Natasha Alicia came between them so let her talk!

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      1. You sound stoopid Natasha Alicia came between them so let her talk!
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        And you don’t have a clue, so let me break it down for you…nobody can come between a marriage if the marriage is strong and if both parties involved are united on that (marital) front, believe that!

        Every marriage has its issues, but some are clearly stronger than others. There’s nothing that I’ve read about this marriage that screamed “bonded”. She married someone that she knew was a cheater–that doesn’t make him stupid, that makes her stupid. Period. I don’t take advice from people who make dumb-dumb decisions. Perhaps smart decisions that go awry maybe, but dumb dumb decisions from the jump..hell naw!

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      2. @Natasha,
        You would be bitter too if the man you married and have two children for cheated on you and now married to said woman and has a child with him.

        This will follow her for the rest of her life. I would be pi$$ed about it too if was me. The only difference is that my life is not in the public eye.

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      3. @Natasha,
        You would be bitter too if the man you married and have two children for cheated on you and now married to said woman and has a child with him.

        This will follow her for the rest of her life. I would be pi$$ed about it too if was me. The only difference is that my life is not in the public eye.
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        She has one child with him DramaQueen AngelHair. Furthermore, Swizzy was cheating on her BEFORE they got married and even made a baby with someone else BEFORE they got married and she still married him. Ain’t no need to feel sorry for her because she played the door mat for 10 years to a dude that is an azz. I feel bad for Alicia and Mashonda should too, instead of pining for this womanizer to come cheat on her azz some more.

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  38. What is wrong with this woman? Swiss Beatz did a number on her! She upset that Swizz left her and upgraded to Mrs.Keys. I hate the fact that he was married and cheated on her but she needs to move on. You women have problems moving forward and letting emotional pitfalls go. This is why you can’t establish peace and balance in new relationships. Just let it go.

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    1. Your comment holds a lot of truth. Basically some women hold on to baggage and bring it into their next relationship all the while not understanding why their current partnership is not working. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how understanding a man is, ladies will eventually sabotage their relationships because of past hurts.

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  39. Moshanda is making a spectacle of herself, while hiding behind the guise of mentorship for other women. If she is such a relationship expert she’d be in one, instead of holding on to past feelings. SMFH

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    1. Yup, you said it! Talk is cheap because she keeps telling the world she’s moved on but she keep twittering like she hasn’t. Seriously, Mashonda, moving on means you don’t speak on it anymore–dead subject matter babe. That includes dispensing useless advice that you chose not to follow yourself.

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      1. Mashonda just keep beating the same dead horse. If she was over this shit, she wouldn’t still have gigantic pictures of her and swizz all ova her house.

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      2. Mashonda just keep beating the same dead horse. If she was over this shit, she wouldn’t still have gigantic pictures of her and swizz all ova her house.
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        Her mouth says she’s over it but her mind, actions and emotions say something different.

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      3. I can understand her being hurt. I don’t think any of us know what it’s like to be married to someone and start a family with them, and then they just leave you for someone else.

        BUT with that said, she really needs to keep her rants about Swizz and Alicia private. Keep it off Twitter and keep it out of magazines, cuz she’s making herself look like a psychotic bitter woman who can’t let go of her ex.

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      4. Mashonda just keep beating the same dead horse.
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        Beating a Dead Horse? This woman has endured
        tremendous pain. She is reaching out for understanding.

        Hey Fam, can we stop hating and show her some love and support for a change?

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      5. Beating a Dead Horse? This woman has endured
        tremendous pain. She is reaching out for understanding.

        Hey Fam, can we stop hating and show her some love and support for a change?
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        Sorry, I don’t support stupidity. And do you really think she should still be in pain? It’s more painful to watch her tweet this nonnsense advice than anything. She’s mad that the perks have dried up, is all. Look at Juanita Jordan, she never said a word–she collected her bank and ran like hell. That’s class.

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  40. This psychotic bitch needs to seek help. How are you going to advise anyone when you made so many bad choices yourself and then tried to blame everyone else? Mashonda will fade to black in a minute. why? cause she’ll be in a str8 jacket soon.

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  41. That Big Beak fool Swizz must have some good shit! He got Mashonda trippin, he turned Alicia keys out so bad she’s blinded! And had a woman in the UK drop her drawers, then a kid all off his words. smh wow.

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    1. Exactly @Bird, she…pathetic…clownish…desperate for her ex husband…she can’t move on…poor thang…industry hoes are worse than hood hoes…

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  42. Cant STAND a bitter azz female. I feel sorry 4 the next man that has to deal with her baggage and emotional scars…SMH, been there dun that, and its not pretty. Ever try to convince, show and prove to a female that ur a good man, but always run into what the men in her PAST has done to her to make her how she is now…..RUN fast no matter how good she looks and how good her puss is… Mental scars on women are 4 life, I had to learn this FACT the hard way…

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  43. Ladies, don’t ever think that this type behavior is helping you or others b/c it’s not. These emotional outbursts need to be curtailed in order for this lady to move the fuck on. Mashonda is trying to be a role model for the bitter and pathetic.

    A man will never determine your worth as a women, your WORTH determines who you are as a women, not the companionship of someone else.

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  44. All women don’t do this. Mashonda is displaying stalker tendancies. This is not normal. Her and Swizzy broke up damn near 3 years ago. This is not normal behavior.

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    1. I agree! As long as she keeps talking about him and keeping that situation in conversation, she is making him relevant in her life and her spirit, and she’ll never be able to move on. She will remain bitter because she is no longer relevant in his life. It’s not that easy to to get over someone, but you have to get over someone for the hurt and bitterness to go away.

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  46. I as a woman who’s had experienced heartache completely understand where she’s coming from but give it a rest already,damn!!! SMH

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    1. chile please! everybody has experienced heart break, if you haven’t then you haven’t lived, that’s why she’s not special, we’ve all been there, done that and the more you’ve been hurt nobody can take you too that level of hurt again.

      she said, relationships don’t come out of someone’s else’s hurt, well guess what? when Swizz was with her he was hurting someone else. this seems to be this niccas pattern., so she needs to see that, STFU and move on. He and Akeys will eventually get theres.

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      1. Unfortunately – everything she mentioned are things you find out LATER in the relationship. In other words, she is not the first woman to be played and won’t be the last. No one can foresee the future of their relationship when they hot and in love. I mean was Swizz cheating on her throughout the whole relationship and she let him get away with it. Is that what she is trying to say?

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      2. I mean was Swizz cheating on her throughout the whole relationship and she let him get away with it. Is that what she is trying to say?
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        Whether she said it or not, that is what happened. He has three side babies spanning the length of her relationship with him to prove it.

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  47. Whether she has moved on or not, she is not qualified to give relationship advice. She has yet to have a successful relationship. She stayed with a man for 10 years who cheated on her repeatedly and made multiple babies with other women while they were together. Then she complained when the no good bastard left her when she should have been happy to be rid of his azz.

    Shut up Mashonda. People are trying to like you.

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      1. Whether she has moved on or not, she is not qualified to give relationship advice.
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        I agree, Mashonda CAN’T give no damn relationship advise. She can’t even keep her own man. Mashonda and Steve Harvey are drinking from the same ignorant fountain of knowledge.

        Get over it girl….it’s over.

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      2. Whether she has moved on or not, she is not qualified to give relationship advice.
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        I think she’s moved on, she had no other choice. Swizzy made a business move plain and simple. A.keys bought that sorry azz negro, and she’ll get what she paid for too.

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      3. I think she’s moved on, she had no other choice. Swizzy made a business move plain and simple. A.keys bought that sorry azz negro, and she’ll get what she paid for too.
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        yup good point @FLO.
        If he did it to his ex girl he will do it to his next girl, plain and simple. Women just fail to understand that.

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      4. Whether she has moved on or not, she is not qualified to give relationship advice.
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        Bottom line, he aint coming back…….so she may as well move on. I dont even know this chicken-head, but I’m tired of the barkin bout this shit.

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    1. She truely loved her husband.
      Do ya’ll know what that feels like.
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      Ain’t that much love in the world for a man who’s had multiple kids during the time of your relationship (pre and during marriage). I would’ve been giddy that HE filed for divorce so i can collect and run. You can’t possibly continue to be in love with someone who continues to disrespect you by cheating and fathering children. I can’t see it.

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      1. She truely loved her husband.
        Do ya’ll know what that feels like.
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        When you settle this is what happens, and Mashonda has the nerve to be butt hurt about her situation?

        When you lay with dogs you get up w/fleas, no man is worth your DIGINTY…..especially one that clearly could give two shyts about you. NEVER fall in love with someone who does not love you more. FAIL.

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      2. Mannnnn…….heartbreak ain’t no joke……let that woman say what she feels……..sometimes it’s not that easy to get over someone that has hurt you bad……y’all women sound terrible…….what y’all hearts made out of steele????!!!!

        WoW!!!!

        Come lay on my couch Mashonda and talk ya azz off bout Swizz if you want too.

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      3. @ADAM,
        She used this situation to further her career: new single, cover magazine, show. To say otherwise would be a lie. I love how she keeps talkin mess, and swizz and keys goin on about their business and not payin her no mind. She’s not over it, her tweets prove it, you can make a change and help women without being vocal about it 24/7.

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  49. She really needs to give it up. She has already said this shit in some way, shape, form or fashion in countless interviews.

    I’m not knocking her advice but she needs to talk about something else not involving men.

    She acts like she’s the first married woman to ever be cheated on!!! GTFOH!!! Heard it all before…

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      4. Hey Choco what it do mizz!!!

        Easter i’m going over my friend’s family home to grub on their food….seeing that my folks are in sunny Florida soaking up the sun!!!

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